Community › Forums › Legal Advice India › I beat up a man because he abused with my mother. And now he and his family members are planning to beat me up in public to take revenge.
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EExpertashwin5916
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March 15, 2025 at 10:05 am14 MARCH :- meri mumy ko doodh lene jana tha. tho mene bola ki neighbour vali aunty ke sath chli jao, tho vo unse puchne ke liye gate pr khadi thi tbhi us admi(daru pii rkhi thi bhut jyda) ne meri mumy ko tu tadak krne ke bdd gali dene laga. mkc, bkl etc…tho mene bhar nikal kr uske mhu pr ek punch maar diya. uske bdd uske pure family members(sbse chota bhai or sbse bde bhai ka ladka yeh ladka vhi hai jiski mumy ko meri mumy doodh ke liye puchne ke liye gayi thi) muje marne ke liye aage bade, mumy ne muje room ke ander band kr diya. pir at the end, hum sb police station gye vhan pr usko(jisko mene mara tha) or uske bhai ko police valo se jor jor se thappad maar diye. ab jb sb kuch thik ho chuka hai tho ab jisko mene punch mara tha uski wife mere gate pr aakr galiyan de rhi hai. mein uski video bna rha hu tho bhag jaati hai.
kya mene galti kri ki mene usko punch mara ya mene thik kra??
TODAY UPDATE :- mera ghar jyda acha nhi hai. normally bhar vale rooms se padosiyo ki aavaje aa jati hai ghr mein. they plan ki gali ke sb logo ko galat galat btakr. muje pitvayenge. or kisi din dubara ladai hui tho. ghar se bhar nikal kr sbke sb milkr muje marenge.
now ab mrko smj nhi aa rha ki kya krna hai. kyuki 15,20 din bdd meri mother or chota bhai nani ke yhan chle jayenge 4,5 years ke liye. pr abhi confirmation nhi mili hai ki kya krna hai.
and please don’t ask ki mere father kya krre hai is matter mein. vo insan raat bhr muje or mere bhai ko(AML blood cancer tha ab thik ho gya hai dawai chlri hai) gandi gandi gali dekr bolte hai ki mrr kyu nhi jate tum log, kyu?? kyuki mere chote bhai ne unki daru ki bottle chupadi thi. or bhar ka gate lock kr diya tha taki ab dubara yeh bhar nhh jaye.
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AAlphashachi9340
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March 15, 2025 at 10:12 amPadosiyon se friendly relation rakho taki koi dikkat ho jaaye toh vo aapka support kare. If possible install CCTV for your safety.-
EExpertashwin5916
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March 15, 2025 at 10:13 amproblem he tho vhi log kr rhe hai sir.-
AAlphashachi9340
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March 15, 2025 at 10:13 amSaare padosi ek ho gaye hai kya?-
EExpertashwin5916
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March 15, 2025 at 10:17 amsir ek he ghar mein. 5 families rhti hai. or humri gali mein koi kisi ka sath nhi deta agr kisi ki ladai ho jaye tho.
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AAlphashachi9340
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March 15, 2025 at 10:15 amAap CCTV laga nahi paa rahe toh atleast acting karo ki CCTV lag chuka hai taki logo me dar bana rahe ki unke actions record ho rahe hai. -
RRapidfox1755
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March 16, 2025 at 3:00 amAlso, hide the real cctv discretely if possible and put fake props outside that are easily visible so real ones can’t be vandalised
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UUser_09702a1b
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March 15, 2025 at 10:12 amGo to the Police…-
EExpertashwin5916
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March 15, 2025 at 10:18 amkll he hokr aaya hu sir. they asked money for settlement or mene FIR ke liye bola tho bolta hai tum log bhi jaoge jail.-
AAlphavyom2654
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March 15, 2025 at 3:08 pmyeh konsa police station hai tumhe kis baat ki jail hogi?-
UUser_4920df78
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March 15, 2025 at 6:58 pmAssault. Punch to isne hi kiya hai, jo bhi reason hai, and self defence to nahi tha-
RRapidfox1755
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March 16, 2025 at 3:05 amIt could carry less penalty than simple assault (ipc 352) due to sudden and grave provocative (ipc 358)
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UUser_47da7182
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March 17, 2025 at 7:01 pmTake a lawyer to the police station. Harassment, assault ka case kar sakte ho
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SSoniaeagle333
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March 15, 2025 at 10:15 amYaar bhai tune kuch galat nahi kiya hai lekin abhi woh log hi gande hai to kya karenge ?Woh logo ko bus badla chaiye by any means necessary woh lekar rahenge.
