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MMightyrider3565
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March 23, 2025 at 3:39 amHey! thank you for reading, my grandmother passed away recently and she left behind around 600 grams of gold. My aunts claimed that the daughters should inherit gold but my uncle and father have took care of my grandma all their lives, contributed financial aid for her health. They initially believed to split the gold but after my aunts claims they believe they should be getting a higher share. My aunts also tried to take away the gold without informing, but aunt in law stopped them. Is there any inheritance laws regarding gold? Can my dad and uncle get a bigger share? -
UUrbandivya952
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March 23, 2025 at 4:31 amIf your aunts got share in the house or were given equivalent value in terms of grand marriage function, streedhan and gifts/dowry. Then it should be split equally.Otherwise, only daughters should be inherting it.
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VVarunpanda993
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March 23, 2025 at 5:59 amThis is a ‘legal advice’ sub. Not a ‘what i think should happen’ sub.-
UUrbandivya952
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March 23, 2025 at 6:41 amIn different circumstances, interpretation of laws is also done in different light, in which a judge “thinks.”The law states equal distribution of assets of parents to all the legal heirs as per Hindu Succession Act. The court will initially try to mediate, in case it fails, will devise a formula for distribution of gold, house and other assets.
‘What I think’ and suggested is they should resolve it themselves on similar lines. Rather than spending fee and time on a legal battle.
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CCleversajal8453
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March 23, 2025 at 4:40 amEverything (including property and all other assets) will be, in the absence of a will, divided according to your personal law (the religion of your family).-
MMightyrider3565
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March 23, 2025 at 5:19 amWe are Hindu’s-
CCleversajal8453
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March 23, 2025 at 5:49 amIn that case, all class 1 heirs (mother and children of the deceased) will get an equal share in everything.-
MMightyrider3565
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March 23, 2025 at 8:05 amAlright thank you!-
CCleversajal8453
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March 23, 2025 at 9:34 amYou’re welcome.
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LLuckynitya7738
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March 23, 2025 at 6:02 amI wanna be your sibling😐!-
MMightyrider3565
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March 23, 2025 at 8:04 amHahaha lol
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LLuckynitya7738
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March 23, 2025 at 6:05 amNAL here and welcome any corrections thus, but I believe this is what the usual process would be,1. All the children and husband and parents are Class I legal heirs of the deceased irrespective of their gender and have equal claim on the gold since it is a Hindu family (mentioned in one of the comments).
2. I think Succession Certificate banega given that it is a movable asset.-
MMightyrider3565
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March 23, 2025 at 8:04 amThank you!
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DDesishivansh558
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March 23, 2025 at 6:10 amin absence of a will , everything will be divided equally between the children, neither you aunt nor your father can claim any extra share.there is no special law regarding gold, simple property law will apply.
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MMightyrider3565
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March 23, 2025 at 8:08 amAlright but can my aunts take it to court if my uncle and father decides to take a bigger share?-
WWiseunnati684
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March 23, 2025 at 8:15 amtake only that much of extra share which wont be worth enough to go to court for-
MMightyrider3565
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March 23, 2025 at 8:17 amWe don’t plan on going to the court, I just wanna know how this holds legally.-
RRashmistar792
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March 25, 2025 at 6:18 amYes they can go to court.
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DDesishivansh558
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March 23, 2025 at 8:25 amone can take anything to court, but their chances of succeeding are very minimal and it would only be costly for them in the end. -
AAlphafalcon5583
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March 23, 2025 at 8:34 amYes they can go to court if your father or uncle decides to take a bigger share.
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WWiseguy5667
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March 23, 2025 at 7:56 amGet a lawyer ?-
MMightyrider3565
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March 24, 2025 at 5:01 am“GeT a LAwYer” don’t pmo.-
WWiseguy5667
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March 24, 2025 at 5:04 amI am sorry what?-
MMightyrider3565
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March 24, 2025 at 5:05 amGetting a lawyer will only make existent family tensions worse, and they cost a lot, not worth it.-
WWiseguy5667
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March 24, 2025 at 5:06 amWell , you need not file a case . You can just get legal opinion on what can be done from a lawyer and what options you have
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VVasudhatiger84
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March 23, 2025 at 7:59 amDid she had any property?-
MMightyrider3565
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March 23, 2025 at 8:04 amYes, and it’s all equally divided before she passed.-
VVasudhatiger84
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March 23, 2025 at 8:09 amEqually means between aunts as well?If there is no WILL, and the gold is undocumented you can take it away forcefully but legally you have to divide it.
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IIndianseeker6932
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March 23, 2025 at 9:57 amHow shameful. When it comes to taking care of their own parents they back out but when it comes to sharing of property they want equal halves or even more as in this case-
MMightyrider3565
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March 23, 2025 at 1:08 pmYou’re right😭 -
PPankajninja189
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March 24, 2025 at 4:13 amThere is more nuance to this. Usually parents consider the girl child as an outsider and they spend and give off dowry around 10-20% of their networth. The girl is not expected to claim anything later on. The remaining 80% goes to the sons.But the girl child is entitled to some of the gold of the mother though.
