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MHi everyone,
I am a M29 in a relationship with f28 since the past 5 years.
We met just before covid19 had striked. She’s a mutual friend of one of my friends and we met at a party. We got drunk and hooked up. She wanted to stay with me thereafter.
She had a bad breakup just before that I was unaware of how such situations turn out to be. She used to call her ex and hurled abuses at him. As per her story, he used to force her into sex and was abusive towards her. I felt for this and supported her(she is even from a broken home, dad left her mom for a different woman).
She started staying with me starting Feb, 2020. Initially things were going well. I used to smoke up at that time and ngl she started smoking with me. Months passed and we had to look out for a apartment to move it. Things started getting nasty since then.
I was at fault too at some places but not always. I used to drink too. She had a very bad mouth and fights happened between us because of that. This kept happening. I wanted to breing a change and stopped smoking up, she didn’t. I kept working as I was the only one who provided her with things in the first two years. She started working after that and things just went downhil from there. She argued, fought with me, hit me and what not.
She even threw a crusher at me once and I had to get stitches because of it. Everyone asked me to file a complain but I backed off as I didn’t want her or her mother to suffer. But, it had all taken a nasty turn by that time. She started threating me. She fought with me, abused me and if I retaliated, she threatned to file a police complain against me. I’m from a middle class family and don’t want to get into such stuff too.
She is finally about to leave once I get paid(like she did manyatimes. I just didn’t want to be with her but whenever I wanted to leave, or asked her to, she would either cook up some tragedy or sometimes, it actually happened). She’ll be asking for money for that too. Now, the problem is that she is leaving her stuff like earlier stating that she can’t take all these things along.
I cannot figure out what to do. It is traumatic and painful.
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