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HMy maid (age around 35) has been getting abused by her husband. Daily beatings were usual. The husband is a jobless drunkard to does nothing except snatching her income and beating her at night.
Her daughter (age 16) tried complaining to Jharsa thana and sector 40 thana (in Gurgaon) multiple times, but each time they only keep him overnight before releasing him. They keep asking money to do anything more.
Last night, he beat her so much that she is hospitalised now. Her daughter fears of their safety. What can I do or suggest them to do so that her husband is permanently put away?
Few details: They have tried rehab and living seperately, but he keeps coming back. The daughter has pictures of her injured mother.
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DDo not get yourself entangled in other people’s family matters especially if you have a formal/contractual dealings with them
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DWhat part of “What can I do or suggest them to do so that her husband is permanently put away?” says you are not getting involved?
Trying to help or educate someone is different vs getting emotionally involved with limited/unverified details is different. Your text sounds its the latter
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HYou seem a lot more emotionally involved here than I do. There’s help, and then there’s posturing. Your text sounds it’s the latter.
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PTalk to an NGO. They will help. Try reaching out to an NGO that specialises in these matters. Also unless she stands upto to him and kicks him out, nothing will work.
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SA long time ago, when I was a kid, our maid’s daughter came to mom and said her mom couldn’t come to work cz she got beaten up. Apparently, I told her to beat him right back. I don’t remember this. They were multiple siblings, some of then grown up. I’m not fasting they should take kar into their own facts, but self defence is a valid reason to beat someone up. Especially if they start it.
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