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UNew here, but this feels like my last resort for help. I (28M) stay abroad for career, future better prospects while my family is back in India. My dad is and has always been a complete degenerate. No friends, never had a stable job, no social, personal life etc. But keeps disturbing my mom who is working and has always been the father figure to me. My father was never around and away all the time while being dr*nk somewhere. He kept this away from our house, so that was still fine as long as we were focused on our stuff. I tried reasoning, talking but he resorts back to these ways. Since I moved abroad, my father (60) started getting more confidence in engaging in these activities. He started consuming alcohol/cig at home and creating scenes. My mom works ignores him, goes to see her parents and tries to not engage. She fears the society and rightfully so as she doesn’t want to give him a divorce yet. She wants me to settle back and then take that step. Also, the house is registered under both their names so legal separation not only attracts societal drama, but it’ll be hard to find a house and start all this with no fault of hers. I have taken an education loan and am focused on repaying that and have decided to move back in the next year or so. However, he took things a bit too far recently. Since he’s not getting any attention from my mom he passed out in a local park while my mom was away for work and had to be carried home by the society people. I am literally done with this. We initially thought about registering a police complaint, but it’ll be a lot of legal formalities involving unnecessary societal drama. It would also entail the police visiting my mom’s place of work. She is very fearsome of the society and rightfully so as we never had any social and whatever we have is because of her. She fears being isolated and is also worried as she wants me to get married (arrange marriage). Thus, involving a lot of legal drama would only jeopardize the situation and she’s worried that my marriage prospects/her work/ our relatives everything will go for a toss. My uncle suggested the 112 helpline which remains anonymous. Can anyone please confirm if 112 is actually effective wherein the police will come bash him up and he’ll at least fear that. We tried a lot of alternatives – one wherein an inspector put some sense over call, but to no avail. Same thing after a month. Also, police cannot anonymously just lock him up with no legal complaint FIR. Please help. thanks!
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