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SLet me start from my first year.
When i first joined college, after a couple of months a girl from my class started talking to me. We talked for months as friends and after a while she confessed having feelings for me, I made it very clear that i had no such feelings towards her and to act polite we continued talking normally.
However, every 2-3 months she’d start texting me, why do you not like me, why did you take all the attention i gave you, and the like.
This happened a couple of times, but it got progressively worse each time she had these breakdowns. Fast forward to 2024, i started kind of ignoring her and only reply to her messages and barely start a conversation ever. This somehow made the situation worse, she sometimes cussed me ane made me feel guilty, like I didn’t already made it clear at first that I don’t like her that way.
In 2025, again the same thing, massive wall of texts explaining how I’m a manipulator and just seeked the attention from her. After this i blocked her. It was calm for a while then she started texting me on my phone number that i need to clear this between us. So i unblocked her and she called me and started crying and saying she’ll do suicude and out of worry i said, okay I won’t block you and you can message me if you want.
Now today, she texted again, same stuff as before, but said things like, “Be careful when crossing roads,” “I’m not ever letting you go that easy.”
I’ve only got 3 days left for college due to the exams, but I’m genuinely scared she might do something.
Any help or guidance is appreciated.
TLDR: Girl from my class likes me for the past 2 years, and now she’s kind of giving me threats.
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PIf u r in India, once exams completes either move to other state or share this with her family in front of ur parents and if possible police. Record that meeting as well.
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SMoving out is not possible for me. However, if it gets any more serious I’ll take it legal. I’m just hoping these 3 days pass as soon as possible.
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IFirstly, it’s all bluff. Don’t have to worry about it. I was told some similar stuff (sadly by someone i thought was my bff)
Secondly, what you can do is spread a rumor, that you are shifting. Even among your friends. Because, no one is a friend.
A will tell B. B will tell C. And the chain goes on.
Put some whatsapp status saying stuff like “gonna miss this place” “i will always cherish the memories i have made here” stuff like that.
Text only no pics. Do this the next day after your exams are over. When people ask (including your friends, even the dearest of them) tell that yeah we are shifting to another place. We were waiting for my exams to get over.
Your friends will ask where the new place is. Just give a random name of an area. Don’t have to go into specifics. No one is gonna come to your home, everyone is gonna move on.
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DPlease don’t do anything until your exams are over or it might even backfire on you….
Request her nicely to not distrub you until exams are over. Don’t send any messages promising to meet her etc, might be used against you.. remember this girl has serious mental health issues and it is not about LOVE…she needs psychiatric help… approach the college principal after exams and inform everything, take your parents with you or some elders…
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KGo to her parents asap dude tell them that their daughter is harrassing you. Also file a complaint with the police for harassment if you’re under 18 the cops will pay more attention
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SI’m trying to avoid taking it to the parents, but i will if she tries to contact me again and may file a complaint with the police. And no, I’m not under 18.
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BDon’t tell her parents bro, this wouldn’t be good for her not for you also maybe if think you are ine culprit. Yeah you can threaten her by talking about her parents and give her warning and yes take ss of chat
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DParents always care about you even in cases if some parents are not good people. Best to talk to parents…the big mistake young people do now-a-days is to not talk to parents about what is going on in their life….
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MFirst block her, but before that, take screenshots of all the messages, especially the ones where she’s guilttripping or threatening you. Then report it to the principal or someone in college authority. Also tell your parents if possible they deserve to know and can help if things escalate. But if she’s still bothering you after all this, or you’re scared that she might harm herself or you, don’t wait go to the police and file an NCR. Her saying things like “be careful on the road” or “I won’t let you go that easily”.
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SI blocked her and took a backup of our chats. I’m thinking of reporting it to the college authorities first.
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SThe girl has made serious threats against your life. You are past the point of exchanging messages and playing sine games. This requires police complaints and active protection for yourself.
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EBe friendly to her and say you need time to think ..delay delay.. , meanwhile get your any colleague or friend or uncle or parents ..whoever visits her house and makes the things clear.. I hope you didn’t false hope earlier..
