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UI’m a 17 [M] a weak guy in studies, had lots of bad behaviour used to steal money from my dad when I was just a kid that was because my senior encouraged me to and I wasn’t well aware what I was doing was wrong, for that bro made me stripped naked and made me run inside the compound of our villa I was humiliated. After that there had been several incidents which involved my dad beating up my own mother which had ended up badly such which like end up in breaking my mom’s hand and back she’s still in ayurveda treatment. Our family had been suffering from abuse from my own dad. Once I had supported my brother which the mistake on my dad’s side, my dad slapped my brother for the mistake which my dad did. In the evening my dad brought up the scene again saying lots of shit about my brother I couldn’t handle the pain and got up and supported my brother. I said my brother didn’t have a single mistake and it’s better if I suggest dad to go for some treatment because treating his own children like slaves or prisoners ain’t a good thing. My dad didn’t like the approach I did my mom came to protect me my mom got a slap and I got angry and grabbed my dad threw him to the bed which ended up a bumb at his head but he got up fast and grabbed a knife which he almost came up to stab me but he dropped it after my mom screamed at him and he exchanged it for a belt and whacked me with and kicked me out of the house at 1 AM and I didn’t regret the decision for supporting my brother. I left that house at that night and my brother came in the house after his work and got to know everything and he came running after me and hugged me crying that never ever someone supported me like this bearing beatings for me. I said like I couldn’t handle he had to bear lots of things so I did my role as a brother. We walked for sometime and got inside the home at early morning 6 AM. By that time dad had gone for work, there had been a situation where it was a limit when I almost called 911 but he threatened me that if I get arrested now the day he gets out the jail he will hunt down us and brutally murder us and dispose the body. The society won’t support us as they are big fan of him so they will think we are escaping because are jealous of his successfullness. What should we do guys? Help us to solve this issue.
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U911 is the number for usa emergency service for india it’s 112 being in a situation that you are you should know this
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USir, in that situation I ain’t thinking correctly, I’m worried for my mom’s health because of my dad
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QDubai is not a fun place to be for these issues.
Life advice : Save money, get a job, move out, save more, move mom in with you.
Legal advice : Dubai is not a great jurisdiction to allege domestic abuse and familial violence. You have a better shot in India. If your dad is an Indian citizen, you should consider filing a detailed complaint with an Indian police station when he and you are in India next. Make sure to do it early into the trip so his passport is impounded and he has to argue for bail. It’s unlikely that a court will give him his passport back. He’ll be stuck here and face the legal consequences for his actions. All this is assuming you have evidence ofcourse.
Best of luck OP, I feel bad hearing your story mate. Life always gives you a way out so don’t be despondent. This whole I’m not good at studies thing is a mental block mate. People might mollycoddle you and tell you to justify it using the trauma you’ve faced. Don’t do that. Study. Force yourself to study. It’s the way to a job where you can trade your education for money. That leads to freedom for you and your mother. All the best man !
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