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UUser_d0d76465
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February 2, 2025 at 7:44 pmHi all, sorry for posting all this. I honestly don’t know what to do of my sister. She always abuses my mom I try to stop all this nonsense as always. Sometimes when I am not home she also beats her up. I need a legal advice. I don’t feel that my mom is safe with sister even though I’m working from home. I have to get out of house 2/3 times a day so I basically feel that she will kill my mom if not taken the right steps.She is 18 years old. Please need a strong advice.
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MMegarider1060
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February 2, 2025 at 8:02 pm1. If she literally hits your mother, and elder to you, ask your father to intervene.2. If she is younger than you, try to put some sense into her and if she does not listen, as an elder brother, tell her how to respect the people who give her shelter and food , and then again if no improvement, tell her to stay away from you and the mother
Might as well slap some real sense into her this time.
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AAnyadude262
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February 2, 2025 at 8:10 pmDonโt listen to this advice. Itโs so impractical and emotional. You need to take your sister to a professional psychiatrist and get her continuous therapy to fix the root cause.-
UUser_d0d76465
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February 2, 2025 at 11:44 pmOkay will try that as of now we as family members don’t even get any reason for such behaviour in the house-
AAnyadude262
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February 2, 2025 at 11:54 pmThatโs why a professional is required to see why sheโs behaving the way she is. Maybe something has happened but none of you know about it. Be patient with her.
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UUser_74f0717f
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February 3, 2025 at 4:39 amOnly good advice
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UUser_d0d76465
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February 2, 2025 at 8:14 pmYes I’m older than her. Mom says not to hit even as she is frail suffering from anemia. Father tried to knock some senses into her but it won’t work as keeps repeating abuses and goes violent on mom when there is no one with herThinking about renting a small 1RK anywhere for me and mom
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UUser_0cfeeaa1
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February 2, 2025 at 8:03 pmThat’s assault, she’s a legal adult. This behaviour is not normal at all. Go to the police, even if you don’t want her to actually get in trouble, atleast threaten her a bit-
UUser_d0d76465
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February 2, 2025 at 8:09 pmI haven’t tried explaining the legal angel to her… Will give it a shot!-
UUser_cd74777d
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February 2, 2025 at 10:56 pmAbe gadhe kya legal angle smjha rha pitai lga uski ya police involve kr ya km se km uske karnamo ki recording kr-
UUser_d0d76465
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February 2, 2025 at 11:42 pmPitai kr di toh malum hai ki health pe kitna effect honga, anemia patient hai quite frail hai wo. We did try. Dad tried to know some senses into her but she repeated the same mistakes again and again.Dhekta hu recording vagre kr k then will try to involve police if needed
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UUser_82fcc656
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February 3, 2025 at 12:19 amAnaemia patient h to uska ilaaj karo na bhai…kaafi issues health se related hoti hai. Thoda uspe dhyaan do aur koshish karo ladai na ho ghar me-
UUser_d0d76465
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February 3, 2025 at 2:05 amYes trying my best
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RRapidfalcon1931
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February 2, 2025 at 8:19 pmwhat is your age 5 years that you have not heard of calling police ??? Instead asking on reddit what to do ?? -
UUser_483e8e14
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February 2, 2025 at 8:30 pmKya legal advice? Don’t be a bitch and call the police. She’s your mother for god’s sake. Slap the shit out of your sister the next time she tries anything so despicable. 18 and beating up her own mother, such entitlement! Fuck familial bonds and teach her a life lesson.-
UUser_cd458f8a
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February 3, 2025 at 9:05 amBut won’t OP get in trouble by assaulting/beating up his sister? She is 18 and can lodge a FIR against him for abuse? -
UUser_4be41c76
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February 5, 2025 at 1:20 pmhe will get in trouble for assaulting his sister
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CCalmarush4176
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February 2, 2025 at 8:54 pmSee, it’s a family matter. And even if you put legal action. You will be the one who will have to go to save her. So be a responsible man.
There was post about 20 girl suffering because her mother wants share in property.Outside world is not so nice. Even advocate can eat alive a person. I have seen it.
And if possible set limits for both of them and take the lead.-
UUser_d0d76465
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February 2, 2025 at 11:46 pmYes, thank you for your advice!
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UUser_e15678a1
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February 2, 2025 at 9:56 pmShe has issues and only 18 so can be fixed. Try counselling. -
MMiteshdude914
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February 2, 2025 at 11:14 pmSounds like she needs mental health help -
UUser_bafd8a15
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February 3, 2025 at 1:09 amSheโs ur mom, do what u gotta do to stand up for her, I normally am against sibling violence over the age of 16 but holy shit give ur sister a beatdown, itโs ur mom weโre talking about -
MManishtiger507
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February 3, 2025 at 1:22 amBuild a big body, and stop the fight.Become stronger โจ ๐ช๐ป
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UUser_83dc8ad0
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February 3, 2025 at 1:22 amDoes she has some mental issues? And whats the reason she beats yr mother?-
UUser_d0d76465
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February 3, 2025 at 2:20 amAsked her multiple times she says don’t know what happened to her-
UUser_83dc8ad0
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February 3, 2025 at 2:22 amConsult a tantric, it seems to be a black magic case. -
UUser_42cd3b40
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February 3, 2025 at 7:26 amTake her to a psychiatrist and see if she has BPD. If he gives her a clean chit, the next step is police.
