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      User_5eca3871
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        February 13, 2025 at 12:02 pm
        URGENT HELP NEEDED

        My childhood friend texted me yesterday.
        She is going through hell.
        She is on the verge of comitting sucide, pls help me save her.

        Her mother died when she was 2yrs, doesn’t have any relatives, lives with her father only.
        Her father has been abusing her since past 6 years,
        She does all the housework (food, cleaning etc).
        He got her into Allen Ujjain. Wants her to get into IIT only for that 2cr Package.
        She scored 87%ile in mains 1

        And usko bohot maar rahe hai, I mean she used to physical abuse since last 6 years. But last 3 days mai. Its too brutal
        She sent me pics and Its scary, usko head me rod se wagare mara hai. She is bleeding and all, 2 days se khana nahi diya.
        She accidentally slept yesterday while studying, to usko raat me 3 hrs tk bohot mara, and ghar ke bahar rakha.

        She hasn’t slept in past 2 weeks (bas 1-2 hrs).

        I just don’t know how to help her,
        Either kill her father or run away
        Run away like kaise (female hai wo)

        Usse ghar se bahar jaane bhi nahi dete
        (11the me ek baar uske papa ne usko bajar me dekha tha, to public ke samne mara tha bohot)
        Uske uncle ne uska rape kiya tha,…
        But she is just way too depnded and powerless

        She has way too many bruises,…
        She is scared as hell, usne ab tk 17 attempts kiye hai sucide ke, but she is scared and wayy too weak.

        Uska iss world me papa ke alawa koi nahi hai,
        11th 12th me koi friends bhi nahi bane.

        Plss is there anyone from Ujjain, Madhyapradesh… plz help her.

        ~Posting on the behalf of u/Electronic-Month-945.
        Will forward this post to him.

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          February 13, 2025 at 12:06 pm
          Posting this on the behalf of u/Electronic-Month-945

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            February 13, 2025 at 12:30 pm
            Is she <18 by any chance? If so, contact Childline ASAP

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                February 13, 2025 at 12:33 pm
                Well. If she is giving JEE MAINS then there is a chance she is under 18

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                    February 13, 2025 at 12:35 pm
                    You forget there are many droppers too

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                  February 13, 2025 at 12:41 pm
                  ok after checking all the info from the posts etc

                  only way is for the girl to contact a top NGO that caters for childrens , only they can fight against the system in this issue, and she needs to do it ASAP

                  and the that father married 4 times and all the wife’s are dead, this sounds damn sus about the father, guy is a literal danger for the daughter,

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                      February 13, 2025 at 2:53 pm
                      [https://t](https://t) .me/+DCOmCVhILjU4M2E1

                      T and me ke bich ka space hata dena

                      We are making a telegram group so that people interested can directly contact with her and help….

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                        February 13, 2025 at 5:32 pm
                        Immediate resort. To protect herself, order her a pepperspray or give it to her personally and tell her to run to a safe location and call the chindline police when this happens.

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                        February 13, 2025 at 12:42 pm
                        If you wanted help,you wouldn’t post here… instead you would be in action.

                        I’m sure you will not give us an update on this even a week later cause the situation will still be the same because you chose to bark online instead of biting that piece of sheet father of her in real life.

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                          February 13, 2025 at 12:44 pm
                          There r many NGO’s Which Help Girls, u or she can contact them they will help the girl legally and financially both, she can live a better life with NGO

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                              February 14, 2025 at 1:54 am
                              This is incredibly hard for a victim of abuse. Unfortunately to reach out to strangers even if they are going to help her when she’s been brutally abused her whole life will feel like an impossible task for her.

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                                  February 14, 2025 at 2:12 am
                                  It is nearly impossible for that girl, but no one can say what her father or uncle will do to her in the future so she has to take step

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                                February 13, 2025 at 12:59 pm
                                u/St_broseph

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                                    February 13, 2025 at 1:03 pm
                                    good idea but its very hard for him as he is located in Bangalore, this is all the way in MP

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                                        February 13, 2025 at 1:45 pm
                                        Although he probably won’t be able to give hands on help, he will be able to show the way forward.

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                                      February 13, 2025 at 1:12 pm
                                      You should contact Ujjain police on twitter or sth with these details. Tag some senior like commissioner and Bachpan bachao andolan or sth. Give them more details

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                                          February 13, 2025 at 2:46 pm
                                          Any way to do this discreetly?

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                                          February 13, 2025 at 1:35 pm
                                          just get her out of there ASAP like right now, I’d crowd fund also if nothing else is working.

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                                            February 13, 2025 at 1:49 pm
                                            >Uske uncle ne uska rape kiya tha

                                            I am sorry…!?? WHAT !? NO WHAT THE FUCK!???

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                                                February 13, 2025 at 3:52 pm
                                                How did that happend and his father did nothing?

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                                                    February 13, 2025 at 3:55 pm
                                                    Exactly, that’s… That’s messed up

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                                                  February 13, 2025 at 2:37 pm
                                                  that is crazy man pls someone save her from that evil mf

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                                                    February 13, 2025 at 3:11 pm
                                                    This post does not make sense by the furthest logic. I would be suspicious and wondering if its original one was some kind of trap to tangle high schoolers.

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                                                      February 13, 2025 at 4:17 pm
                                                      Use twitter, inform some NGO, tag local police, reach out to some individual reccognised accounts

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                                                        February 13, 2025 at 4:25 pm
                                                        I would suggest reaching out to a support group.

                                                        [Reach Out | Bembala Foundation](https://www.bembalafoundation.org/blank-page-1)

                                                        The helpline’s available from 9:30 am to 4:30 pm. So, please give a call, they have experienced people and can help focus on safety planning to get you out of the situation.

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                                                          February 13, 2025 at 4:39 pm
                                                          I remember seeing this post in another sub and this broke my heart all over again <3

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                                                            February 13, 2025 at 6:21 pm
                                                            CFBR

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                                                              February 13, 2025 at 7:17 pm
                                                              UPSC sub reddit pe ek female IPS officer active hain, I think. Try to look her up and reach out, if possible.

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                                                                February 13, 2025 at 8:37 pm
                                                                u/st_broseph maybe you can connect her with someone…

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                                                                  February 13, 2025 at 8:50 pm
                                                                  IIT mei jake sabko 2CR ka package ni milta. What the hell is wrong with people. That man is just a monster nothing else. I hope she gets the help she needs.

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                                                                    February 13, 2025 at 11:39 pm
                                                                    Call female and child protection helpline and give her address

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                                                                      February 14, 2025 at 3:31 am
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                                                                        February 14, 2025 at 4:33 am
                                                                        If this is true then there are 2 options

                                                                        1. She can go to the closest police station. I can’t imagine how she might be looking but after taking a look at her condition – the cops will contact the NGOs and take action against the father.

                                                                        2. If she cannot escape, someone should try diversion techniques for her to escape. If that doesn’t work call “100” and provide all details and the cops usually arrive within an hour depending on the time of the day the complaint is made.

                                                                        If this is really true, there are two options:

                                                                        1. She can go to the nearest police station. The cops will assess her condition, bruises etc. and contact the right NGO for supporting her as well as take action against her father. If she cannot escape, someone should try diversion techniques to help her escape.

                                                                        2. If that doesn’t work call ‘100,’ to provide all details and the police will usually arrive within an hour, depending on the time of day and take necessary action.

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                                                                          February 14, 2025 at 4:42 am
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                                                                            February 14, 2025 at 5:19 am
                                                                            +1

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                                                                              February 14, 2025 at 5:31 am
                                                                              Call 1098 Now!!

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