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APeople like this girl never do any such thing, you can inform this to your college mental health counselor, she will help you out and the girl will be bound to oblige coz she also doesn’t want to be a gossip in the college and also wants to get placed and leave peacefully.
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AOne thing which you can also do is play the victims infront of the thief person who you would bring for mediation, like your college counselor or some senior mature faculty, and then you threaten her that you will reveal everything on social media and threaten of a suicide yourself 😂😂 Lohe ko Loha kaat ta h aur Draame ko Draama.
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SBro focus on your life, she’s a massive red flag who is full of herself. Please run the f away from her.
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PObviously it’s pretty chill when you are average looking no one bats an eye and no unnecessary drama or BS, well good luck to you G.
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SYou need to save all communication with her. Also record audio and video if possible when you tell her you don’t have feelings. In India, a female has the ability to make a man’s life hell without any valid proof.
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CGet into a relationship with her and omit really soon, and be very bad in bed. Usually works for me.
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IGetting harassed and told I will kill myself if you don’t love me. Usually it happens to girls, happened to me too once and it was the worst thing ever. I would never wish that upon anyone. In your case, maybe you are that desirable or that girl is very crazy
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RThe only choice is to run, cause even if she doesn’t commit sucide she can still put a bunch of fake cases on you, and all she has to do is cry a little and everyone will believe her over you
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SNormally it is guys who are desperate. Howcome, in this case the tables have turned and the sun has risen from the west? It is hard to believe and I cannot understand the reasons for this behavior of hers. Kaash mujhe bhi aisi ladki milti :D… By the way, is she beautiful or ugly because if she is ugly then there are chances for such behavior to happen?
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STrust me, you wouldn’t want someone like that. There’s a huge difference between crushes and when someone’s obsessed with you, you don’t know what extent they can go to for achieving what they want.
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SWhen I was in my University days, a girl who was abit dark and was ugly tried to come close to me too but because she was not good looking I did not reciprocate her advances towards me. She used to come towards me and sit besides me in the class and in the cafeteria. She also tried to trigger a conversation with me twice by once asking me that which is the next class and on the second time by asking me that whether I could explain her the syllabus of a subject.
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UShe is the one who is the manipulator here so steer clear of her op. I have experienced something of this sort, I simply told my parents because I knew that I wasn’t wrong and the guy was threatening me that he would make deepfake videos of mine and make it seem real and send it to people I got scared at first but then I calmed myself down and thought if I hadn’t done anything wrong then why am I being scared of what shit that incel would do I went straight to my mother and told her and she called him and his sister ( his sister is a bitch too ) and gave them an earful and said that we will definitely go to the police if he does anything of that sort (like he had a normal selfie of mine that I had taken and was threatening me that he would warp it into some sort of shitty stuff – you get the memo) so yeah then the sister got scared and told my mother that you will do not such thing and my mother said she would do everything in her power to get him behind the bars if anyone tries to harm me and then hung up. I was relieved but the sister had the audacity to text me that night since her brother couldn’t as I had blocked him everywhere and say that I am stupid and I called her a bitch from a broken family and then blocked her too and also said if your brother does any of that shit let him do that because honestly if someone isn’t famous then having deepfakes doesn’t even matter and even went on to say that whatever he will do to me I will do the same but with more seriousness to him as well. So the end point is don’t get scared of these bitches these kind of predators are always around the corner if they try to scare you scare them back
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SI’m sorry to hear that happened to you. Hope you’re doing okay now. Speaking of which, I’m good now too, my college has ended and I have blocked her from everywhere and there hasn’t been any contact between us in any way. It’s finally over.
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UThank you. I am sorry as well that you went through this no one deserves to go through all this shit and needless to say the best way to go about this is to block them left right and centre. Seriously no closure nothing never even bother to ask that why they tried to do this they are literal psychos so they will find a way to creep back into your life and before you know it the damage would be done, so it’s better this way. Anyways good luck 🍀🤞
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