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Shreyasbear204.
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UUser_6ad54d57
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February 3, 2025 at 3:00 amI don’t know where else to ask this so any and all help would be really appreciated.I moved in with my boyfriend in December and the lock-in period for our apartment ends in May. He broke up with me a few days ago and now he’s left the burden of finding a roommate on me. The thing is, he said he’ll pay the rent till March and then by then I have to find a partner. However, I told him to help me out till May, I can clear out the flat and I’ll pay him back the rent for those two months entirely.
He refused to do that and I know it’s next to impossible to find someone who is willing to stay only two months. For reference, I’m giving the flat to anyone to live in if they want to, I’ll be home so I will not be staying but I will still pay my half of the rent until the lock-in period is over, after which I will vacate.
I cannot afford 30k rent all by myself as I make a bit more than that per month. Can anyone please tell me what to do? It’s my name on the contract, not his.
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UUser_d591980b
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 3:10 amNAL.Speak with house owner and tell him that due to financial constraints you would like to vacate the house by march end.
Else tell him that you can pay delayed rent as the alternative option. I am sure that he will accept for march end.
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UUser_6ad54d57
OP
February 3, 2025 at 3:11 amJust to be sure, won’t it damage my security deposit since my lock in period is until may?-
UUser_0ca4dc85
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 3:14 amThere is also a clause in the agreement where you can give notice to vacant 30-45 days in advance.-
UUser_6ad54d57
OP
February 3, 2025 at 3:15 amBut isn’t that after the lock-in period? Since it states that during the lock-in period that neither I can vacate nor the owner can ask me to vacate. And if I do, I have to bear the damages, which I cannot.
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BBraveseeker242
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 4:25 amIf it’s bangalore or Delhi. Chance of getting back deposit are almost nil-
UUser_6ad54d57
OP
February 3, 2025 at 4:32 amIt’s in Mumbai-
UUser_ec44e66d
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 4:45 amNAL Talk with the house owner stating that a medical emergency has happened in ur hometown and u have to leave or u have been asked in ur company to leave you are ready to pay till march end
Most people will agree and other thing depends on the landlord-
UUser_6ad54d57
OP
February 3, 2025 at 4:48 amI’m afraid of taking that risk because if it doesn’t work out in my favour i will have to give up my deposit-
UUser_ec44e66d
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 5:04 amHow much is the deposit and location?-
SShreyasbear204
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 7:53 am1bhk 30k appears to be bhandup Ghatkopar side…-
UUser_ec44e66d
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 7:55 amEven in Navi Mumbai its the same
I am paying 32k (11k each 3 member)-
SShreyasbear204
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 7:56 amBut be kharghar- Vashi lane.-
UUser_ec44e66d
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 7:57 amGhansoli🤡 near mbp-
SShreyasbear204
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 7:58 amYou guys are paying 30k+ for a bhk? -
UUser_ec44e66d
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 7:59 amYup it was a furnished flat with wifi gas and parking -
SShreyasbear204
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 8:00 amOkay. Now that makes sense 👍
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UUser_6ad54d57
OP
February 4, 2025 at 12:16 amGoregaon East, and the deposit is 80k. It was a semi furnished house which we wanted to turn into a home… But that didn’t happen.
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VVanshninja265
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 5:48 amWhose name is the lease on? Yours or joint?-
UUser_6ad54d57
OP
February 3, 2025 at 5:49 amJust mine-
VVanshninja265
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 5:51 amHow much is the deposit, ask the landlord to adjust the deposit against the rent due?-
UUser_6ad54d57
OP
February 3, 2025 at 5:51 amThe deposit is 80k, and I’m currently talking to my owner-
VVanshninja265
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 5:54 amWish you all the best….
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UUser_cb8f1800
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 6:22 amStrong independent women can make money-
UUser_6ad54d57
OP
February 3, 2025 at 6:23 amThis strong independent woman just started working and does not make enough.-
UUser_cb8f1800
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 6:25 amSounds like a you problem then. Figure it out yourself-
UUser_6ad54d57
OP
February 3, 2025 at 6:25 amI’m asking for help on what could be done. Not monetary help.-
UUser_c4cfdaf9
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 6:37 amWait for advice from a lawyer if someone shows up
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UUser_c4cfdaf9
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 6:37 amAre you a lawyer or just talking?
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DDesishark6045
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 6:52 amIf you get a room mate you dont need to leave in May. You can continue to live there. Why dont you post in flat and flatmates group in facebook immediately. I am sure you wont have any difficulty in getting a room mate in Mumbai -
MMegaprashant4593
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 7:04 amMeet with your landlord and work out an exit plan by March. -
UUser_7ce68be3
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 7:27 amNAL.Ask your landlord to deduct the monthly rent from the advance amount.
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UUser_d35c2f5d
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 7:51 amWhy did you guys break up? Whose fault was it anyway?-
UUser_6ad54d57
OP
February 3, 2025 at 8:17 amIt’s my fault because I couldn’t balance properly between work and life. I wasn’t able to cook for him on time, I was absent from his life when he needed me, and he didn’t not like the fact that I go back home once a month, for only a weekend at max.He was upset I put my work before him, couldn’t come with him when he needed me to because of work commitments. And on top of that he also threw cheating allegations at me when he had my location, access to all my devices and was with me 24/7.
I completely understand if this sounds unbelievable, but this is the truth.
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UUser_498856ac
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 8:45 amLol had an ex move out because I was getting frustrated with managing both the household and work. Dumbass basically played video games all day and did a surprise pikachu face every time I got upset that I had to tell him what chores were pending.Trust me, you are way better off even if you don’t see it yet. Hopefully you resolve this roommate thing soon and have space to heal from the breakup. Tits up!
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UUser_6ad54d57
OP
February 3, 2025 at 8:49 amGirlie I KNOW I escaped a slow death! 😖It’s just the scenario this mf left me in that’s so annoying. I honestly want nothing more than to give this house to someone and MOVE ON. 😩😩
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UUser_498856ac
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 9:05 amAiyo the frustration is palpable. Also how I wish your jerk ex’s name had also been on the lease. Absolutely ridiculous that the wuss can jump ship like that.Anyway get this dealt with best as you can. This will just be a hard lesson to look back on someday. Good luck and patience!
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UUser_6ad54d57
OP
February 3, 2025 at 9:23 amIt’ll also be a good lesson to multiple other people, who I can help!
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UUser_b36283b4
PARTICIPANT
February 3, 2025 at 7:46 pmThem its not your fault and girl, good riddance! You’ll get out of this hole dw at least you aren’t dating an ahole anymore.-
UUser_6ad54d57
OP
February 3, 2025 at 9:31 pmYeah he keeps on bashing city people for being fake??? I don’t get why he’s blaming people from the city?-
UUser_b36283b4
PARTICIPANT
February 4, 2025 at 7:44 amLmao what even. Lodu ladka chhe. Door hi raho aise logo se toh.-
UUser_6ad54d57
OP
February 4, 2025 at 7:49 amLearnt my lesson 😭😭
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