Fake dowry and harassment case filed by wife

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        January 19, 2025 at 10:43 am
        my wife filed a fake dowry case and harassment case against me and my family members complaining i took huge amount of dowry and also we kicked her out of our house and both allegations are utterly baseless and false . How can i protect myself and my innocent family members from this case and which legal recourse i can take against her and her parents for filing a fake case.

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          January 19, 2025 at 10:45 am
          You can’t do nothing

          Because you are a MAN . You are not protected by the system. You are bound to pay all the taxes

          All benefits will be provided to wimin .

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              January 19, 2025 at 10:48 am
              You are talking like there is no law and justice prevails in the country. Have you also gone all through this and experienced yourself?

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                  January 19, 2025 at 10:50 am
                  How ignorant you are , Find me one law which protects man from marital disputes and wife’s torture

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                    January 19, 2025 at 10:51 am
                    oh , you are a lawyer but still can’t save yourself

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                        January 19, 2025 at 10:57 am
                        I am not a lawyer bro

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                        January 19, 2025 at 10:58 am
                        Man I know friends very closely who had suffered through this and I am also in the same boat where my wife is planning the same
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                        The thing is they have rights to money despite everything and majority of context is money
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                        Unless you hava a passport for panamacity and you can lay low there for 10 years, you are fucked
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                        AND YOU CAN TELL XYZ BUT YOU WILL SEE SIMP JUDGES MAKING A MOCKERY OF EVERYTHING
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                        IT’S ALREADY A LOST BATTLE IN FAIR FIGHT

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                          January 19, 2025 at 11:32 am
                          1. Be composed, and don’t go into a reactionary mode, and collect your evidence and keep them in a *safe place* (or distribute them with people you *trust.)*

                          2. Surround yourself with *helpful allies* – friends and family – you will need them in trying times.

                          3. Consult a few *lawyers.* You are the best judge of *selecting one who can work with your case.*

                          4. It will consume time, be prepared financially as well.

                          Apart from these at the top off my head, good luck!

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                            January 19, 2025 at 11:46 am
                            I have gone through all this and I can agree to the above comment. There is no law or anything to protect us. The only thing you can do is defend. Nobody is going to arrest you or do anything. Simply dont do anything or run to the court and put yourself in trouble. The case proceedings take a long time. Just mind your business, nothing is gona happen unless you really did something wrong. Like physical assault, etc.

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                              January 19, 2025 at 2:05 pm
                              Even if it is there, it is painfully slower than a bullock cart. I suppose you have not come across the speed of courts in India. It will take years to sort this out.

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                              January 19, 2025 at 12:06 pm
                              Thats the fate of men and their families in our country.
                              Men are just good to you know what u mean,

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                              January 19, 2025 at 10:55 am
                              Read the post bro. I also asked for legal recourses as i am not an advocate or attorney like you. Yes You can call me ignorant but if you haven’t any advice then no point having any further discussion with you.

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                                  January 19, 2025 at 11:07 am
                                  Did she or her family ever transfer any money to you? If yes then they can say that is the dowry money. If she cannot prove then the problem is a little bit less.

                                  For harassment case, there have been several judgements where the fir had been quashed by the court due to vague allegations, not citing specific incidents, there date and place. Etc. Lack of details about harassment and absence of family members from the household (like she said some relative who doesn’t even live with you is also involved in harassment) can easily lead to her discredit and fir getting quashed.

                                  The next thing is, she can come barging into your house (which is her matrimonial home) along with women organization, police etc and get entry. If she gets entry then she can get you all evicted by saying you all are still harassing her. So if she has left the house do not let her enter. Use all the females in your household to stop her by force, keep the males away from that matter if and when she decides to come back.

                                  When you are able to get false cases quashed, you can file defamation case, perjury case against her and her family.

                                  Don’t just go ahead and apply for divorce because she will then get interim maintenance and money to fund her legal battle. Consult a good lawyer.

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                                      January 19, 2025 at 2:13 pm
                                      Damn. I was so glad I rejected when my ex tried to pay me back money I gave her. She and her mom also pestered my mom and me a lot to take gold gifts from her for Diwali and other festivals. We straight up said no.

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                                    January 19, 2025 at 10:59 am
                                    Time is of the essence, you need to get a lawyer today instead of tomorrow.

                                    IANAL, but apparently there are dozens of immediate steps you should be taking right now, which only a good lawyer will be able to guide you with.

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                                      January 19, 2025 at 11:01 am
                                      Mate, hire a good lawyer. Document everything, I mean literally everything. Apply for anticipatory bails. Approach HC with relevant evidences to quash FIR.

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                                          January 19, 2025 at 11:03 am
                                          Can i directly approach the HC for quashing the fir.

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                                              January 19, 2025 at 11:11 am
                                              Dude wait for lawyers to reply.

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                                                January 19, 2025 at 11:13 am
                                                Approaching HC would be my last resort, I will apply for anticipatory bails.

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                                                    January 19, 2025 at 11:26 am
                                                    Will the HC accept cases if hasn’t gone through the lower courts?

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                                                        January 19, 2025 at 11:29 am
                                                        Nope. They will not accept it. Because HC is authority to quash an FIR, if it could be proven sufficiently to be malicious and malafide.

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                                                  January 19, 2025 at 11:49 am
                                                  Our legal system and bhartiya nyay sahita is against men unabashedly ..the section 498 has become an official legal means of demanding dowry from men..and have turned many women in to gold diggers..feminist have literally screwed the Indian Marriage institution..

                                                  But for now like some one posted hire a good lawyer..instead of paying the woman pay the lawyer..and whatever happens don’t pay the monies to her..

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                                                    January 19, 2025 at 12:17 pm
                                                    NAL. She has to prove dowry by transactions. File for anticipatory bail.

