Dad disinherited me and gave everything to my brother in the US

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        Dad disinherited me and gave everything to my brother in the US

        Ever since my parents got to know that my ex-wife has filed for divorce because of my affair ,my parents are very angry and from past 2 years my dad has been threatening to disinherit me and give everything to my brother, who lives in the US. Recently, I found out that he has already made a will explicitly stating that I will get nothing, and everything will go to my brother.

        I donโ€™t know the exact details of the will yet, but I assume it includes both self-acquired and ancestral property. Iโ€™m in banglore , all I know that ancestral property canโ€™t be willed away but he has given all his self acquired property to my brother. Can I challenge this later? Also, what happens if the witnesses of the will are no longer alive? Can I challenge stating that he made this will because of sheer aggression?

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          March 31, 2025 at 6:38 pm
          Stand on your feetย 

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              March 31, 2025 at 6:45 pm
              As he once tried to stand on his third leg

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                March 31, 2025 at 7:12 pm
                My friend faced a similar issue . He got the inheritance as he used Aurungzeb tactics.

                He sent a special sweets delivered when the other brother visited the father . Everyone passed away peacefully in sleep

                The judge giving favorable verdict to my friend lost all his money to a fire recently .

                Survival of the fittest /s

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                    March 31, 2025 at 7:23 pm
                    Damn

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                      April 4, 2025 at 7:34 pm
                      That’s awesome he lost the money

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                          April 5, 2025 at 2:32 am
                          He has a dozen more bunglows

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                      March 31, 2025 at 6:45 pm
                      Happy that your parents are siding your wife and not pampering raja beta after he cheated on her

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                          April 3, 2025 at 10:09 pm
                          Nope! If parents wanted to side with the wife, they would have disowned him 3 years ago when he cheated. This disowning drama is just to reduce the alimony amount.

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                          March 31, 2025 at 6:52 pm
                          It was a good decision by your parents. You should respect their choice. However, I do not believe you have any self-respect, considering you cheated on your wife in the first place.

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                              March 31, 2025 at 7:31 pm
                              and by the post, he doesnโ€™t seem to have any remorse either. big win for parents.

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                                  March 31, 2025 at 7:42 pm
                                  I like how you concluded that by a mere 200 word post.

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                                      March 31, 2025 at 7:53 pm
                                      yup, how you frame your sentences usually gives it away.

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                                        April 1, 2025 at 8:56 pm
                                        Why don’t you go to your Affair partner for help? Afterall she is the reason you are facing the dance today.

                                        Leave your parents and ex wife alone. Some good karma finally?

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                                          April 3, 2025 at 2:30 pm
                                          Cheating is cheating ๐Ÿ™ƒ you’re 15 yrs older than me, itna bhi nai pata apko

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                                        April 3, 2025 at 2:04 pm
                                        He asked for legal advice not moral policing

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                                            April 4, 2025 at 12:50 am
                                            Based

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                                              April 4, 2025 at 7:32 pm
                                              Who cares, he’s literally screwed & he screwed himself. There is nothing he can do but take responsibility

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                                              March 31, 2025 at 6:53 pm
                                              NAL.

                                              From what Iโ€™ve read and have seen- ancestral property that has been partitioned and registered in your fatherโ€™s name is his self acquired property. Itโ€™s his choice on what to do with it. You can challenge this in court, but you will waste money and your parentโ€™s money.

                                              As for his own acquired property, you have no rights either. Itโ€™s his choice here too.

                                              You should consult an attorney to verify this.

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                                                  March 31, 2025 at 7:06 pm
                                                  > From what Iโ€™ve read and have seen- ancestral property that has been partitioned and registered in your fatherโ€™s name is his self acquired property

                                                  My dad directly inherited from grandfather as my dad is only child.

                                                  > person who wrote the will was not in a sound mental position

                                                  No , I canโ€™t use that tactic for very obvious reasons.

