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SNAL.
I agree with all the lawyers asking you to go for contesting divorce proceedings. Before you go ahead, immediately, (maybe today itself) Put cameras outside your main door and also one inside your living room. Make sure the cams are with Mic and not just visuals which record audio as well.
This way you can record everything when she tries to come to your house uninvited / forcefully. It can help you as evidence in the court during the proceedings.
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STrap has been laid …. Lawyer up, record everything and everyone…
This will be the first step of your bankruptcy……
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WWait, she’s been living separately at her parent’s place for 3 years but you have a 2 year old child?
The math makes no sense.
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BLawyer here based in Delhi.
If your wife has been living separately for 3 years without sufficient cause and is now refusing mutual divorce, you have the option to file a contested divorce under the ground of desertion, provided the separation was voluntary and without your consent for at least 2 years.
If you are not convinced about reconciling and want to proceed legally, you should document everything carefully and consult a lawyer to begin divorce proceedings. Her earlier refusal to return, leaving behind the child, and now suddenly changing her position may be relevant during trial.
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CHi. Lawyer here based in Kolhapur.
I absolutely agree with this opinion. It might be the appropriate time to consult a good lawyer from your area and file for contested divorce under the grounds of desertion. I also agree with other advices in the comment threads about maintaining all the right documentation as well as seeking the right advice based on all your proper facts. Everything can be relevant during trial for you.
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CBro, You need to relocate to a place where she can’t crash. My friend’s wife did this. She left and returned just to file a false case against him. Please save yourself and move to a new place and proceed with separation.
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SSince she has maintained her life for 3 years without any help from her husband, can a good lawyer save him from paying much in alimony?
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SIn all likelihood she is coming back to build a case that makes it easier for her to divorce you in a contested case.
Highly highly recommend forcing yourself and her through a couple therapy. With sessions spanning the next 6 months. That you know if her “change of heart” is legitimate or just a ruse to find ways to make the divorce more difficult for you.
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P1. You can file a contested divorce on the grounds of desertion. if you don’t want to live with her. [https://divorcebylaw.com/best-contested-divorce-lawyers-in-bangalore/](https://divorcebylaw.com/best-contested-divorce-lawyers-in-bangalore/)
2. If you have good advocate on your side, you don’t have to worry about her filing cases such as Domestic Violence, Dowry Harassment or Maintenance/ Alimony. Because she left the house.
3. If you want to remain married and she’s still not decided to live with you, you can ask for Restitution of Conjugal Rights [https://divorcebylaw.com/restitution-of-conjugal-rights/](https://divorcebylaw.com/restitution-of-conjugal-rights/)
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**Disclaimer:** In the absence of all the facts of the case, the comments given may not be the best solution for your case. One on one consultation with a legal counsel/ advocate is advised to get better guidance.
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VKeep a record of everything going all the way back from the start, get a good lawyer and I mean really good one…. get with the lawyer to draft MoU and draft it in such a way that covers everything to save your ass from everything while being reasonable with her… even she wanting to come back and start living together…mention the tiniest of things that you can think of that could blow your rear to smithereens, also keep a anticipatory bail ready just in case which will prove her intent incase shit goes south..
Registered marriage is a contract as per the law and hence MoU is the best a man can get in these situations. Everything else is answered in a really good way to safeguard yourself.
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LThat’s a really difficult and confusing situation. It’s understandable that you’re struggling to trust her intentions after she left for so long, especially when a child is involved. Wanting clarity and stability for yourself and your child is completely valid. Take your time to think about what’s best for both of you, and don’t feel pressured into a decision that doesn’t sit right with you.
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