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        February 22, 2025 at 8:44 pm
        Really need some good advice from the community here. So, I gave 50 Lakh loan to a friend about 1.5 years ago. The friend is builder and never had money problem, he needed money to finance his project and I tried to help with the money, he agreed to pay 60 lakhs after a year.

        The friend has genuinely gotten into trouble as his projects did not get the required approval and he has now a huge debt pile from a few investors. My payment was due in Sep 24 and since then he has paid 15 lakhs so far after chasing him multiple times. He is communicating with properly, and has shown all the intentions to pay the money back. However, he has failed to meet his commitments many times. My assumption is that he is trying to manage multiple creditors and does not have enough liquid money. He assured me that he has a few properties with his partner and they are trying to liquidate those properties to pay off his debt.

        I dont have any documentation, plus I paid him cash. Yes, ai was stupid but he is my childhood friend and I trusted him.

        I am scared that he might not be able to repay anything more to me or deprioritize me against other investors. He and his father (who is the main director of the business) are willing to sign any documents, etc.

        What documents should I get them to sign and how can I protect myself as much as I can so that I build leverage against him and if god forbid, it comes to the complete non-payment, then I can build a solid case against him and his father.

        Further, what other approaches can I apply in this case? Would really appreciate any guidance as I am scared to death

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          February 22, 2025 at 9:07 pm
          He was your childhood friend. He has paid 15L. He is in trouble. Forget the extra 10L. Just get your principal back as soon as you can but do not stake this friendship that you have. Show mercy cuz if you go the hard way you lose the friend and the 35L too. Be smart about it, don’t get anxious and let it ruin this whole situation

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              February 23, 2025 at 3:02 am
              He was never a “friend”,op is not ruining the situation/friendship, his friend already has

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                  February 23, 2025 at 5:27 am
                  Brother we all can have rainy days and that’s when a friend needs a friend most

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                February 22, 2025 at 9:13 pm
                Prepare a notarized contract and obtain a single post-dated check in his name, not the company’s name. Ensure it’s just one check for the full amount, not multiple checks for smaller amounts. Give him sufficient time to make the payment, and if he fails to pay, use Section 138 of the Negotiable Instruments Act (NIA) for the check bounce.

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                    February 22, 2025 at 11:48 pm
                    But what would he write in the contract? That he gave 50L in cash and expected 60L in Sept last year? That would be f’ed up.

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                      February 23, 2025 at 7:29 am
                      >Ensure it’s just one check for the full amount, not multiple checks for smaller amounts

                      Why? Genuinely trying to understand the reason behind this.

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                          February 23, 2025 at 10:37 am
                          Because if he gives different check of different amounts he can dispute in court that i gave it for different different things

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                          February 23, 2025 at 8:27 am
                          Is there any rationale behind the entire payment in 1 cheque.?

                          As far as I know the cheque issued by bank itself has limits of 10/15 Lakh in some cases.

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                          February 22, 2025 at 9:18 pm
                          First get 3 small cheques totaling amount instead of one single cheque without date.

                          So you can file case bounce case in future

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                              February 25, 2025 at 3:57 am
                              Cheque bounce case requires you to have a legal debt/payment due for product services. Just because you had a cheque, you cannot put a case because legally they don’t owe you shit so they can get out easily.

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                              February 22, 2025 at 10:47 pm
                              So basically OP gave his friend 50 lakh black money to get 20% return in a year, which I assume will be again in cash. Because of people like him, most of the tax burden comes to salaried employees.

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                                  February 22, 2025 at 11:52 pm
                                  Nobody talking about this. 50L transaction in cash is itself illegal.

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                                      February 23, 2025 at 1:13 pm
                                      Speculate all you like. No one knows whether tax was paid on the money I gave to my friend or not…

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                                          February 23, 2025 at 4:44 pm
                                          Tax doesn’t matter. What you did is illegal. Read the laws.

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                                        February 23, 2025 at 8:28 am
                                        But OP has not mentioned that it is cash, right?

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                                        February 22, 2025 at 11:44 pm
                                        Lol 50 lakh kon deta hain

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                                            February 23, 2025 at 1:09 am
                                            Bank

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                                              February 23, 2025 at 2:40 am
                                              jispe hote h

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                                                February 23, 2025 at 4:01 am
                                                Ppl with black money

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                                                  February 25, 2025 at 11:47 am
                                                  Rich people with black money. Reddit ke gareebo ke liye ye post nahi tha.

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                                                  February 23, 2025 at 12:21 am
                                                  Ask him to transfer property worth 1 crore to you among the ones that he is trying to sell till he pays off, get him on the hook . My builder friend offered this to me . He should walk the talk.

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                                                      February 23, 2025 at 3:04 am
                                                      This is the only solution. Rest everything is secondary

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                                                        February 25, 2025 at 11:46 am
                                                        I have a couple builders in my family and this is the usual way of dealing with these situations. They sign 1-2 flats or whatever is worth the amount being loaned before and just consider you an investor.

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                                                        February 23, 2025 at 1:31 am
                                                        The moment you said 50l cash..you can forget it. Childhood friend will surgucally cut you off since you cannot report thus. Only tax paid friendly loans are recoverable…numerous judgements on this. So it is best to take a flat or property as security and get it registered in your name and ho to sleep.

