Chachas are threating me and my mom for our own property, need urgent advice.

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      Silentsajal3253
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        April 29, 2025 at 12:07 pm
        (This help is required by my friend, I’m posting this on his behalf, please read and help him)

        Hi, I’m a 20-year-old student, and I urgently need legal advice.

        My father, who passed away when I was 14, built wealth from scratch in real estate and bought 3 flats worth ₹3 crores. Since I was a minor, he made my mother the nominee. Now she is the legal owner, and I am an adult. The nominee position is currently vacant.

        Lately, my paternal uncles (chachas), whom my father once mentored, are pressuring my mother to nominate someone from their family. They claim it’s for my benefit, but it’s clearly about control. They’ve been manipulating and threatening her emotionally — today they said things like “we’ll do this and that to your son living alone.” My mother fainted from stress and is now in the hospital.

        One uncle and five unknown men also came to my rented place asking for me. Thankfully I wasn’t home. They’ve now set a deadline of the 10th for us to nominate them, or they’ll take legal action. I know they don’t have legal rights to the property, but I’m concerned about harassment, threats, and potential legal complications.

        What legal steps can I take to:

        1. Ensure our safety

        2. Prevent harassment

        3. Secure the property

        Please help — I’m managing this alone and very disturbed.

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        Fierceknight7359
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          April 29, 2025 at 12:15 pm
          If the property was in your father’s name, then you and your mother are legal heirs to that property. Your chachas doesn’t have any authority or say in those properties. File a complaint in police station against them and see them disappear. Get the property transferred to both of your names and they can’t do shit.

          • #5781 Reply
            Silentsajal3253
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              April 29, 2025 at 12:21 pm
              My mother tried to protect the “rishta”, however I am fed up of these goons, so I will do that. Major problem is that my mother and most family is about 350 km away, and all these people have in power is showing up to my house with men to intimidate me, risking my safety.

              I am currently at another uncle’s house, and will take some people with me to my room, so that’s good, however I don’t know what their intentions are for today, or for what reason did they visit my room today. I am thinking of recording the whole interaction(letting them know beforehand) if they do visit again as I’ve told them to meet me at 7, today.

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                Luckyvasant9624
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                  April 29, 2025 at 12:31 pm
                  it is a bit drastic but if its you and just your mother you should move to place near your relative.again just a suggestion

                  • #5786 Reply
                    Silentsajal3253
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                      April 29, 2025 at 12:46 pm
                      Thankyou, I’ll suggest him.

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                      April 29, 2025 at 1:13 pm
                      Dude, you have to be the man and involve police to get rid of those idiots.

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                    April 29, 2025 at 12:41 pm
                    First things first you will have to show courage and tell your uncle that you will not nominate. If he still pressurise you, you and your mom shall go to police station and file a complaint.

                    If you go alone, police won’t file it. Take your mom with you.

                    What are your uncle’s ground on making you nominee?

                    • #5780 Reply
                      Silentsajal3253
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                        April 29, 2025 at 12:45 pm
                        My friend will go with his uncle and their sons to file the complaint. So that’s ensured.

                        I don’t get your last question, please elaborate.

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                            April 29, 2025 at 12:50 pm
                            Sorry, I mean to ask, why is your uncle asking you to make him nominee? On what grounds?

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                                April 29, 2025 at 12:58 pm
                                very dumb reasons, he says I’m too young and that since I don’t have a father AND my mom is sick often, they will help me with my studies etc with that property’s money. We can already see they will kick my ass out as soon as they get full ownership.

                                Also, since they are my father’s brother, they “deserve” it apparently. It’s a full family of 6-7 people plotting against us, they were always jealous of my father’s success as he was a risk taking individual.

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                                    April 29, 2025 at 1:14 pm
                                    They don’t deserve an inch of that property because it is in your father’s name. You and your mother are legal heirs

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                                      April 29, 2025 at 1:15 pm
                                      They don’t deserve anything! It’s your father’s money. This needs to be clearly communicated to them. Tell them they are not going to get anything out of those properties.

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                                        April 29, 2025 at 1:24 pm
                                        Bhai you are 20 years old. You guys are risking your lives don’t let that happen. Take some hard step. Its very obvious that your uncles are after the property.

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                                          April 29, 2025 at 5:48 pm
                                          Involve other family members in this matter. Shame your uncle in front of all the people

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                                              April 30, 2025 at 7:50 am
                                              They have no shame. None. In fact, they themselves are involving other family members, yesterday my friend said that one of the chacha called his mausi (who lives very far and has no involvement whatsoever) and said shit like “his mom is sick often, today also she fainted and is hospitalized, ask him (my freind) to co operate with us”

                                              Who tf co operates by giving 3cr worth of property 😭😭 very dumb bunch of people istg.

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                                      April 29, 2025 at 1:13 pm
                                      1. The property was purchased by your father. Both you and your mother are legal heirs to the estate.
                                      2. Your relatives don’t have any legal grounds to pursue this
                                      3. If they try to pressure you, hit back legally

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                                        April 29, 2025 at 1:44 pm
                                        Sell it

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                                          April 29, 2025 at 1:53 pm
                                          अर्जित संपति तथा पैतृक संपति नियम।

                                          Concept of self earned and ancestral property. 

                                          If your father has bought these flats with his own money as you said, your uncle’s family can’t do anything. 

                                          Make sure they never allowed to take physical hold of the area ever. 

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                                            April 29, 2025 at 1:55 pm
                                            Don’t worry they can’t do shit, There threatening you with legal action but it won’t result to anything because your father owned the property and your mother is the nominee and you are the legal heir

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                                              April 29, 2025 at 10:02 pm
                                              Bro kabhi chacha k bacho ko milke aao. Rishtedari age bdaoo..

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                                                April 29, 2025 at 11:02 pm
                                                Also make a will with a lawyer incase something happens to both of you ur property goes to ur known person/ charity or something n not to the uncles irritating you

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