Looking at their level it’s clear they don’t have any other work and they are just manipulating people around to create conscience that you getting beaten is a good thing and you deserve it.
Either you play there game or just be prepared for a day where you will make a mistake or they will find some fault somewhere and beat you.
I’ve come from place and seen it first hand how they find fault and beat people and won’t leave it until they get what they want.
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EExpertashwin5916
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March 15, 2025 at 10:19 am15,20 din mein ghar chodkr rent pr rhne jaa rhe hai hum log.
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PPrateekstar829
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March 15, 2025 at 10:19 amEscalate karna hai aur sabak sikhana hai toh Police se milkar 10-20k delar wo bevde par Drug trafficking ka case karwado, thikaane ajayegi sab Kuch. Since Wo bevda hai, it will be believable for the other neighbors baad mei usse court mei convict nhi nhi karpaye toh uski image khatam hochuki hogi aur koi uska sath nhi dega.-
EExpertashwin5916
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March 15, 2025 at 10:23 ambhai bevde se ladai hui thi. pr uske galti ko support krne. uske bde bhai ka beta or chota bhai aaye the marne.-
LLuckyjai1486
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March 15, 2025 at 10:36 amIk assault ka case laga do, bevda hai log mann jayege ki peke tujhe marne aya tha , vaise bhi marne hi wala hai, uske pehle complaint file karde
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UUser_51950124
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March 15, 2025 at 10:29 amImplicating in false case is wrong…. Give proper genuine complaint and reach higher authorities in the chain-
BBrightavani4723
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March 15, 2025 at 10:52 amgood morning you are in i dia -
UUser_87befe82
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March 15, 2025 at 12:44 pm๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
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UUser_7ac00f78
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March 15, 2025 at 10:22 amNALBade wala eraser khareed,mukke ke beech me rakh ke pel diyo,bhaut tej lagta vo punch experience se bta rha,agar tujhe pakka he ha ki pitne wala hun to go down with a fight (this rubber trick will minimise legal repercussions too).
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UUser_13c543ec
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March 15, 2025 at 10:23 amKeep weapons for self defence like a knife or smth-
EEpiceagle3082
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March 15, 2025 at 8:07 pmIf you bring a knife out in a fight, be ๐ฏ sure that you will swing it if need be otherwise it could quickly turn out to be counter productive.
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QQuickakshita9867
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March 15, 2025 at 10:30 amLawyer. Jo bhi kiya, kitna justified tha, uspe mai rai nahi dunga. Aur bhi tareeke apna sakta tha but jo hua hai wo hua hai.Ab record kar le jitna evidence tu record kar sakta hai. Police station me ek arzi daakil kar jisme ye threats ke baare me detail me likha hai aur ek pendrive me videos daalke de police ko. Police protection ki maang kar. Nahi denge toh bhi record hoga ki tumne maanga hai.
Ek non lethal self defence weapon rakh le Ghar pe. Matlab koi sharp objects nahi, dhanda type kuch rakhna. Thoda fitness pe dhyaan de. Dost banaa. Gali ke baaki gharo me tu bhi jaake baat kar ki iss bandhe ki dhaaru peene ke baad waali harkato ke baare me, unko already experience hua rahega.
Stay safe. Andhere me akele ghumne mat nikalna. Doston ke saat rehna. Hi sake to uss bandhe ki relatives se achhe samband rakna.