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                                                          February 23, 2025 at 3:02 am
                                                          Banks aren’t fools asking for 100 things and security before giving loan. 50L unsecured loan ? That’s riskiest idea I have heard in a while. Don’t deny you were lured by extra 20% return . 
                                                          Anyway money seems gone now. Might recover some part but it will take time. Costly mistake . 

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                                                            February 23, 2025 at 4:16 am
                                                            Neither a borrower nor a lender be;
                                                            For loan oft loses both itself and friend,
                                                            And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry.
                                                            This above all: to thine ownself be true,

                                                            Advice from Polonius to his son Laertes.
                                                            From Hamlet by William Shakespeare

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                                                              February 23, 2025 at 4:21 am
                                                              Raise an invoice to your friend through an entity(your current business or you can get a friend’s company) for services provided or goods sold, then take a cheque against that invoice. If he returns the money then fine otherwise go ahead and put a case for a bounced cheque, this is the process most Pvt money lenders use.

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                                                                February 23, 2025 at 4:31 am
                                                                i dont think there is any neccessity for him to return your money

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                                                                  February 23, 2025 at 6:24 am
                                                                  >50 L cash and unsecured.

                                                                  You will get it back only if your friend really gets his projects on the line. I advise you to actually help him in any way possible to get his projects back on the line. You do not have any other option. TBH, if he has taken more unsecured loans from hostile people then they might harm him or even end him. Then you can forget your money.

                                                                  You do not have any real way to get your money back unless he has any.

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                                                                    February 23, 2025 at 6:58 am
                                                                    Please share your PAN Card with IT dept to start with

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                                                                      February 23, 2025 at 7:27 am
                                                                      Forget that money.
                                                                      There nothing legally you can do.
                                                                      You are on his mercy now.

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                                                                        February 23, 2025 at 8:50 am
                                                                        Don’t keep nudging him for money as it’ll irritate him as he is genuinely ready to give and if he feels irritated he will make you run as he has all legal upper hand to completely deny your amount.

                                                                        So just finalise one good option for 50L of your money and ask him to sign it. This will not irritate him and he will sign considering your friendship.

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                                                                          February 23, 2025 at 9:01 am
                                                                          Get a post dated cheque for the amount he owes. Consider yourself lucky if you get that. Then threaten to move legally after you give time to liquidate his assets.

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                                                                            February 23, 2025 at 9:50 am
                                                                            This is good. You invested in black money, and now stand to lose it all. For these tax saving illegal transactions, I feel tremendously happy when all hell breaks loose

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                                                                              February 23, 2025 at 10:07 am
                                                                              Lawyer here.

                                                                              The question is whether you can prove the contract existed. Do you have written communications with him on whatsapp, email or SMS? If so, then you can use that to file a suit against him and recover that money.

                                                                              My advice would be to not delay the matter any more and consult a lawyer and file a suit immediately.

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                                                                                February 23, 2025 at 12:19 pm
                                                                                didn’t you take any cheque from him before giving money?

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                                                                                  February 23, 2025 at 3:52 pm
                                                                                  If he is ready to sign any document, Get a post dated cheque , If he sings it you can be sure that he will return money. If he doesn’t you are probably not going to.

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                                                                                    February 23, 2025 at 5:15 pm
                                                                                    first of all WTF? 50 lakh cash??
                                                                                    ask him to transfer some property worth your loan amount in your name until he pays back the loan, forget the friendship, he’ll try to manipulate by saying “Don’t you trust me” n all that, you’ll have to manipulate him back by saying I dont have much left, and that you;ll need the money soon for a house construction, or your parents illness, or your family etc

                                                                                    either this

                                                                                    or ask for a post dated cheque(you can date it upto 1 year from the previous due date), in his name, a single cheque that is the same amount as your agreed amount, give him another year to pay back, if he doesn’t, the cheque will bounce and then you can pursue this legally.

                                                                                    keep all the chats screenshots, and if you decide to pursue this legally, then get ready to show where you got 50 lakh in cash from and the taxes that you didn;t pay on it.

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                                                                                      February 24, 2025 at 6:22 am
                                                                                      congrats, you have become his investor now, you better hope he succeeds.

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                                                                                        Just get a property from him..

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                                                                                          Can I please be your friend?

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                                                                                            February 25, 2025 at 3:37 am
                                                                                            This is advice from someone who has seen similar situations very closely.

                                                                                            From his point of view, your loan being an unsecured loan from a powerless person, is the LAST on his priority.

                                                                                            It is very probable that you will never get the money back unless you find a way to show him that you are powerful and shouldn’t be messed with.

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                                                                                              February 25, 2025 at 4:02 am
                                                                                              Why are people advising op to get cheque and “then proceed legally” if he doesn’t return money?

                                                                                              “Section 138, N.I. Act penalizes the dishonour of any cheque which has been issued in the discharge of the whole or part of “any debt or other liability”.

                                                                                              So you need to have a LEGAL way to show that you had a debt or any other liability, which is missing here in OPs case.

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