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DKeeping it short, I and a girl loved eachother since 7 years and we both are 23 years, she told at her home that I want to get married to me but they denied because love marriage isn’t allowed, his father started torturing her and beating her, for 4 years she bear it and few days ago she left her home because it became impossible for her to stay there and came to me. Her younger brother (20 years old) called me and said, do whatever you want but wherever I’ll find you I’ll kill both of you and will go to jail, I am unable to understand that how serious I should take this, and what steps I can take.
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VGet court married first….fast!!!!! You can marry in police station also…then follow up with anticipary action of keeping the police informed that incase of any threat and hurt or harassment.. so and so people are involved because this is their motive… Also ask your GF who will now become your spouse to file police case of
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DThanks, we are getting married soon, but she said doesn’t want to harm her family back by filing a complaint.
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CIf you inform police about this & do court marriage and inform them you want to have no contact with parents they do issue w warning barring them from meeting you.
One of known person did this, even though she misused it to come crying back after 2 years. She ran away and got married with a guy bcz he made per false promises & she wanted to do nothing with her parents. So police said to not contact her or they will take action
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AYou’re very lucky you found a very loyal partner ❤️ Just record the threats given by her family and seek a good lawyer
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MTry to leave India, probably find a job or enroll into a university since you both are still 23. Could be a way to start new life abroad and their family will eventually accept as time progresses.
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MMany of the universities in europe offer free education, your tution fee would be waived off and you can also try for scholarships. Apart from that no matter which country you go to majority of the countries have 20 hours work permit as students. You guys can take those up for living expenses. It is definitely not going to be cake walk but if you think they can really harm you or your partner then it is advisable. Otherwise you can temporarily shift to a far off city in India cut off ties from everything and try to save as much for an year.
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DAs per their parents if their son/daughter choses a person to get married,eans love marriage, then it is unethical and against their honour. Religion caste age etc there is no issue.
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LI’m sorry you’re going through this. Any threat of violence should always be taken seriously, and your safety is the most important thing. It’s important to involve the authorities so they can offer protection and take the necessary legal steps. You shouldn’t have to live in fear, and there are resources and support available to help you navigate this situation safely. Stay strong and reach out to someone who can guide you through this.
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FTake it seriously, do not make a mistake of meeting them, no matter how much they say. There was a guy called Yash in the Delhi police society in Rohini, he used to be our friend, that guy was a little crazy and he indeed killed the lover of his sister and is still rotting in Prison.
So take it seriously and cut off all the ties and move to a different country, I hope your girlfriend does the same.
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DBeing a cynic here, but you both know each other since 16. Her day started torturing her since she was 19. Seriously- though it seems liek 7 years, life is just beginning for you both. Keep in mind, the rosy posy period you had in the past isn’t what life holds for you both in future, and I’m assuming you both are working? Others may disagree, but the future of relationships is much removed from the ‘togetherness bliss’ that you find now. Think if it is all worth the pain to begin with. I have seen many, many lovey dovey couples who went against their families to stay together fall apart.
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