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NI am a 16-year-old teen, and my parents separated when I was born. I was the result of their broken marriage, and they’ve been living separately. My mother and father are now in the process of getting a divorce, and the hearing is still pending. My mother has already received 50% of the alimony, with the remaining amount still to come, totaling around 80 lakh.
Recently, my mother began seeing a man, and she told the family she plans to remarry. However, she has been diagnosed with severe mental health issues for the last two years, including hallucinations, anxiety, and depression. Two top psychiatrists have confirmed this. Despite her mental health struggles, she is determined to marry this man, who is primarily interested in her financial situation. He has no stable income, earning only about 25,000 per month, and his past relationships have raised red flags, such as dating an older woman for financial support.
My maternal grandparents, who have assets worth around 10 crore, have stated that if my mother marries this man, they will nominate me as the beneficiary of her will and remove her from the inheritance. I am the only son of my mother and will inherit about 5 crore from her. She is also named in a will with assets valued at around 7 crore.
I am very concerned about my mother’s mental health and the intentions of the man she wants to marry. He seems to be taking advantage of her, knowing she has significant assets. My mother has a life insurance policy worth 1 crore and 50 lakh in a PPF account. However, I feel that this man is only interested in her wealth, which is worrying.
I have seen my mother exhibit extreme behaviors like paranoia and constant anxiety, even going as far as accusing neighbors of spying on her through hidden cameras (which we checked and found nothing). She also once contacted the women’s commission with a complaint of harassment from the neighbors, and we had to intervene to resolve the issue.
My father lives in London, and although we are not very close, we speak about once a month. I’m thinking about telling him everything because I need help navigating this situation, but I am unsure how to approach him. My grandparents have suggested that if my mother does marry this man, I should involve my father to stop the alimony payments since they were originally granted to support my education.
I am scared of the situation. The man she wants to marry could be dangerous, and I’m worried he could harm me because he knows about my mother’s assets. My grandparents and uncle have made it clear that if she goes ahead with the marriage, they will take legal steps to ensure I’m protected, but I’m unsure what actions I should take.
What should I do in this situation? Should I involve my father to stop the alimony and protect my mother’s assets? How do I handle this situation with my mother’s mental health and the man she wants to marry?
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ADude this post didn’t get enough reach. Saw this post randomly on my feed. Try to post this from acc which has enough karma
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WShe needs mental health intervention. Take her to a therapist. Telling your father may impact the alimony due to her. Discuss this with an adult who has your best interests at heart.
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Nno one has best interest I got 80 year old grandparents if I talk it to mama he will use it in court as my mama is an crazy good lawyer and has eyes on the property they will try to get the property all by themselves and if I involve father he will use it for alimony he certainly doesnt love me didn’t even come to me when I was born for an year as when my mother went to labor and hospital she ran and didn’t tell my grandfather and as he was upset he instructed my father to compel and he compelled to not meet his wife and children for an year, my mom loves me to its core like really but has got worse friends whom tells her that she has no mental problem. and we are dominating her and not helping they are doing this to loot money from her in the name of reiki and numerology
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Nim preparing for jee so yeah I dont have a lot of time too but she is now creating an ruckus with the neighbours but she does love me to its core like she wouldn’t tink for an second to give her life for me any second that’s also true but other things have left no love and respect of me for her since so much time I abuse her in the face badly as I dont know im bad or all these leave no love for her by me like I really hate her from the core for over an year now she begs me to go shopping or movies with her but I ignore because of these things plus as she doesnt do anything all day and just sitting and watching tv she is completely free all day
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SYes, if not invovle – inform your father.
Maternal grandparents already made a right choice of making you the rightful owner.
So now you just have to talk to your mom like a man and confront her with your thoughts. What if they are genuinely okay to live together? Let her live her life as financially you are sorted. -
BTell your mom to wait for marriage till you complete graduation.
Directly transfer assets in your name when you turn 18.
Right now get a will written and registered immediately.
Also there is threat to your life from her future husband that’s why it’s best to delay mom’s marriage till you are 21-22
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