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UI’m 20F living with my mom, my dad passed away when I was 14. My mom has always been physically and verbally abusive ever since I was a child and she continues to threaten me she gets angry on minute things and jumps on me to beat me up. Recently this has gotten out of hand on a general discussion she came on me to attack me while I was trying to broom and out of fear I picked up the broom and it hit her palm I was only trying to defend myself and since then she has been acting absolutely horrible she has been constantly threatening me that she’ll throw me out of the house, the house is co-owned by both her and I still she threatens me both her and her side of the family have harassed and abused(physically and verbally) me in the past and she has been talking to them about getting me forcefully married so that I leave the house(I heard the call recordings) I’m really scared for my life I’m a student and have no means of income she gets my father’s pension, both her brother and sister in law are lawyers and she has their support. We don’t talk with my fathers side of the family because they are very cunning I’m a single child I have no one else in this world I’m all alone and I’m very scared right now pls pls pls help me I can’t take this anymore 🙏🙏🙏
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CYou’re 20 rn… legally you can leave your house…do it before something happens.get her job there’s several places which can provide low wedge part time jobs,get into pg,cut ties with her.you can join the army mess or something too. Child helpline sucks sometimes they’re gonna shift you place to place even police are not so helpful in this condition tbh.just find a job lowkey.. You’re 20 and you can be taught to grade 6th to 8th children
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UMy take if I were in your shoes would be to join an international bpo with no targets whatsoever and work on your college either part time or full time or wor towards skills that pay you alot once you master those skills , approach job market with entry level jobs meanwhile distancing from all this shit , your mother may become schizophrenic to lash out at you for no reason or to relate to missing out on your dad any how , best of luck for the future !
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UHow long before you graduate and is there any way you can manage your college fee? Because at this point since you are legally an adult, you can find a part-time job to support yourself financially, for example, working at a Starbucks or you know being a receptionist or there are many online jobs. Sales jobs are very easy to get you won’t make much part. You could make enough to get by. You could also try to crowd fund money for yourself like share your story on a platform with a charity link and attach some proof of your abuse and ask for donation so that you can get out of the house. If you have friends, who can maybe help you with your living situation for awhile, that would be great. Maybe secretly get in touch with some lawyer agrees to help you for a minimal fee or maybe even pro bono. Since you are also the owner of the house, maybe you can get a loan based on that like an education loan to cover your college fee. So, maybe get a copy of the documents. If you are really scared of your living situation, you should really try this out. It will take a lot of courage and it will not be easy, but it is exponentially better than living in an abusive environment. Since you are a woman, there are a lot of NGOs who help women in cases like this, so you could maybe try to contact them, but make sure you do all of this secretly and not let your mother and your lawyer relatives know about this. I read an article about domestic abuse and how to reach out for help on this very page, so you could try reaching out to the NGOs mentioned under those links. I will attach the link to that article below for your easy reference. I hope you find the strength and courage to get out of this situation, and I hope you get out of it safely and live the life you deserve.
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