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EHi, We live in a RWA Society on first floor and there is a sikh guy and his wife living on the ground floor. Last year we had many fights with him regarding water seeping into his drawing room from our roof. Regardless of so much discussion and fights we were forced to get whole roof repaired and getting tiled end to end. Since last year everything was fine until the rainy season came back again.
We clearly told them last year that this is final and nothing would be done after this even when we knew the problem wasn’t from our end but the building side walls. Despite that Sikh guy came again and started fighting, my father isn’t that well with such cases and is usually at his work and neither gets involved in much of these matters. Hence only my mother and I are remaining, since she earns for the family.
That sikh guy is a real bastard he shouts so badly and forces to come down and check his house, even without any proper discussion or request he talks to my mother so badly. When I am in office or not available they call my mother, stop her in between whenever passing by and her wife politely stars discussing until that Sikh guy comes and start fighting. He uses words like “Tu”, “kya karlegi”, “neeche aa” and all.
This causes so much mental stress to my mother everyday that she doesn’t bump into them, today the same fight happened and luckily while I was sleeping I woke up and middle and shouted on him and took my mom back in as she solely can’t fight those too especially when he uses his Male voice to show all the society members that a matter is going on.
Kindly advice here, can anything be done? I have advised my mom to get video recording from next time and try not involving much. Other neighbours are also in our favour as we definitely know that he is fighting for the wrong with wrong people. **But I personally want to screw him like some sort of police matter or at least even a small fear in them so that they don’t mess with my mom from next time.**
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ENo idea, it’s definitely not from our end it’s in the whole building i.e from DDA construction. We consulted few builders all said the same thing that the ground floor guy possibly needs to get his whole floor re-built. However, he isn’t ready to spend even a penny on this matter but everything from us because he has no one else
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SHarassment ka case kyu nahi karte. Call police once. Make videos. This is one bad way you can try. Instead beating and getting into fist fight. How can he yell at women for no reason. I hope you are not hiding anything.
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PNot sure what the religion of your neighbour has to do with the case. You’ve gone out of your way to mention his religion every step of the way. What are you trying to achieve here?
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ESeriously? It’s probably because we don’t know his name – We always call him neeche waala “Sardaar” and there’s nothing I’m trying to achieve here with such a small un-intended thought. People who are really in such a stress don’t care about matters like this – Religion! Funny of you, no offence though again. Hope you read the /r rules
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PYep, seriously. I am a lawyer, and your whole post is peppered with references to his religion. Are you trying to rake up some communal angle? The fact that you call him “sardaar” shows that you are trying other him by using his religion. Will you call your Hindu neighbour, “woh neeche waala Hindu”? Will you come here and write a post that my Hindu neighbour has been troubling me? Does a different law apply to Sikhs, that you need to mention his religion to seek advice? And no, it’s not funny. You need to confront your own biases.
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BYou make a very good point. I didn’t think of this at all while reading the post. I think i need to examine my own biases
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