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SI am 38 yrs old man and work for IT MNC in Hyderabad in a flat that I purchased last year; I have a 6 yrs old kid. My parents live in my hometown in a flat that I purchased on loan before marriage. My wife doesn’t go well with my family and keeps fighting for small things. During fight she expresses few things that are scary and shows her true intentions. I will narrate few things for instance
A) With recent incidents of husbands demise by wives, she said – its a good idea because after husbands death – all assets will naturally be claimed by wife. If that happens in my case, my parents are going to suffer as they live in flat that I purchased
B) She is educated but not working – hence did not contribute anything to house that is in my name, and has audacity to say that Hyderabad flat is mine, if you want to go away, get out of this house.
My goals – I do not want to make my son suffer – hence I am staying together despite all the scare and day to day tensions. I also want to fund all his education. But I do not want to give this lady anything beyond basic things she deserves. I want to utilize my money on myself and some good causes like old age home or school. How do I protect my assets
How do I proceed to frame my will where I clearly articulate that she has no claim on my assets in case something happens to me ? Should I tell her if that kind of will gets ready
How do I keep my assets safe from her to avoid her getting the free money she does not deserve, she never cared for me even when I am not well, and neither did anything for my family. Is having a trust and moving my assets to that trust the only way ? Who will manage that trust funds when I am not there
Suggest any better way.
Should I file for divorce ? Given the laws in this country I am skeptical if that will be right way. I will be deprived of seeing my son as well, and will be adding to tension to my old parents. Hence I am suffering alone in silent way
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FDo u follow Amish aggarwal adv .
He is a good advocate🧑⚖️🧑⚖️ for husbands , do try contacting him . -
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PJoin https://www.saveindianfamily.org/ ASAP.
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PIt’s funny how people marry someone and not willing to share half their assets with that person.
Could’ve just made an agreement before marriage. Nothing can be done now. She deserves half and she will get what’s rightfully hers
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AWhy share half of everything? If you want a share then learn to contribute in the marriage. There are so many parasites in this society, first you waste your parents money on studies and then when you realise how hard it is to actually continue working, you stop working and claim that you should get a share in husband’s property. Laws are biased and must be changed. If wife doesn’t contribute to the finances of the family she shouldn’t get half of everything. Just stop being a parasite and go work for yourself and for your family !
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PIt’s more about something called morals? If you truly love someone, you shouldn’t really care about your assets being shared? If you still want to marry that person without sharing assets, just set up a prenuptial contract in advance? If you didn’t, she deserves half. It’s her decision if she wants to forego her share. Who are you to judge lol
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AMorals ! Love ! Haha. Parasites don’t give a sh** about us and just cling to us like a leach to draw every drop of blood out for themselves. Are you one of them ? It’s a shame these women live among us and it’s sometimes too late for a realisation. If they had morals or love they would help making a healthy family environment conducive for their kid, for husband and for herself as well. But hey you’re selfish right so can’t really expect that from you.
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PYou’ll never find true love as you prioritize ownership of your assets over love.
I don’t even mind marrying a poor guy if I’m in love.
Enjoy your money. Hope it remains with you till you die lol
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E1. Gift the house your parents stay in, to them. So it’s no longer yours.
2. Your will cannot exclude your wife from your estate. At least that’s how I think it works in India.
3. Your assets will also be claimed by your wife – nothing you can do about it.
4. Connect with a lawyer.
Remember – As long as it has your name, she has a claim.
I have no comments on your personal relationship. Maybe what you said is true or maybe it is coloured. However your wife married you, not your parents. So the criteria of her not taking care of them is just absurd. It’s her choice.
I hope it works out for all three of you.
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USell the house, let your parents make a fixed deposit of amount under their name making you and your son a nominee. You can also have them invest this in equity.
File for divorce but you’ll have to prove the ground of divorce else can’t even get divorce in Hindu marriage. Stay separated from your wife in a rented place with basic necessities. Quit your job and join any tier 3 law college for a 3 years LLB.
Your fight will be easier.
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Vi would like to give you a genuine piece of advice among these all comments and it’s best.
1.immediately go and meet some good lawyer and make sure your wife doesn’t know about it, transfer all of your assets under a trust and make your parents their member and leave your wife none.
2. Go meet some baba/saint into your region and accept variyagya and divorce your wife.
3. Don’t stuck into this marriage for sake of your child, your children will learn from your behaviour and all and what lessons you’re gonna teach your children if you let your wife disrespect you in front of your child, ultimately you are gonna raise a weak boy. who will not stand for himself in the future if someone try to take benefit of him.
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EBefore divorce or separation, transfer the house in name of your parents. And ask them to mention in their will that you / your son will get full ownership of the house.
For other assets, either gift them to your parents (no tax incidence) and write it in will like above or create a trust in your childs name and transfer the assets for his Education / marriage etc
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