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UUser_4794ee36
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January 14, 2025 at 6:07 amMy elder brother has been torturing my mother and not letting her live peacefully for quite many years. He nitpicks things around and starts yelling unnecessarily. Is adopted, into drugs, divorced, has no work & a very violent nature. Father tried moving him out of the house, both peacefully and by force while offering money and a house to stay but he fought back physically and didn’t go. Father left home one day leaving everything behind and is missing for the past 2 years, so he is no more in the picture. Brother forcefully took control of dad’s mobile for whatever income comes in his bank account. Went to the police to figure something out, but they were least interested, directed us to senior cell who also didn’t help much. Based out of Delhi, if someone can please suggest a way out. -
MManishtiger507
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January 14, 2025 at 6:09 amFIR silently-
UUser_4794ee36
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January 14, 2025 at 10:29 amPolice initially tries mediation among both parties for which they will tell him about the FIR and try to sort things out. Eventually he will be back home and go berserk.
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UUser_7129725b
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January 14, 2025 at 6:13 amMay be approach local newspaper or other media channels. -
UUser_dcc43fe2
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January 14, 2025 at 7:52 amAre you sure your brother hasnโt done anything to your father?-
UUser_4794ee36
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January 14, 2025 at 9:47 amYes, my dad flew to a different city and then disappeared from there the next day on his own. Was staying stressed due to some money problems. -
UUser_4794ee36
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January 14, 2025 at 9:51 amYes, dad flew to a different city and then disappeared from there the next day on his own. Was staying stressed due to money problems for some time.
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CCleverneha6648
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January 14, 2025 at 8:36 amSell your house and move out. If you can’t force him out you get out with your mother.-
UUser_4794ee36
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January 14, 2025 at 10:30 amHouse is in joint ownership, can’t be sold yet.
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UUser_a472cd3e
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January 14, 2025 at 9:56 amWhat is your status? You’re man, woman? Who is the property in name of? Is the brother legally adopted?
Your mother can disown him legally. She can sell everything and make an FD, so that she ensures smooth expenses for herself, make your phone number in all banking transactions. See a lawyer and he can suggest what all can be done in this case.-
UUser_4794ee36
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January 14, 2025 at 10:23 amI am a 29 y/o male. The property is in joint ownership and can’t be sold without father’s presence or need to wait for 7 years in which law presumes missing as dead. Yes, he is legally adopted. Please suggest if you know any good lawyers in Delhi.-
UUser_a472cd3e
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January 14, 2025 at 1:58 pmSorry that I’m not aware of a good lawyer in Delhi.
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UUser_e88eb0fd
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January 14, 2025 at 10:36 am1. Intervention using close relatives
2. Name and shame using social media, family WhatsApp groups
3. Threaten suicide
4. Consult a good lawyer. Go scorched earth against the ahole brother of yours.
Obviously record all acts of physical violence, threats etc -
BBrightowl5321
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January 14, 2025 at 10:42 amLawyer from Delhi here.I would advise you to engage a Lawyer and file appropriate proceedings under the Maintenance & Welfare of Parents and Senior Citizen Act, 2007 (Senior Citizen’s Act) before the Deputy Commissioner/District Magistrate who is the relevant authority under the Act. In 2022, the State of Delhi amended the Statute to allow eviction of children if certain conditions (as as yours) exist. The proceedings are summary proceedings and therefore you will get relief without much delay (in comparison to Civil Suit). Elder Abuse is a niche area of practice and most lawyers will advise you to simply file a suit for ejectment before a Civil Court. However, the Senior Citizen’s Act bars the jurisdiction of Civil Courts. So this is your only way to get relief (apart from Criminal Action, which you should also commence after consulting your Lawyer).
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