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UI am muslim(shia) girl he is hindu guy. We both are from gujrat. We want to do marriage but family denied. My family give murder threaths to him. We both do not want to convert. And special marriage act has mandatory 30 days notice period and notice will put outside the office and chances of notice leak is high which will not good for us. Is there any options or suggestions to get marry under special marriage act in gujrat or outside gujrat? You can also dm me suggestions. Plz help us for marriage plz
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SIf you both are from a lower middle class or middle class family then There are high chances that both of your lives are in danger. If you both have courage then run away from home.
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QI feel sorry for your situation.
In Maharashtra, notices could be served online, not sure about Gujarat. I would suggest to check how can you apply Online for the 30days notice period. Unfortunately, they display the notice on the website. you can check r/Gujarat or r/Ahmedabad subs. I will suggest not to provide any personal details to anyone including district name. (If you have any potential residence address or you can get one, I can share the details to apply for marriage online)
Moreover, best option would be move to different city or country, if possible. Indian families are shit most of the times. In terms of relocation to other city, one of the partner needs to be resident of the place(Aadhar card).
Secondly, I will consider situation post-marriage if families are really stupid and yo sense threat to life, simply move to other country, if possible. That’s best way to avoid constant threats.
Good luck.
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Uhttps://www.instagram.com/indialoveproject?igsh=MWhrMGttb3lmdzBxMg==
They can help you
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NI am not a lawyer.
There’s a high chance one or both of you will get killed in the near future.
It’s not worth it.
All the best.
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UNot a lawyer but your option is in a seperate city and live near police station or a gated society where nobody knows
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Not against Muslim but they are more aggressive idk why, when there is a non muslim male-
UThe reason is when a muslim boy marry hindu girl, police arrests the boy under love jehad, boy is beaten in court, even boy’s relatives are harrased and arrested.
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IIt’s better to move to a different state that isn’t influenced by anti- inter religious relationships. Your partner will surely lose his life if you all do anything in gujrat. Regardless of which religious organization brings the threat.
You’d need to permanently move to a different state.
Just recently a news came up, where a couple like you (but the religions were reversed) was in the court for marriage under SPA and pro hindu organizations went inside the court premises and beat him up. Inside the court premises! Can you even believe it?
Either that, or one of you needs to change your religion. Such is the state of our country now. And it is deeply embarrassing.
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QHindu organisations created trouble because the girl is Hindu and boy is Muslim. So it’s a case of love jihad for them. But in this case they will mostly provide protection because it’s ghar wapasi. Muslim organisations might create problems though.but they are not as extreme and violent like Hindu organisations.
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ITrue. You know, a couple weeks ago I had this hypocrisy of theirs stun me. The first news I saw was of this boy getting beaten up in the court, the one I mentioned above. And the very next news was how in the neighboring state, another hindu organization, themselves converted a muslim girl to hinduism and married her off to her hindu bf.
I was like wait, a religious organization, converting a person to their religion for the purpose of marriage. Isn’t that the love jihad you fight against?
The question was rhetorical. Ofcourse, every crime is okay when you are the one to do it.
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IHey this organization Dhanak should help you
[dhanak](https://www.dhanak.org.in/get-support/)
, please focus on safety don’t share location or meet the one who have threatened physical harm or anyone who will give that info to them, safety first, Congratulations in advance. -
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UYes, I heard a similiar case like this where a muslim man and hindu girl from UP or Jharkhand ( i forgot) got married in Kerala. Its safe there as there is no communal violence
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Irrespective of religion, I do not recommend anyone to get married without both families backing you because when things get tough, it’s the family and their years of connections & community that helps you out.
But you asked for an advice, so here it is:
Long term solution:
Become independent, start earning, move to a different city, keep convincing your parents somehow. Their chances of trusting you increases when they see you be more responsible & independent. If at the end they still don’t agree, just get married, they can’t control adults. You’ll be away
Short term solution: my neighbour did this
run. Your parents will be ashamed & fight with each other. But yall will get to be together. You can come back in a few years when things settle down. At that point parents usually are just tired and accept you. In case they don’t, you’ve to live away.
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ESo you are ok when it’s the other way around as per your [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/Bhopal/s/1N7RVT6Dbj) comment ?
Why such hypocrisy?
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FSame situation with friend of mine who is from amdavad. They both moved to orissa for a month got married there and went for honeymoon for another month. Their family sort of accepted the fate. If you have friends in some other state which isnt radical is the way to go
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CFirst thing first no matter what you do don’t change your religion just to get married.
Second, there are multiple ways you can get married but I suggest not to do it without both of your parents consent, unless you hate your parents or your parents are horrible people or they don’t care about you.
Third, this is advice from a brother of a sister if the guy is decent with good character and good salary and job the chances of them accepting your relationship is high but if you decide to run away and get married without your parents consent just keep in mind you won’t have any place to return back.
Think carefully before taking any drastic steps.
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UFor SMA you need to register in the domicile district of either of you.
In case you want to get married from some other district or state, you need to have an aadhar address of that district or state. You can create a rent deed with someone and show it as residential proof, it needs to be 6 months old then only aadhar authority will approve.
Best of luck.
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BIf safety is a concern, moving out of Gujarat to register your marriage under the Special Marriage Act is a practical option. Some states, like Delhi, tend to handle interfaith marriages with less local interference. You can also seek legal protection if threats persist. If you need guidance on safe relocation, the marriage process, or legal protection, feel free to reach out privately.
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