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AI(18M) am a College Student at a well known college in Jaipur, Rajasthan. A guy in my class always tries to hit me or always makes fun of me and constantly tries to have a beef with me.
Today, I was slapped twice by a guy over a silly incident(taking book away to write my name for attendance and assignment submission).
I was writing my name on the book and then that guy snatched the book for me and then pushed me for no reason and then due self defense my hands went up and by mistake it hit up his face and then it lead him to slap me again and push me. All of this happened and then after getting my attendance sort and submitted assignment. The classmates made it more heated (all of them were boys), so as i decided to sort it out by talking out the problem between us but then he proceeds to slap again. After that, One of the guys present there who made it turn it into much more heated argument came and told me “Agar ___ ko kuch bhi hua toh fir tu iss college me nahi rahega” and left. Thankfully my friend recorded the incident from far away but he wasn’t able to record the boy’s words but he recorded the incident that what happened.
There are no cctv in classroom and a professor was present in the class too but she didn’t involve in the incident and didn’t give any kind of attention to what was happening.
The guy who told me “Agar ___ ko kuch bhi hua toh fir tu iss college me nahi rahega” apparently has a lot of backing and has connections.
I am really skinny and i absolutely have no strength so i always get overpowered always by strength. I always try to solve the matter by mutual understanding but these people in my class always make the argument heated and leads to fights.
I genuinely need help and these things do bother me and lower my self esteem, i want to know what can be done.
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U1. Inform your parents, friends, and management. There’s nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about.
2. Become stronger. Eat a lot, hit the gym, learn to throw a few punches. Once you’re strong enough to fight back, then fight back.
3. Until you have the strength to fight and defend yourself, avoid as much conflict as possible. Stay away from that person to avoid any contact.
4. If it’s unbearable, change the college, do it. As I mentioned in the first point, inform your parents and come to a mutual decision. If you can’t solve the problem, go away from the problem.
5. Put that person on your hitlist and plot your revenge. Whenever you’re capable of exerting your revenge on him, teach him a lesson.
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AI informed my parents about it and my hostel wardens. If they further try to harass me then i will inform the management and even put up an complaint on helpline@antiragging.in
I have even told my parents for gym money(they weren’t sending earlier due to myths and hoaxes they have heard). Right now im very weak so im gonna totally avoid those guys and avoid getting involved in any kind of fights.
For college change, If things really get out of hand and involves police and huge amount of public attention then only it will be apt to change college.
I will make sure that the guy faces the worst consequences, if he tries to escalate the matter even more.
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DBits Pilani?
Anyways, just talk to the Student Welfare department about this incident. Trust me, they will take action. Also, inform your HOD and Class Faculty Coordinator.
Action will be taken.People will say that this is a bad advice but — you gotta toughen up now. People will do shit to hurt you, demean you. Your respect is in your hands. Just be upfront and straightforward with them that you don’t like this.
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