                                                  So unless my dad voluntarily adds me again , there is no chance of me getting any part of it in the future? What if me and my parents reconcile then?

                                                  I got ripped off completely in my divorce and now my parents have disinherited me ,I am left with nothing much now.

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                                                      The land has to be non-partitioned for 4 generations and passed on as inheritance after death to be considered ancestral property. At any point, if the land was partitioned or willed, it becomes self acquired property of the person. Check how the land was inherited. If it was inherited after the death, then you have to check the other generations. Consult a lawyer. In India, law is what you argue and how much you pay the judge anyways unlike western countries. Itโ€™s not absolute.

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                                                          March 31, 2025 at 7:14 pm
                                                          Got it , thanks! It was partitioned before my grandfather got it so it isn’t ancestral property anymore. I thought in worse case atleast I will get ancestral lands but….. Nevermind.

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                                                              March 31, 2025 at 7:17 pm
                                                              Your parents gave you life. They raised you and gave you some morals (not all from the looks of it). Be grateful for that. As for properties and stuff- Yes itโ€™s nice to cry in a Mercedes than on a street, but end of the day itโ€™s still crying. Your most important assets is your family. Money comes and goes. Be thankful and apologize to the fam. And move on.

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                                                                  March 31, 2025 at 7:23 pm
                                                                  > Tbh, legally what your parents did is smart. They basically told the court that youโ€™re not part of the will- so your alimony will go down.

                                                                  Lol no , they waited for 3 years to get my divorce process over and then registered the will. I am giving alimony and child support separately and it was not concluded by considering my parents property.

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                                                                      March 31, 2025 at 7:25 pm
                                                                      You did not choose onetime alimony payment to the wife?
                                                                      The child support you have to give till heโ€™s 18 or the girl gets married or she finds a job. I hate that about Indian laws that itโ€™s fatherโ€™s responsibility till the girl gets married.

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                                                                          March 31, 2025 at 7:30 pm
                                                                          Yeah giving one time alimony as ex is financially independent and will pay child support till 18y.

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                                                                              Anyways. Hereโ€™s the key part: A will can always be changed by the person who wrote it. A property registration can only be changed by the person who owns the property.

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                                                                    March 31, 2025 at 7:33 pm
                                                                    >I got ripped off completely in my divorce and now my parents have disinherited me ,I am left with nothing much now

                                                                    you reap what you sow

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                                                                      April 1, 2025 at 8:57 pm
                                                                      What did you expect? You have an affair and your family is waiting with a garland?

                                                                      You sound delusional!

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                                                                        April 3, 2025 at 1:59 pm
                                                                        You shouldnt listen to these people. Cheating is bad and you deserve a punishment for it, but you dont deserve the death sentence.

                                                                        I think you should forget about inheritance and rebuild your life. You should be on fire to succeed now given that you burned all your bridges. This is how millionaires are being made.

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                                                                      March 31, 2025 at 6:53 pm
                                                                      I’m sorry but why are we giving moral advice,in a legal subreddit?

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                                                                          March 31, 2025 at 6:59 pm
                                                                          “Gunda hu par mere bhi kuch usul hai.”

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                                                                            Exactly. Too many clowns here

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                                                                            March 31, 2025 at 6:53 pm
                                                                            It’s your father’s property & he has right to dispose at will. Karma is a bitch.

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                                                                              Consult a lawyer this case is tricky if you can prove that your dad is not in a right mental state the will can be challenged… Record the conversation of your father it can be used as evidence. Also your father can’t will away the ancestral property so you can still challenge it in court. Get a lawyer asap.

                                                                              Also you are a bitch for cheating on your wife. But whatever some people will never learn. Maybe next time don’t think with your third leg and use some of that brain that you have in your head.

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                                                                                  March 31, 2025 at 7:19 pm
                                                                                  My parents aren’t talking to me properly from past 2 years so I canโ€™t do that as it will hurt them more.

