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UMy cousin’s husband is cheating on her. She has some evidences. One being Her husband lied to her about being at some place instead at those dates he was at a hotel. She has screenshots of his map timeline from those dates which shows that he drove to to some other state and she also has screen shot of payment to that hotel.
Now we want to know can we call
that hotel and ask about guest details before she can tell to her parents?She has tried to tell her parents in the past but they brushed off her concerns because she had no evidences at that time.
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MHotel won’t provide you anything, especially if it is a reputed chain star hotel. If it is an unbranded low star hotel, you MAY succeed in bribing them to give you a copy of invoice and credit card receipt. But for that someone needs to go in person.
Even then, those proofs are not worth anything in court.
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CYou don’t need adultery as a reason to file for divorce.
If you think the husband will contest the divorce.Law are in your cousins favour to encourage to agree to uncontested divorce should she want to.
Personally, ask your cousin what she wants.
Only confront the husband if you prepared to go all the way.As for you, try not to get too involved right now. Let them figure this out.
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MThink about the next steps more thoroughly. Her parents are probably deliberately ignoring things, because they don’t want things to south.
She will need to work out on her marriage.
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UWhat would you suggest? She is emotionally not well, she is planning to go to her parents home for few days, for now we have decided to not confront the husband.
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UI am telling her the same that this is not enough to take any step but she is planning to share this with her parents.
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ULast time she told them they brushed her off saying ki tujhe veham hua hoga. So I asked her to get some proper evidence. Coz for Google map timeline he can easily say that he went for a solo trip coz of may be work stress etc etc.
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MTell her to take a break and gather herself. She will need to be strong and very calm.
It’s better if she deals with this herself – so that it remains a matter between them.
Give her your support but avoid intervening for now.If her decision is to part ways then she will need the support for it.
If her decision is that the marriage must continue, you will have to act as though you know nothing.
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GDoes this hotel has a bar, and the state he is going to has lower prices for alcohol? He may just be getting drunk.
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PWhat does she want to do by telling her parents? Does she want to prove that he is ‘the bad choice’ that her parents made? She needs more emotional support than validation from her parents. She could be going through hell inside her. If she feels there is no point in continuing with the betrayal, she has to move out of the relationship. If she isn’t employed or has no means for sustenance, let her find a job to keep her engaged as well as start earning for her to feel independent. She is an adult, who doesn’t need to be dependent on parents to make decisions. If she feels it is enough, let it be. Them forcing her to be in a marriage that is broken will not fix anything rather she is losing herself further.
Legal advice – let her keep all the evidence saved before someone (including parents) delete/ destroy them. She can file for divorce (if she wants to do so) on the grounds of adultery. The procedure is as per this [https://divorcebylaw.com/best-contested-divorce-lawyers-in-bangalore/](https://divorcebylaw.com/best-contested-divorce-lawyers-in-bangalore/)
If she doesn’t want divorce, but only a warning or counseling to the husband, can file a case under domestic violence for emotional violence and ask for such remedies. [https://divorcebylaw.com/domestic-violence-lawyer-in-bangalore-india/](https://divorcebylaw.com/domestic-violence-lawyer-in-bangalore-india/)
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AConfront him at a place where its safe to do so. In presence of others where if he turns out to be dick, she can immediately walk away. Don’t tell him about any evidence. Just plain ask him that i am giving you the opportunity to come clean before I take next steps.
And she needs to be mentally very strong to deal with upcoming consequences. Its only going to get ugly .
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CWe can’t say he was cheating unless we get concrete evidences!
Ask her to snoop thru his phone and see if she finds chats or smthing!
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