All this is about social conventions. Pegally speaking though, in absence of a will, all children have an equal share in the property, gold and any other assets.
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IIndianseeker6932
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March 24, 2025 at 5:11 amNot in this day and age. All assets are divided equally but responsibility is not shared equally. Even in my case my sister hardly does any work around the house or brings in groceries for the house but when it comes to asset division my parents have already decided who will get what equally. Mind you, she works in a good MNC.
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EEpicninja9327
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March 23, 2025 at 4:05 pm150 grams each-
MMightyrider3565
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March 24, 2025 at 5:00 amI wish it was that easy.-
EEpicninja9327
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March 24, 2025 at 5:09 amMinus the lawyers cost-
MMightyrider3565
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March 24, 2025 at 5:10 amHow do we divide a 200 gram gold chain?-
EEpicninja9327
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March 24, 2025 at 5:40 amBreak it down or they buy you out/vice versa
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PProankit8173
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March 23, 2025 at 4:06 pmNot worth fighting and ending relations over a few tolas of gold.-
MMightyrider3565
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March 24, 2025 at 4:59 amThey are worth 54 lakhs.-
HHappyking982
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March 24, 2025 at 11:01 amHow many siblings
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CCalmowl4952
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March 23, 2025 at 8:55 pmWho got the other assets such as property?That’s often the underlying issue, which manifests itself in these demands. It would be good to have an open discussion where you talk about all the assets as well as the compensation for the years of care your family provided.
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FFierceking2846
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March 23, 2025 at 11:48 pmOP were your aunts given an equal share of property? Why are you not replying to that? -
NNutanmaster783
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March 24, 2025 at 1:19 amI have a similar issue. After my parents passed away, my sister kept all the gold and silver with her. We are only two sisters. She said she would give me half but never shared anything with me while I was in India for a month long period. I don’t live in India and have officially given up on precious metal and the rental income coming from my parents’ house. My sister and I talk daily but none of us brings this into our conversation. Earlier, I had asked her to sell my share of the silver brick and transfer the money but she kept giving me some or other excuse every time. So I have mentally checked out now. I only wished that I get to keep some of my mother’s jewelry as her last memories but have made peace with it now. Some battles are not worth fighting.-
UUser_082e0858
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March 24, 2025 at 3:26 amYou are a good person.
But if your sister is also well off, she should share atleast 60-40 with you.But in your case since you are out of India and if you and your family are racking in $$$$, nothing wrong in giving all the gold to your sister.
Huge difference in earing INR vs $$$
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NNutanmaster783
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March 24, 2025 at 3:04 pmThank you for your kind words. Just to put things in perspective, my sister’s in law family is filthy rich. They live a comfortable life in India with three maids and everything. While I acknowledge my sister doesn’t work but that’s a choice she has made for herself as she is equally well educated. Should I be penalized for toiling my way up to financial independence.. I guess not. Her husband uses her not earning as an excuse whenever he needs to create a ruckus in my life and validating why they need more share from my parental belongings.
While I earn in dollars, my spendings are also in dollars and whoever is currently living in Canada, they would know how difficult it is to sustain with prolonged inflation, high tax bracket and a daunting mortgage to pay back with high interest rates.
But it’s not about money at the end of the day. It’s about my emotions and giving me what’s rightfully is mine. But I have chosen my relationship with my only sibling over my rights. It’s a sad reality but it is what it is. Whatever I do, it’s a lost battle.
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MMightyrider3565
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March 24, 2025 at 4:59 amYou deserve to have some of your mother’s ornaments, If you are wayy way more well off than your sister, you can ask her for an earring or some little ring (just for the memory of your mother), but your sister sounds a little selfish.-
NNutanmaster783
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March 24, 2025 at 3:08 pmOP, we deserve a lot of things in life. 🙂-
MMightyrider3565
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March 25, 2025 at 5:44 amIf I were you, i wouldn’t tolerate being treated like that. I’m not sure if I’m saying this because I’m young but I’d rather not have relationships like that (even if we are related by blood), than hold on to something that’s already dead. Put yourself first, always. -
WWiseaashish3306
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March 25, 2025 at 11:45 amAre you the elder one or younger?-
NNutanmaster783
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March 25, 2025 at 12:17 pmYounger one.
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PPronimesh3885
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March 24, 2025 at 1:54 am1) Yes they can go to court for anything they like.
2) The court will only divide it equally between all surviving successors.-
MMightyrider3565
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March 24, 2025 at 5:06 amNoted, thank you. -
MMightyrider3565
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March 24, 2025 at 5:11 amNoted, thank you!
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SSwiftowl9976
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March 24, 2025 at 4:11 amI understand property but how can one claim the ownership of Gold in the court of law? Can’t we defend it by saying your dad and uncle bought on their own expense and it should belong to both of you.-
MMightyrider3565
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March 24, 2025 at 5:12 amExactly what I was confused about.
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GGaurieagle25
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March 24, 2025 at 8:54 amgenerally real estate is divided amongst sons and gold amongst daughter’s and grandchildren and sons wife
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