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                                                                                  March 31, 2025 at 7:07 pm
                                                                                  Congrats time to build everything from zero

                                                                                  Only way up brother cause what’s your will come one way or other

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                                                                                    W father.

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                                                                                      He did what he could within legal means – meaning that, he couldnโ€™t disinherit you from the ancestral property, but he could from his own wealth. Consult a lawyer, but if substantively what your father did was legal, I would leave it and avoid going after the will based on these technicalities. And overall, I would not do this – you say that you cannot hurt your parents more but dragging them to court, especially when your challenge is tentative, will only add more fuel to the fire. Also, it will likely eliminate any chance of reconciliation.

                                                                                      I know that between this and your divorce case, your wealth has been zeroed out. I would not look back but forward at this point. Get a therapist, put your head down, and just focus on work and rebuilding yourself. You are young, both from a perspective of building your wealth again and a personal life. Look back only to learn from your mistakes (because it honestly doesnโ€™t seem that you have accepted fully that these are consequences of what you did). Otherwise, your best option is forward.

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                                                                                          April 4, 2025 at 7:36 pm
                                                                                          Thank you!! Was waiting for this comment. He definitely needs to sit with himself & know this is all his fault. There’s no fixing, just accept that you messed up the best part of your life and move forward.

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                                                                                          If the Will is registered then you can challenge it but will fail.

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                                                                                            damn you’re trash

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                                                                                                Great legal advice

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                                                                                                Your dad might change heart and cancel the will. Dont give up.
                                                                                                You will get the share of your ancestral property anyways

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                                                                                                  People are literally giving “moral gyan” in legal advice subreddit.

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                                                                                                      Same in r/offmychestindia. ‘A safe and non-judgemental zone’.

                                                                                                      Obviously what he did was wrong and he is facing the consequences of that, but people are hell bent on abusing him, laughing and what sorts lol, saying he deserves nothing ๐Ÿ’€. Like ok ? He knows that he fucked up pretty bad.

                                                                                                      Like there have been so many cheating related posts on both these subs but I haven’t seen this much abuse.

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                                                                                                          If OP had been a woman, people would have gone full on “you go girl… You need your independence and you can be the judge of your own life” crap.

                                                                                                          The double standard is nakedly visible.

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                                                                                                              April 4, 2025 at 8:25 am
                                                                                                              Ummmm not really lol, but I am pretty she wouldn’t have faced this much abuse. Cheaters regardless of gender deserve this but again I don’t think op deserves his parents completely disowning him no matter how much people disagree with me.

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                                                                                                              Don’t give sympathy to him bitch he absolutely deserves it all for what he has done

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                                                                                                                  Wrong sub.

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                                                                                                                    Abe jana yaha se chutiye, mere ‘sympathy’ aur tere gaali dene se koi farak nahi padega.

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                                                                                                                        To lawde gali kyu derha h tu bhi esa hi krega kya future me

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                                                                                                                            Waah waah, saying someone isn’t deserving of death sentence in offmychestindia is the same as doing that.

                                                                                                                            Tum log bas pretend karte ho online to bhi on the right side jis se tumhe satisfaction milti hai. Aur gaali tune di thi to sun bhi le.

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                                                                                                                    Bro you are beyond cooked……

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                                                                                                                      I think someone can never be removed from ancestral property

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                                                                                                                        People fall in love and fall out of marriage all the time. It could have been okay. What was not okay at all the way you took your wife for granted and repeatedly lied her, cheated on her. If you kept communications clear things would have been different.

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                                                                                                                          Read ur other post with comments off, dawg u need to like move like states away at the minimum possibly out of country get some new scenery and start building a new life,u fs need to hit the reset button. Personally id have crashed tf out, her girl bsf as the lawyer is crazy work, like thatโ€™s definitely how folks end up on the news pushing a human being just a little too far

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                                                                                                                              Aye it’s his own fault

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                                                                                                                              well deserved. All chetaers should be treated with the same actions. If you regret your shit, stop fkn thinking about the inheritance and build a better life for yourself and your future.

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