Friend Took 10 Lakh from Me and Others, Now Ghosting Us – What Are Our Legal Options?

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      Luckyfalcon3539
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        April 22, 2025 at 10:04 am
        Hi all,
        I need some advice on a serious situation. A friend of mine borrowed money from me and a few others, totaling around 10 lakh INR. In my case specifically, he used my credit card to borrow around 1 lakh INR, promising to repay before the due date. It’s been over 5 months, and he hasn’t paid a single rupee back.

        Now, he has completely ghosted us—not picking up calls, not replying to messages. We even reached out to his parents, and they claim he is facing health issues and cannot speak to anyone. It’s clearly a tactic to avoid repayment.

        At this point, we are seriously considering legal action.
        We want to know:

        Is it possible to file a police complaint or take legal action in such cases?

        Would this count as fraud, or is it a civil financial dispute?

        What is the process of filing a complaint, and what evidence should we collect?

        Should we speak to a lawyer or go directly to the police station?

        Any help, experience, or guidance from those who’ve been through something similar would be deeply appreciated. We just want to know the best way to recover the money and hold him accountable.

        Thank you in advance.

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        Desiknight9081
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          April 22, 2025 at 10:10 am
          Hi. I’m a Delhi based lawyer! You can send him a legal notice, to begin with. If nothing turns on it, you can contemplate further legal action.

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              April 23, 2025 at 3:45 am
              Unless you have a promissory note, it won’t work.

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                  April 23, 2025 at 3:48 am
                  No that’s not true actually. If there are bank transactions showing transfer, or payments made via cheque, you can sue him. Did it for my client and got a favourable order.

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                      April 23, 2025 at 9:16 am
                      Ummm no. There’s no way that’s a promissory note or a loan.
                      Unless the other party agrees in court that it was a loan.
                      The counterpart here can say it was a repayment or a bill of sale for services rendered.

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                          April 23, 2025 at 9:44 am
                          Ya ya ofcourse they will contest it saying it was repayment. But if there is no promissory note, then the rest of the trial will decide the outcome.

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                              April 23, 2025 at 11:58 am
                              Yeah and that will benefit only the lawyers. Without a written contract, loans can’t be enforced if the alleged borrower doesn’t confess in court.

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                                  April 23, 2025 at 12:08 pm
                                  So best to lose the money and not even try is what you’re saying may be. To each his own 🙂 I beg to differ! All good!

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                                      April 23, 2025 at 12:17 pm
                                      Or spend twice that amount on lawyers and still get nothing.

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                                          April 23, 2025 at 12:20 pm
                                          Not necessarily. Depending on surrounding factors and what one is able to prove. But again, to each their own. Take care.

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                            April 22, 2025 at 10:14 am
                            Please speak to a lawyer and explain the facts with details and documents. He will let you know what steps to take. For a case to be qualified as fraud, the ingredients have to be satisfied. Mainly the intention to cheat has to be present. If it’s simply inability to pay then it’s a civil matter. But there are various ways to tackle this situation depending on the documents.

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                              April 22, 2025 at 10:29 am
                              Any evidence that mention it’s a loan. He might simply claim it as gift from his friends.

                              Don’t lend any money in future but if you do, get a post dated cheque. At least you will have something to pressurize him

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                                  April 22, 2025 at 10:58 am
                                  We have Whatsapp texts asking for money

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                                      April 22, 2025 at 11:03 am
                                      Has he responded that he will pay?

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                                    April 22, 2025 at 11:06 am
                                    Lawyer here. You have quite a few legal options actually.

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