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DSo my brother have 2 child both are girls one 10 years old and other is 2 years old also my brother is earning 60k per month also a govt servent. Like divorce hoga to kitne tk settle hoga koi saboot nhi h unke pass dahej jaisa also my brother wife is very abusive mera bhai suicide krne ki bhi sochta h please give me some advice also ignore my English
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1. Please decide if it is your brother or your friend.
2. If she is abusive, I think he can file for divorce on grounds for cruelty , provided there should be some proof. I’m NAL so you will get better inputs from an actual lawyer.
3. Be there for your brother/ friend, he should not take any drastic steps.
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PFor your brother’s suicidal thoughts he must be taken to a psychologist/ counsellor immediately. You can try the free helplines if you can’t afford the private therapists. These issues in family life are solvable, it is not the end of the road. Sometimes you need to count your blessings and be grateful to many things that you have instead of bringing in negative thoughts. Show gratitude towards your wife, appreciate for all the things that she’s been doing for you. Whatever you expect from her, do towards her. She will have a change of heart. But the change begins from you.
If you still find it is not possible to continue with the marriage do the following;
First step is to get help through counsellors or you can try pre-litigation mediation in your local mediation center attached to the court.
Your brother can apply for Contested Divorce based on the abusive behaviour of his wife. Let him collect some evidence of the same. It can be videos, CCTV footage, messages, call recordings, photographs, etc.
[https://divorcebylaw.com/best-contested-divorce-lawyers-in-bangalore/](https://divorcebylaw.com/best-contested-divorce-lawyers-in-bangalore/)
The alimony/ maintenance that he may have to pay depends on many factors. If wife is not working, then he will be ordered to pay some maintenance for her. If she’s educated to get employed, he can encourage her to get a job, which may lessen the amount of maintenance. Otherwise also, if she is employed she may change her behaviour towards your brother. Earning 60k/month could be a strain for the family of 4 to sustain.
[https://divorcebylaw.com/maintenance/](https://divorcebylaw.com/maintenance/)
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**Disclaimer:** In the absence of all the facts of the case, the comments given may not be the best solution for your case. One on one consultation with a legal counsel/ advocate is advised to get better guidance.
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