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FI am from a small town in India and my wife is working in Bangalore. My company provides me work from home so I have rented a house in Bangalore a few years back to live with my wife.
Recently my dad had a heart attack and my parents requested us to move to my hometown for atleast 2 years to take care of my dad. My wife declined and I have been literally begging her over the last two weeks to move with me to hometown.
As a last resort I want to send a notice to landlord to vacate the house in bangalore after informing my wife. I will be happy to provide her alternate accomodation at my parents home at the small town.
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Can my wife file a complaint against me using domestic violence act based on the above info?
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CWhy you want to force your wife to live in small town and now think about if she can file DV case against. So pathetic, I feel sorry for her!
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FI didnt mention my whole life story in the post because i dont want to make it boring to people. When I married her, she didnt had a job and was living in that small town. When she got a job in Bangalore later, i requested my company to give me wfh and happily moved to bangalore with her. Now I am requesting her to move back only for two years. BTW I read her company policy and there is an option to take sabbatical leave. She dont want to take that option because it will impact her promotion.
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LYou do your thing. Stop worrying about the law. Don’t let fear of law stop you from taking care of your parents or moving Hometown.
Go to your hometown. Ask your wife to either move with you or make her own arrangements. Inform landlord in writing that you are moving to your hometown and hence will be vacating the Premises. Stop paying rent after you’ve moved out. Whatever unfolds afterwards is between your Landlord and your wife.
If she files a DV Case, accept the fact that your marriage has ended practically and fight it out. Take stand in court that you are ready to take her back which she will decline. In such case court will order you to pay rent.
When such order comes comply it.
In fear of law or an adverse order don’t give in beforehand and start paying money. It will only enable your wife to file more cases and extort you more.
Join a Men’s Rights Organisation, learn law and then take above steps knowing fully what’s going to transpire. Don’t depend on others for advice. Matrimonial Laws are easy enough.
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DI’m sorry but what you should be more concerned about is what a horrible thing it is to do. Put yourself in her shoes for once. You’d rather live separately and try maintaining a balance both ways rather than rendering her homeless in a city where she wishes to live. About the legal bit, she can file whatever she wishes to, but I think morality is a bigger concern here.
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EThat’s what I am saying with common sense and fir the sake of family and love and having each other in harsh times
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SI don’t think she can make a strong DV case against you at all, but if you distrust her then consider Mutual Divorce as an option and this could be the perfect timing (assuming you both don’t have babies yet). She has a stable job which would be enough to not guarantee alimony for her (assuming the salary gap between you both is less than 2x)
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PIf you are informing your wife and then sending the notice to the landlord with her consent is fine. But if she refuses and insists that she doesn’t want to leave the city, how are you going to take her along with you?
What you have stated above doesn’t violate any written law/ rule. But free consent of another individual also must matter. You can go back to your hometown alone for some time. Give her some more time to make up her mind. Otherwise, if you are compelling her to join you, it may cause lot of mental stress and trauma for her, that could be a basis for domestic violence.
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