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                                                        January 19, 2025 at 1:00 pm
                                                        And there is a slim chance that the OP has not received any SO-CALLED GIFT. Those gift will be considered as dowry

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                                                        January 19, 2025 at 12:26 pm
                                                        Better call saul

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                                                          January 19, 2025 at 12:28 pm
                                                          I would say RELlAX . People can file wtf they want, doesn’t mean its going to be accepted. DENY all allegations and put the burden of proof on her.
                                                          Be calm, when attending any court date go in a suit and be very dignified.
                                                          They will throw ber stupid case out.
                                                          Dont panic and dont react.

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                                                            January 19, 2025 at 12:40 pm
                                                            Ask them to prove if they have given drowy

                                                            And complain to income tax department that rhey are saying they had so much cash transaction

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                                                              January 19, 2025 at 12:57 pm
                                                              Dowry??? If you have received a gift, you are doomed.The law considers all gifts as dowry, and everyone experiences harassment at some point in their lives. For example, people may shout when they are frustrated or fail in something. Nowadays, having sex can also be considered harassment if a wife reports that her husband is raping her and forcing her to have children.

                                                              It is better to settle and give her the divorce because the law will ensure that the male was fucked…fighting the case will be a waste of time and resources….if she has loved you, she will understand, and if she does not, why bother being with her? Just give her what she wants and settle.Fighting dowry case is a lost battle, just like the sc st case.

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                                                                January 19, 2025 at 1:06 pm
                                                                Take a chill pill. Nothing will happen
                                                                Extortion will begin
                                                                She will file Pwdv and maintenance
                                                                Tell her she can do whatever she wants and you are enjoying your life
                                                                File a divorce

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                                                                  January 19, 2025 at 1:09 pm
                                                                  Pay SC/ST people some money and ask them to file abuse and discrimination complaint against your wife’s family.

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                                                                    January 19, 2025 at 1:22 pm
                                                                    For better advice, Contact Deepika Narayan Bhardwaj on Twitter. She is doing a fabulous job for men.

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                                                                      January 19, 2025 at 1:32 pm
                                                                      I just paid my wife 4 lakh to settle 498A false accusations.
                                                                      It took some years and to bring down her monetary demand.

                                                                      I suggest get a good lawer

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                                                                          January 19, 2025 at 2:03 pm
                                                                          I am so sorry you had to go through that. This country is so unsafe for men now

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                                                                              January 19, 2025 at 2:20 pm
                                                                              This country is unsafe for honest people. Both honest men and women are getting fucked by the corrupt assholes in police judiciary and parliament.

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                                                                            January 19, 2025 at 1:36 pm
                                                                            Not a lawyer

                                                                            First thing is to never let your wife in your house. The relationship is over.

                                                                            Second thing to do is to visit a good lawyer and make sure to take bail.

                                                                            Third is to provide evidence that this is a false case.

                                                                            If fir is filed then it will definitely go to court. If you have good evidence then consult with a lawyer to go to high court for quashing.

                                                                            Remember the legal system needs proof. It’s your duty to provide them proof. Don’t be under impression that a police or lawyer will find proof, it’s only up to you to provide all the evidence of your innocence.

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                                                                              January 19, 2025 at 1:36 pm
                                                                              Man that is sad. It is now better to have all the talks before marriage on camera, and install cameras in the house to avoid these kinda situations. I hope you come out of it without any damages

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                                                                                January 19, 2025 at 2:04 pm
                                                                                Prepare for a long draining legal fight. It will take years to sort this out. Stay strong mentally.

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                                                                                  January 19, 2025 at 7:14 pm
                                                                                  Take Anticipatory bail from sessions court. Once you got bail you can give your statement to police and try to stop them from filing chargesheet. If they filed chargesheet go to high court and file for quashing of FIR and Summons. You can attend other cases like DV or 125 crpc but after getting bail. And don’t give any of your financial record to anyone.

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                                                                                    January 20, 2025 at 2:05 am
                                                                                    Lawyer this side… need to know more details to suggest anything..

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                                                                                      NAL. Do you have a divorce case ongoing or had discussed such with your wife. Any conflict or discussion of divorce, that would have happened? All such evidences need to be preserved. Filing this kind of cases is now Standard Operating Procedure – and is usually accompanied by Divorce proceedings from either side or a precursor.

                                                                                      This has become a cottage industry and it is a pressure tactic to extort more money from you.

                                                                                      There is unfortunately no easy way out. Find a good and trusted lawyer from close references and follow what they say. First step is Anticipatory Bail obviously. But after that please be mentally prepared to spend possibly years to run around the legal system.

                                                                                      In theory – yes, HC can squash fake case. But it is not straight forward and can be contested etc. Either way it will take months if not years, so stay strong and be mentally prepared. Can really not do much till your wife’s energy runs out and/or is satisfied by what you can offer (almost never the case).

                                                                                      For some reason the burden of proof has shifted. It is difficult to prove that something did not happen. Next to impossible to prove that something did not happen.

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                                                                                        January 20, 2025 at 1:34 pm
                                                                                        Join SIFF immediately. They will guide you.

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                                                                                          January 21, 2025 at 5:50 pm
                                                                                          The best you can do is get her killed by henchmen. Will save you a hell lot of money. Bu they must be good, so no one from her family files a case against you of getting her killed.

                                                                                          PS = No, am not joking. Am serious. Being a F, am ashamed of such women.

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                                                                                              January 22, 2025 at 3:38 pm
                                                                                              Not possible but thanks for your concern. Maybe i have to bear it all by myself and have to live rest of my life draining all my resources and time. i know i am screwed.

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                                                                                              Contact a good lawyer, start recording your calls with her and messages that can be relevant save em

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