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U[Writing this with a disturbed mental state. Kindly forgive if any grammatical mistake happens and help me as soon as possible 🙏]
Hello everyone, currently I’m a b.tech 1st year student. Actually my family is in a weird situation. It’s really going to be a long writing so dividing it into the previous context and the main incident, kindly help.Previous context: My father has one elder brother and one elder sister. So I am now nearly of age 19 and in my childhood partition of our home was done between the two brothers and his elder sister got Rs.50000 instead of plot in home map. After partition my father and his brother got one room each . As he moved out we had to bought his portion ( rather not as per our wish but forcefully) but no big problem with him after that. Grandfather took one room in the ground floor and he lives with us. My grandmother went to live with his elder son and it was all decided by my grandparents and their elder son only. Now if we talk about the family relations then actually my mother is from a poor household. Her father expired during her board exams. Her mother did each and everything to raise and educate her well. Before they got married my mother went to do a typewriting type of work to a commercial complex , although today she is a state government school clerk. In that complex my father also runs a business. An advocate lady actually arranged their marriage. Now let us be very clear it’s not like during their marriage my paternal family has very good financial condition but their(not including my father in anyway) behavior was like my mother came after seeing their “financial-might” . It was my father , who after knowing that she is highly educated got more interested in this relation.
Today’s incident : Now coming to our main topic, after so many years now my grandmother’s relation with her elder son and his wife has worsened so much so that she wants to come here. Her elder daughter also does not have any good relation with her elder brother. She also wants the same but will never take her mother to her own home because there is the catch, she can only shout but can’t take responsibility. Few days before she had extremely heated argument with my grandfather over letting her mother in the house but my mother said after one had left the house no one will come here. Furious with this my grandmother, who repeatedly along with her daughter cursed my maternal grandmother also several times before , went to her best-friend’s house , which is just next to our house and told that she never wants to come to our house and also she wants that I will leave and andabandon my mother like this only. Today the mother-daughter duo directly came to our house. First they were arguing with grandfather with every kind of cursing words possible at such high voice that I was having an afternoon nap but wake up immediately. After I and my mother went downstairs we also have an argument with them.Whole thing is recorded in my phone. They again stated bad words about my mother and maternal grandmother, at the heat of the argument I was stated my grandmother as a dayin(witch) . Even don’t know but how my grandmother fell to the ground and her daughter shouted that I pushed her and that happened . At last my father came home and drove them off from the house.
Conclusion:
Tbh we have no relation with them and will treat them like stranger . Just want to know if any legal way available so that they will not come anymore. It’s really hurting my mental state also.
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