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SLet s for this post the guy be named K (24M)and(24F) so K slided in my dms on instagram some month ago and we had a nice convo as friends, i didn’t wanted anything more so. We used to talk on and off . One day out of blue he just blocked me everywhere. No idea but okay as we just started i was okay if someone wants to go the door is open. Recently a 2-3 weeks ago he added me so i asked why he removed me back then to which he replied his gf didn’t liked him talking to me. I was like okay and now they broke up thats why he texted we used to just talk casually in general. Last week he said he like me i was okay (good choice). Then he used to compliment and pay attention. I was getting attracted towards him . So we made a plan to meet but due to some reason i had to cancel. Today in the evening he blocked me again on snapchat and i was like what happened out of the blue . So texted him on whatsapp and called him no reply to which i took that as a sign left my texts and got off my phone. Later got replies that his mom and dad read the texts and they made him blocked me. Something felt weird here but i was like okay . He said he will text after things cool down and wait for him. I didn’t replied anything. And then switched to youtube and slept . Today in night around 2 i got a call from him that woke me up. I picked up the 2 call and it was some aunty or lady speaking to which i though that must be his mom because he tried to add me again on instagram but due to no privacy and indian parents i cut the call and send a normal text please text me to which i got the response that he is married and that person tried to call 30 times but i couldn’t answer. Till today we just talked on call for 1 min and never meet ever in person. There is nothing on his socials and i even asked the mutual that if they know he is married and none do . Can a legal case or legal charges can be filled against me ?
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P1. I don’t know why you would think there would be any legal case against you.
2. I know why people say that girls are attracted to red flags and assholes.
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HI think you’re being a bit critical of OP with your point no 2. I don’t think OP knew he was married. You can make point 2 if OP knew he was married and still went for it. People don’t come with red flag flying high on their head. After know someone better we come to know that the person is a red flag.
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### 1. **Was There Any Malicious Intent on Your Part?**
From what you’ve described, you were talking to K as a friend initially, and later, the conversation turned flirtatious. You did not know that he was married, and it seems like you were unaware of any deception on his part. Based on the information you’ve shared, there doesn’t seem to be any malicious intent from your side. You were simply talking to him without knowing his relationship status.### 2. **Legal Implications for You**
From a legal perspective, **there are no grounds for legal action against you** in this situation. You didn’t know that K was married, and you weren’t involved in anything malicious. Talking to someone, having casual conversations, or even flirting (as long as it doesn’t involve coercion or harassment) is not illegal.The key issue here is **his dishonesty**. He didn’t tell you he was married, and if he was deceptive in his communication with you, that is something he will have to address with his partner, not you.
### 3. **What to Do Now**
– **Move On from the Situation**: It’s understandable that you’re feeling hurt or confused, but it’s important to let go of this and focus on yourself. Block him, if you haven’t already, and distance yourself from this situation.
– **Stay Calm**: It’s normal to feel uneasy when things suddenly seem off, but there’s no need to panic. You did not do anything wrong here. He was the one who kept things unclear from the start, and you were simply reacting to the information you had at the time.
– **If You’re Feeling Threatened or Harassed**: If K continues to reach out or make you feel uncomfortable, it’s important to protect yourself. Don’t engage in further conversations with him. You have the right to block and distance yourself from anyone who makes you feel uneasy.### 4. **Your Safety and Privacy**
If you’re worried about your privacy or about potential issues with family members due to the situation, you can choose to **not share the details with anyone** unless it’s absolutely necessary. The most important thing is that you have acted in good faith, and now it’s about setting boundaries with someone who was not transparent with you.### 5. **Moving Forward**
– **Trust Your Instincts**: It seems like your instincts were telling you that something was off, and you cut off contact when things didn’t feel right. That was the right decision.
– **Learn from This Experience**: Going forward, it’s important to always ask clear questions about someone’s relationship status if you’re considering getting closer to them. This will help avoid situations like this in the future.You have done nothing illegal or wrong in this situation. Your concern is understandable, but there’s no need to be afraid of legal consequences. Focus on moving forward, setting boundaries, and distancing yourself from people who aren’t being honest with you. You’ve learned an important lesson about trusting people who may not be transparent, and now you can be more cautious with your future interactions.
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