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UHi
I (26F) am a medical student completed half of my studies waiting for remaining half to complete but my Covert Narcissist Father is not supporting me,he is a lawyer himself,I strongly know he has multiple affairs infact he was never loyal to my mom or our family,our family was just a show for him to do his wickedness in the background. I have so much to tell but I don’t want to make the post longer.Is it possible to get any loan for my education,I was not even allowed to have a bank account also he has my GPA on his name I was 19 when I was leaving for abroad and I didn’t know about GPA, recently I asked him to cancel the GPA but denied saying I will cancel it once you get your degree but he’s not letting me complete my studies.He is very deceitful and wicked minded person, he knows how play his cards wisely as a parent how much he has sacrificed but as far as I remember it was only my mom because of whom we are alive,he made our lives miserable in every way you could ever imagine he would always say that how thankful we should be because he CHOSE to give us life from his waste (sperm) so we should not ask him anything in return and what were we asking for? Food, Shelter and Education as he made sure we don’t have any skills that would support us in future so I focused on studies only,he is playing out a drama that I’m mentally unstable and according to him since I’m mentally unfit to be anywhere, that I’m a selfish person that I will not be a good doctor so he wants me to rot here but I need to finish my education so I can support my mom and give her everything for she lost(32yrs) to this wicked man. I have 2 siblings but they are his flying monkeys and are of no help.
Also can anyone please help me what exactly is GPA and how would it impact on my future?
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UFirst, regarding the GPA (General Power of Attorney)
This is a legal document that gives someone (in this case your father) broad powers to make financial and legal decisions on your behalf..but u should be able to open your own bank account as an adult – this is a crucial first step
Immediately open your own bank account – this is your legal right as an adult,Kotak 811 is a great choice for opening your first bank account. It’s a zero-balance digital account – meaning you don’t need to maintain any minimum balance, so there’s no risk of penalties. You can open it entirely online through their app with just your Aadhaar and PAN card.
also Contact your medical school’s financial aid office about emergency student loans and scholarships
And Document all interactions with your father via email/text when possible – keep records and please search for Scholarships and grants specifically for medical students online NGOs that support women’s education are your best bet…You’re so much stronger than you know. Keep moving forward – there’s a light at the end of this tunnel, and you’re going to get there. 💪
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UWhat is GPA ? If done fraudulently file complaint of fraud and identity theft.
Legally speaking you are an adult and your father does not owe you anything. You are not alone, there are many who suffers from same problem.
You can fine defamation suit against him for calling you mentally ill and mentally unfit without medical backing.
You mom can file for divorce, maintaince and alimony.
One solution would be take loan, or ask grandparents or other family members for help.
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UGet the GPA revoked ASAP, you don’t need him for that. If you have a copy of the GPA, take it to a lawyer and have him help you revoke it. If you don’t have a copy, try get the document number, which is given by the Sub-Registrar’s Office when you register the GPA. If it isn’t a registered GPA, then it’s not valid in the first place w.r.t any rights over property.
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NYou are 26 and you are a medical student with only half of your education completed and you are abroad since you were 19, thats ~7 years? something doesn’t add up. I am surprised that a narcissist father sent his daughter on an all paid trip abroad for education.
Anyways, unless you are in a not so good course, you should have no problem getting education loan. And if you do not have any asset, dont worry about GPA. You can always revoke it.
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Ua) Yeah 7 years because –
1) As he didn’t pay the fees on time I was academically withdrawn on multiple occasions for 6-8 months on multiple occasions due to non payment on time.
2) Due to COVID-19 we had less to no class, even if we had those were online and we had to wait for offline classes to attend the exams.b) Yes he sent me abroad because I begged him for 2 years that I want to study abroad as I was severely bullied in my +2 and it left an unimaginable impact on me. I always had the clarity regarding my education so I would study either way (India or abroad).
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