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PMy (30F) marriage was an Arranged one and went downhill as husband forced me to leave my government job and to stay with in laws . He never let me stay with him and was working in a different city.
During our course of marriage we had some intimate moments and I shared him some of my pics and he used to take my pictures during intimate moments. Now can he use those pictures against me in any form after I have filed for divorce?
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IIf he has threatened you with this over texts or any other documented way you can use it against him during divorce
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Uthat depends on him honestly ……..but if he has threatened you better take it up with ur lawyer ……try and amicably part ways so that both of u can move on ……..
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QDude being a female you can destroy him if you want and if he’s guilty you should do it. You ain’t a maid for his parents. You too deserve a human connection and some emotional support, failure to do that are grounds for divorce. Also I think he might be having an affair.
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U“You can destroy him if you want” Wow. Its a marriage and it appears it went downhill only because OP is a victim. Also ideally pictures and all is personal preference, however its outright stupid in the name of intimacy, but hopefully the guy is sensible and deletes those so confront and confirm. But dont be a feminazi please. You shared them in so called good times for reason known to you, and you have all rights to withdraw consent and ask them proof of deletion now. Sharing nudes is stupid btw in any scenario. Be safe
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QI’m just telling her she has nothing to fear or stress about. It’s just the power our judiciary and penal system has laid out. She’s a victim so she should destroy him. Making marriage a joke , men like him are the reason others suffer. For every 10000 stupid men there is 1 woman like the wife of atul subhash. Men being degenerates is the reason these laws exist in the first place.
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UBasically you are just reinforcing by saying again, she is a victim and she must destroy him. Please stop before you lose it completely. You dont know what wentbwrong in their marriage, the OP had a doubt of what if, you are making a doubt or fear a reality and calling men degenrates. I rest my case.
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QShut the f up bro. I went through a divorce and I know shit when a partner behaves this way. It is not worth it.
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AJust tell him you will report to the cops. That’s good enough. Or contact Women Social Workers. They will guide you ensure you are safe.
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Pyour hubby wanted a maid not a wife. You better Leave him you left your govt job to take care of his parents while he’s in a different city enjoying
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Ufile for DV , mental cruelty
file another case for keeping explicit pics , if its without consent then he will in be in jail for 5 years , if shared with someone else then 7 yrs
file defamation case too
also there is law for gestures intended to insult modesty of women
file FIR and report to women’s helpline , apply restraining order so that he cant share further , keep all the evidences
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Uwhat????? you left government job for such bastard….
he can’t share if he does you can file case ..but it’s better to give him warning in advance and have some evidence of it…
also try to format his mobile or anything where u think it could be stored if you got any slightest opportunity
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HBe normal, and delete it once he is back at home. See once leaked there is no normal.life for you. So it is better to take precaution now
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GIf my wife had a govt job, i would shift to that city and look for work.
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UI feel you are overthinking…first try to have open conversation and try to reconcile with open and genuine mind and get the actual reason for him to force you to leave job
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