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UI (30M) met this girl (29F) a while ago, and things got serious pretty quickly. She was open with me from the start about having anxiety and BPD, and I thought I could handle it. I really liked her, and eventually, I proposed. Up until then, we hadn’t been intimate, but after the proposal, we finally took that step. Not long after, work got hectic, and I wasn’t able to text her. I knew she struggled with anxiety, but I didn’t realize how much my lack of communication would affect her. She started sending me tons of messages,some were emotional, others were straight-up abusive. I tried to explain that I was just busy, but she didn’t take it well. Eventually, I got overwhelmed and told her that if she didn’t stop, I’d have to go to the police.Now I feel stuck. I didn’t mean to make her feel abandoned, but at the same time, I felt like I was being attacked for something I didn’t do intentionally. If she files a complaint against me, can I use the messages she sent as proof? I don’t want to make things worse for her, but I also don’t want to be in legal trouble over this.
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