45 cases filed by wife, husband proved cruelty but still paid 63 lacs alimony..WTF

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      Sheelaking779
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        March 26, 2025 at 2:46 pm
        So I just read this case highlighted by Deepika Bharadwaj on twitter.

        https://www.livelaw.in/amp/high-court/orissa-high-court/orissa-high-court-ruling-wife-threat-to-commit-suicide-and-grant-of-divorce-287514

        The court ordered husband to pay 63 Lacs in alimony despite the wife being the one who committed cruelty.

        This article is so shocking. Why won’t men commit suicides?

        Can anyone explain what’s going on here.

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          March 26, 2025 at 7:52 pm
          Chutiya Desh and chutiya judges.

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            March 26, 2025 at 10:30 pm
            Hey Ram

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              March 27, 2025 at 2:28 am
              Firstly why are Indian Hindu men getting married inspite of the knowledge that that legal system arbitrarily favours Women..secondly as someone noted that Judge the lawyers the legal system are very very corrupt
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              Lastly sad for the Man and Man’s family..

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                March 27, 2025 at 4:09 am
                Spend one day in family court and you see hundreds of such cases. Marriage is a crime for Indian men.

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                  March 27, 2025 at 4:37 am
                  It won’t be far when men to start to take law in their hands

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                      March 27, 2025 at 7:37 am
                      Already have lmao. Plenty of husbands kill their wives its not new. The system is fuvked in this country men and women donot get justice if they deserve it.

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                          March 27, 2025 at 7:47 am
                          The difference is men who kill their wives rot in prison 

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                              March 27, 2025 at 11:15 am
                              No they dont lmao as long as you have money . You get away from stuff. Rapists walk away all the time in the country. What utopia are you living in?

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                                  March 28, 2025 at 9:59 pm
                                  What deluded world are you living in?

                                  Men go away and serve longer sentences for crime they didn’t even commit. The can be arrested on the word of the woman.

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                                      March 29, 2025 at 3:30 pm
                                      Did you not read the “as long as you have money”. The justice system favours the rich irrespective of gender. Privileged women misuse law all the time. The women who actually need alimony support, need their abusive husbands behind bar rarely get any help. I have seen it first hand. Men and women buying the police and judges lmao. Recently read about a judge who asked the culprit in a rape case to marry their victim. Open your eyes.

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                                    March 27, 2025 at 1:32 pm
                                    Kill her and then kill myself

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                                March 27, 2025 at 6:45 am
                                63 lakhs is okay if it ensures peace for the rest of life. There is no price to be put on ending a toxic relationship

                                Btw, the guy is ready to pay it. He said he will not contest alimony and all he wants is a divorce. I would have done the same

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                                  March 27, 2025 at 7:36 am
                                  The behavior which is rewarded will increase.
                                  So if anyone asks, why anything is on the rise among common population, be it crime like SA or R word, or nonsense like false cases and cruelty. Its because that is rewarded in some form or not punished properly.

                                  It wont go down until there is a proper reform in laws and judiciary. Or if there’s some form of social change.

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                                    March 27, 2025 at 9:51 am
                                    Let’s try to tag any judges ..I don’t think they are on reddit. I don’t think even any advocate is on reddit
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                                      March 27, 2025 at 9:52 am
                                      How about killing her and setting for way less 😆

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                                          March 27, 2025 at 1:34 pm
                                          This

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                                          March 27, 2025 at 2:22 pm
                                          Biggest reason to not marry as a man. Pretty much there’s no benefit for a man from marriage.

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                                            March 27, 2025 at 6:11 pm
                                            It’s not the judge, it’s the law. In India, you can’t get a divorce if your partner refuses to consent. You must prove grounds like cruelty, adultery, a contagious disease, or religious conversion. This legal rigidity fuels conflict in matrimonial disputes. The law doesn’t allow you to move on unless your partner agrees, often turning consent into a tool for exploitation and in most cases, it’s men who face this.

                                            Additionally, there’s a points system for judges. If a woman challenges a judge’s decision, it can negatively impact their score, affecting their career growth. Other factors also come into play, adding to the complexity.

                                            The need for legal reform is clear. Judges act as referees, interpreting the law, hearing arguments, and delivering judgments. Only Supreme Court judges have the authority to question the law itself. For others, it’s often just a matter of following precedents and applying existing rules.

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                                              March 27, 2025 at 7:07 pm
                                              I mean if you have to blame someone, blame the laws. Cruelty is only a ground for divorce. Nothing more or less. Same for the alimony, the sum is calculated based on a lot of things and the calculation method can be considered somewhat vague but again, alimony and maintenance are rarely affected by grounds of divorce unless the women has some source of income or the husband can prove she can sustain herself to reduce the alimony to some extent. The amount you see here? In reality much of it isn’t paid once the case is done. It will be settled outside the court. People often forget that judges are bound by laws and they can only follow it, they want it or not.

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                                                March 27, 2025 at 7:55 pm
                                                Read

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                                                  March 27, 2025 at 11:07 pm
                                                  The trauma that family has now

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                                                    March 28, 2025 at 5:39 am
                                                    Never marry in india and indian women

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                                                      March 28, 2025 at 4:26 pm
                                                      The problem is that these judgements become reference for other cases. F×ck equity based on identity.

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                                                          March 28, 2025 at 10:02 pm
                                                          US also has something similar where minor rape victims of female perpetrators have to pay child support and money. It’s fucked up pretty much everywhere for men🤷‍♂️

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                                                          March 28, 2025 at 10:03 pm
                                                          My mom would cry if some vindictive henious woman ever did this to me. It’s best to stay single I believe.

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                                                            March 29, 2025 at 3:12 am
                                                            What happens if he stays his ground and tells what the court did is wrong. What will happen? Why does everyone have to bend to corrupt judges and corrupt police? Why is law not equal to all?

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                                                              March 29, 2025 at 4:02 am
                                                              It’s disheartening when justice is influenced by corruption, as Atul Subhash’s case allegedly exposed. The fact that nobody talks about it anymore shows how quickly such issues get buried.

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                                                                March 29, 2025 at 6:58 am
                                                                That’s why all my businesses and earnings are in my mom’s name..

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                                                                  March 29, 2025 at 9:13 am
                                                                  In this case the wife challenged the lower court order of dissolution of the marriage subject to the payment of 63lakh permanent alimony. In the appeal the husband did not challenged the permanent alimony specifically. There was no specific prayer challenging the amount by the husband. Therefore the HC did not interfered regarding this subject. One has to specifically pray for their demands. In this case it was not done by the husband. Law is too technical. There is nothing wrong in the judgement.

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                                                                    Read somewhere prenup is legal if marriage is registered in Goa. Got to make it legal everywhere.

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