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ISo I(M) have this friend(M) who works in a corporate firm, we meet regularly on weekends. One weekend he had to hand out some paperwork to his colleague(F) so he took me along and we went to give those papers to her. Now, neither have I ever met this woman, she is a complete stranger, nor did I have any conversation with. And let me emphasise that this is the only time I’ve met her. Fast forward a month ahead I happen to find her nudes on reddit, that same woman. Now I am having this dilemma where on one hand my mind says “leave it be I dont know her, anything I do will make things worse for her and myself” where as on the other hand my mind says “no I should do something, atleast tell her and try to get those deleted from internet”. Now, what should I do? Should I leave it be or should I proceed with the legal stuff and tell her? And if I decide to go the other way what are the options and legalities, how do I approach it?
Plus – I have not told this to my friend, I believe the lesser people know the better it is. And I am pretty sure my friend has nothing to do with it. -
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UThe morally correct thing would be to have a conversation with her and let her know of the breach of privacy that has already occurred for her. I’m still concerned for the girl as the sooner you stop it the better it would be.
However, there’s still a risk of her getting curious of your activities on the internet and accuse you.
I would personally suggest you to go and talk to her about this matter as no woman should go though this shameful experience,she probably sent them in to someone in confidentiality and trusted him but that creep decided to leak them, I’m sometimes ashamed of humanity for all the weird and horrible thing it does.
I’m just concerned about her safety at this point, please do it asap brother(I’ll proud of you personally)-
IYes I think some mf leaked it. Look we’ve all used reddit for all that stuff. And I am not worried about her judging me. But the only issue is how do I bring it to her attention, and how do I tell her, she’s basically a stranger to me. And to approach her should I involve my friend? And if I do that how to proceed legally.
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UGo through your mutual friend ig. Also, it’s not common for people to use reddit for “that stuff” !
I’m a little concerned about you and your story now lil bro 🧐-
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Usomething similar happened to my ex once. She was worried sick about this and was too afraid to tell anyone, so she contacted me.
Even though we weren’t together, I took her to the cybersecurity department and registered the complaint. It’s fairly easy and not much legality is involved. Just go with the girl asap as these things can spread really quickly
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UMy take: The best option for you is to forget about it and move on
However if this option pains your call conscience then you talk to her,ask a bit about her past and tell what you have seen and you NCII /NCCI I forgot the exact anke and file a complaint there ,but reddit is a very tricky platform with complete anonymity and a court case can take years and you will probably dragged into this until everything ends which is not certain if it will ever end.
Evil take: Blackmail her. /sarcasm
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