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AAnayfalcon836
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February 3, 2025 at 1:34 amPlease seek help from nearby police station. -
KKushpanda748
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February 3, 2025 at 3:23 amIf any child beats up mother and is 18, kick out them. -
LLuckynupur2042
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February 3, 2025 at 3:42 amCan you just standup first she is one and you are two. Mom will never revert but you have a responsibility to confront your sister. -
RRapidyukta9920
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February 3, 2025 at 4:11 amWhy canโt Mom beat her in return? -
UUser_e07f7c39
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February 3, 2025 at 4:33 amThreating her using local police would be the besttt idea for now -
AArjuntiger54
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February 3, 2025 at 4:35 amDon’t involve police this will ruin your sisters future(which is already ruined), firstly use your both hands and slap the hell out of her then consult a doctor, Pyschologist -
UUser_6157278c
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February 3, 2025 at 4:35 amIf this is true then you are part of this crime by sitting n watching…Who the fuck watches her mom get beaten by 18yo… Call police first n ask your relatives to help if you dont have guts to act.
Record a video n show to police and being an adult she will be given proper treatmentMaa k mar jane k wait kr rh ho kya ?
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UUser_b6b05beb
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February 3, 2025 at 5:03 amTake a rod and discipline her properly everytime. -
UUser_b0160c38
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February 3, 2025 at 5:34 amYou said your sister has anemia and I am no expert in this field, but anemia is often accompanied with aggression. Get your sister some help and try to look if their is some psychiatric angle to this. -
NNancyfox42
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February 3, 2025 at 7:30 amIf she can hit her mom then she can also make false allegations against you if you get the authorities involved. So better have some evidence in hand and then involve the authorities. -
UUser_5d812151
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February 3, 2025 at 8:16 amIs there a reason why she is abusive? I know there is no justification for abuse, but try figuring out whatโs creating the havoc and try addressing that issue. If nothing works call the police -
NNeelpanther332
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February 3, 2025 at 8:58 amFile a petition for protection before high court. Iโm a lawyer, Let me know if you require assistance. Which city are you from -
NNishaguy908
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February 3, 2025 at 9:21 amKeep the videos for proof bhai before calling the police -
UUser_1d26cf88
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February 3, 2025 at 11:34 amTake videos secretly and file a complaint with the cops. A girl who can beat up her own mother is a psycho and she will find ways to blame you and/or your mom if you don’t go to the police fully prepared. -
UUser_4de0b98f
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February 3, 2025 at 3:56 pmShes a psychopath. Dobt be surprised if you come home and find your Mom dead. Just go live somewhere else with your Mom -
UUser_e680c0b8
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February 3, 2025 at 6:07 pmTu fir usko marr. Not promoting violence but thoda Dar ka mahol create kar uske upar -
UUser_9c30ec21
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February 3, 2025 at 7:27 pmHas your mother beaten her in childhood?
What are her pain points she tells when she beat her? What the cause of resentment?Fear of police may Stop her from beating mom but she will resentment you & mom more. She will feel isolated and her suppressed emotions will blast at some point. This is just postponing the trouble. Not the solution.
Get her to therapy without making her feel like mad otherwise she won’t cooperate. If she opens up there without any of you being around there. There is a possibility of solution.
Where is the dad?
If she is beating your mom in EXTREME, then involve police and then get her therapy.
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SSakshihawk343
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February 5, 2025 at 5:12 amSane advice -
UUser_77a5d895
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February 5, 2025 at 6:10 pmShe most likely got beaten as a child ughh..
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UUser_3479b24a
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February 4, 2025 at 12:22 amFirst of all, install cctv cams where all this happens. Then when you have proof, you can go and meet a lawyer or you can directly go to police station and show them the evidence, they will talk to your sister. -
QQuickdude3428
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February 4, 2025 at 7:47 amLegal advice? Bc 1 18yo tum 2 adults pe bhari ho rhi hai sharam laaj hai kya?Either beat the shit out for her or get the police & throw her out of homs
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UUser_cbcb16a2
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February 4, 2025 at 8:45 amTeri behen ko laafe laafe se maar. Jo apni Maa ka nai vo kisika nai hota. -
UUser_106b3d01
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February 5, 2025 at 2:04 pmYou all are giving her more attention than needed and next time make her know her limits come on man do the old school way -
UUser_4c59f175
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February 6, 2025 at 5:39 amMeri behen ke toh haath per tut gaye hote ab tk. -
UUser_f0598b6b
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February 6, 2025 at 5:54 amIm assuming since she is 18, she is financially dependent on your parents? If thats the case, tell her if she wont behave she will thrown out of the house.
Not sure but try therapy. Tell her the legal actions your mum can take. -
UUser_d0c152bc
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March 8, 2025 at 5:08 pmCom quem dentro da tua casa, sua irmรฃ aprendeu a bater nos outros ?
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