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UI am currently being tortured by my wife & her well connected lawyers family (family of lawyers & judges)
I am an NRI, my wife was aggressive & abusive, left me in 2018 & started staying in India with her parents. Continued sending me harassment & abusive emails from India. (Even claimed i have aids)
I filed for divorce in 2021. She filed for her divorce in 2022 and later after running that case for 10 months told court she cant come to court hence withdrawing.
She filed a RCR case in her home district & filed a DV case on my aging family members.
All this she’s doing after 4 years of separation.During her cross & in her affidavit she said i had access to her email so I sent those demematory emails to myself but never shared a proof
And for divorce case she filed she said I asked to file it so she did it. Without any evidence.In march 2025, even after giving hard proofs of emails, showing how she filed for multiple cases in multiple cities against me, and proving her lies in cross the lower court (civil district) judge ruled against me and denied divorce, approved her RCR and also have made me pay her 90k maintenance.
Notable: judge ignored my evidences, ignored her conflicting cross. And simply agreed to her affidavit.
Feeling helpless.
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UUsed to be in US, but now back home (mumbai) as mom has cancer & dad is bed ridden.
Wife is filing cases in Kolhapur (her family is full of judges & lawyers)-
CMake a NGO donate all the money. Change the location. Like being vanished. They will not listen you even if you die. And your money is also going. You can save much more people with that amount.
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Uwhy? Is this a price I have to pay for being born in India?
Is there no god? Why everyone says its my past life karma?Why cant I buy my life? Why cant I live?
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AWhen in Rome, do as Romans do. You are in India fighting against corrupt and evil woman who has support of judges.
Unless you are gangster, fighting is futile. Even if you were a gangster, you are just as likely to get encountered as to get any victory.
The other commentor is right, give up on justice and save your assets and vanish. Go back to us as soon as possible.
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CHow about you spare money for them. I will look after them. Forget the justice. If you appeal in supreme court. You might not get justice before your life end. Or you will lose big amount.
If you want I have a plan. Atleast you can have a peaceful life.
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VWhat kind of idiot are you to post such advice in a legal advice subreddit ? Asking money from OP. How old are you ?
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CI am not asking money. His wife is asking. I said if he is worried about his family. He can hire someone to look after. And if you want him to hang up himself leaving everything for his wife. All the best.
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SSorry but in india judiciary is corrupt. Even if you goto SC, the judges will deliberately ignore and convict you.
You need political support. Identify a reliably corrupt state minister through contacts and donate a significant amount. Or move all your assets into a trust. Including your parents assets.
Move every asset into the trust and get a monthly minimum salary from the trust. Then collect proof of your wife cheating on you through “other” means. Go public with this data. You have to play their game in a different playground.
If you go the usual legal way, you are fighting their battle where they have unlimited resources and you have none.-
UAll this is scary. But thank you for all the good information.
I think I don’t need money or property. Or my parents property if that what she’s after.I need peace, happiness..
I dont have connections like you mentioned. Born into farmers family i was given education to make a good career which I converted to US opportunity…
But this marriage is now bringing me back to the farms and to the soil where my ashes will be spread… 😔
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TBro if you don’t need money then what’s the issue ? You will get all your peace. Simply give all of your property and parents property and big hefty sum of million to her.
If you can’t fight for yourself and why would any one would fight for you.
If you think by giving away all of your property, you will find peace, do it. She will give you divorce instantly because that’s what she is after.
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PDon’t listen to shit like this.
What exactly was the decision and what made them side against you..??
File for appeal, hire a good laywer even if costs a bit,
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UI have a good lawyer the problem is the lawyer lobby & caste politics.
As I said i am fighting against someone who has strong connections & has judges, lawyers as family members.
I had given 100+ evidences, a perfect cross & a rock solid affidavit.
1. But the opposition party brought the lawyer who was of the same caste of the judge.
2. From day 1 the judge seemed biased but my lawyer avoided moving the case to other judge.
3. The judge looking at his judgement seems to have ignored my cross. My witnesses & have considered her affidavit & her cross as facts.Problem now is appeals court is in the same complex & same area.. just change in floor & change of judge.
I suspect the opposition (lawyers family) will influence this appeals court
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PIt’s still a free country no one can force you to stay married.
But your obligation to provide for your partner will be always there.
Instead of fighting against RCR maybe should file a fresh divorce petition claiming incompatibility. You should be ready to pay reasonable maintenance in this case..
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HHow judge can ignore your evidences just like that.its scary. Im also facing dv case. Brother just defend your case on merit. No other way.file a strong reply counter denying all her allegations.anyhow law favours women.if she won at the end, appeal on higher courts
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UAll evidences ignored.. infact judge used my evidences against me..
