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USo my my friend got married 3 years ago. His wife had previous affairs and even though their marriage was fixed she was meeting and doing other stuffs with her bf. My friend came to know it after their marriage when he was going though her phone. They had many fights due to her bf as she was in contact with him even though he accepted her past and said to move on. .once he tried to confront to her parents about this so she gave the dhamki of drinking something so he stopped and forgave her one more time. She is very manipulative and has kind of narcissistic personality. So now my friend has daughter of 2 years and he found out that his wife is still in contact with her bf and saying that she misses him because he is getting married in few days and then she can’t talk directly anytime with him. My friend’s family is very well respected and everyone appreciates their behavior but his wife spreads rumours about them in her mayka just to show how she is being treated. Even though her mother may be aware of her affairs. Now my friend thinks everytime about separation then suddenly she starts behaving very normal like nothing happened. My friend wants divorce but fears a lot as he may not get daughter’s custody. I have seen him with his daughter.she means a world to him that’s why he is tolerating all her behavior but everytime he trusts her something new happens due to her past relationships he also has the evidence to prove her sexual relationship with her ex before marriage.and after marriage also they have met whenever she visited her mayka. Any suggestions what he can do get rid of this situation. He is one of the very straight forward person I know and I want to help him .any suggestions how we can help him?
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ENot a lawyer
First thing is to spread the proof of the their affair to everyone. Literally everyone. Be it friends and family of the wife.
Do make sure that she won’t trace it back to you.
Your friend is a coward, he should have informed her family and his family of the cheating. It’s too late now.
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EDesperate time needs desperate measures.
She is literally going around having fun who knows if the child is his or not.
Anyway, that’s why I said don’t make the spreading obvious so that OP and his friend are safe.
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UShare proofs with her family and talk to them about this best way to deal with it and discuss with them what can we do?
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Unot legal advice but your friend should read and research about ‘narcisstic personality disorder’. If possible he can see a professional psychologist who will explain him
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