Example: she sent emails to me saying I have hiv, however I did not reply back saying its not true which proves my intent to hide facts so she has no fault.
She sent emails to my family saying I have fraud cases against me in USA.
In her cross she said my friends to her this.
No witness statement from my so called friends.In judgement judge said i never denied her claims by replyimg to her accusation emails so its my fault & she had to belive my friends (idk who r these friends)
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UI fought on Merritt, got nothing…
I mean how can this judge deny divorce when we r not cohabiting for 8 years now. -
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PI blame the lawyers ,whose corrupt and exploit the loopholes like this and advice/force their clients , if folks ever came to divorce sense due to small issue ,these folks ensure they became life long generations rivals going forward
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TWhy blame the lawyers? That’s their job. Blame the judge and the system. It’s the judges responsibility to look at evidence and decide. Lawyers always lie.
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PWhy not , what’s ethical about enforcing the client to file fake cases , that extends the court and legal battle by more years ?
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U– Loosing hope..
– Loosing career & a dream job
– seeing my mom struggle to disease
– Seeing my dad sick on bed
– Living with humiliation & lies of I having hiv & fraud cases & then outright denials..-
BPrimary idea behind these tactics is to defeat you emotionally. Pushing emotionally means you lose physically too. And it affects x times on your parents. First thing is to get a trustable lawyer and speak to friends for emotional help. Getting a lawyer onboarded will take a lot of burden of you. Until then – nothing Is lost until you don’t lose your head. All the money, dream job, and literally everything can be earned in the future.
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ZCan I suggest a good astrologer who can help? Check deepanshu giri. You have tried so many things maybe try the karmic remedy. You may not gain anything but there is no harm in trying and it ain’t that expensive. Please feel free to ignore my advice and block me.
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ZGoogle him and email him your chart. He might do it for free. I am not associated with him, I bought his books and he has a wealth of knowledge on karmic remedies.
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VDon;t let the current verdict get to you. The system is designed that way and he family being full of lwyers, they are using the system against you.
First thing is, you need to be strong for your parents. Don’t lose hope.
2) Talk to a different lawyer. You might have chosen a wrong one. But now you know what can happen and be prepared.
3) Anyway you can get the judge’s logic viral. Post the judgement and tag popular activists in this space and can expose the corrupt verdict to public scrutiny.
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AContact deepika narayan bhardwaj. She is on Instagram
She is an equal rights activist she might help you. Please be strong. -
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UThank you everyone who sympathized with me.
Staying strong.. i just wish some miracle to happen & an Ace Lawyer will come rescue me.. -
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DIsnt accusing other of hiv also a crime, also it’s very easy to disprove ,spend 15 rupees for a hiv card test.
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UDid that, i gave a full panel test of all fucking STD’s.
For judge he ignored it..Per judge she sent email but I did not reply so my mistake.. & additionally he simply taken her statement ‘my friends told this to her’ as a fact.
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RY dont you file cases through your lawyer against her and her family in different part of the country and make sure they have to be present for the same. Sorry to hear about your parents find round the clock help for them also find a badass lawyer to fight your case. You can either save money by hiring mediocre lawyer and get harassed or hire a Badass Lawyer and harass them! Hoping to get justice in Indian law is like a lottery .
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SHe will need to spend money on a good lawyer for this. My family has many lawyers and all say that the top most reason for a person to be screwed over in court is bad lawyer. Many hire on recommendations of their family many hire the chhatriwala outside the court because they are cheap and they get what they pay for.
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RBeing a lawyer, I suppose you have a strong case as it was fought on merits. What happened might waste your time but things can get in your favour really quick. Few Advice to make it possible.
1) Get a good lawyer and keep the payment terms of full case and not per date. As it is a win win for both to get the case to a final result.
2)If the family is well connected, you have a high chance of getting justice from HC as the connections do not work much in such places.
3)Speed things up, Give bribe to the babus for shorter dates (1k/2k) is nothing as compared to the maintenance amount. (Please don’t judge me for this advice as the system is rigged and I am trying to give a sound practical Solution)
4) File a transfer Petition to ease your problem of mom and dad being ill and bed ridden.
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UThis info is gold.. thank you so much sir.
I have 1 question if you dont mind.Does high court check evidances, facts & laws applied?
Reason
1 – i lost to judges bias in lower civil court (maybe judge was corrupt)
2. The next is appeals court which is next room in same court complex. – I am assuming corruption & bias here too.3. high court of Mumbai — where I do see i’ll get justice.
But would high court see evidance and facts or they will assume that lower court has done due diligence?
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