Police station regularly jaane hai. 10-15 days me ek baar. Apne arzi pe follow up karne aur unko dikhaane ki ya bandhe ka shayad station me kuch setting hai.
Ho sake toh shift ho jaana kahi aur toh ye tension khatam ho jayega permanently.
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EExpertashwin5916
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March 15, 2025 at 10:35 amsir I don’t have any friends. blood cancer ke treatment ke time sare friends kho diye.
Gali ke logo sb mtlbi hai. apne se mtlb rkhte hai kisi ki ladai mein koi help nhi dete.
jisse fight hui usse tho threats nhi hai. uske chote bhai or bde bhai ke bete se threat hai.
videos nhi hai sirf audios hai.-
QQuickakshita9867
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March 15, 2025 at 10:39 amGhar nahi badal sakta ? Agar mummy aur bhai 4-5 saal ke liye kahi aur ja rahe toh aap kyu ruke hai ?-
EExpertashwin5916
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March 15, 2025 at 10:41 amsir mein bhi jaunga.-
QQuickakshita9867
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March 15, 2025 at 11:10 amKirai pe de ghar ko. Nikal ja thodi time. Personal safety is very important. Police protection is not always easy to get.
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PPrimefalcon577
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March 15, 2025 at 10:56 amHow can u punch somebody without any backup.. specially when he knows ur house and hes a neighbour?? Always be smart when picking fights..
Now u have no choice but to fight back and scare them.. or they will fck u up-
UUser_4920df78
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March 15, 2025 at 6:58 pmYeah people are too hotheaded these days. Saamne wala awwal darje ka chutia hi kyu na ho tumhari backing nahi hai agar to yahi situation mei aajaoge last mei kya matlab hua phir. Learn to ignore and move on. Zyada hai to police bulao directly, khud kya soch kar shuru hogaye
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UUser_8e6cb347
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March 15, 2025 at 11:31 amBro stun gun ya pepper spray ye sab saste aate hai aajkal, aur kuch nhi toh nukili keychain ya lighter ye sab rakkha kar …use it wisely to run or create a distance between if anything happens. Always be ready to record and always be alert. Remember if you cannot fight hard, fight smart.-
SSuperruchika9502
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March 15, 2025 at 6:20 pmIsn’t stun gun illegal?-
UUser_8e6cb347
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March 15, 2025 at 8:14 pmI meant those small taser things, which shocks you
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UUser_dab8f6b8
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March 15, 2025 at 12:02 pmYou did a little wrong. If you had the guts to punch back, you could have abused only no. -
UUser_7de94f7c
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March 15, 2025 at 12:35 pmi think the drunk man family thinks you attacked him first for no reason.. you have to tell the that he was abusing your mom first-
EEpiceagle3082
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March 15, 2025 at 8:08 pmPretty sure someone who is drunk and abuses random people have done or is still doing the same at home.
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QQuicknaman3355
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March 15, 2025 at 12:54 pmOP, posts must be in english, reporting your post for breaking sub rules -
KKabirrider589
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March 15, 2025 at 1:34 pmBhai teri situation dekhkar mujhe apni dikkate yaad aa gayi . Meri bhi meri neighbour se itni ladai Hui ki unhone jaan se maarne ki dhamki di to my mother . Baat police tak pahunchi and hum dono party se wha par sulah karne ko kha gaya lekin phir bhi aaj tak woh un safety mehsoos hoti hai . Specially ki meri mummy ek single mother hai meri bhen ke saath and this year mein kisi college me chala jaaunga . The only advice mein dunga will be to install. Camera as soon as possible and kisi lawyer se apni bana ke rakh bohot madad milegi. And mein bhi soch rha hu ki yha se move out karu if you can do it . If not stay calm on gaurd and in any situation sabse phele apni aur apni mummy ki security ko insure kar .-
EExpertashwin5916
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March 15, 2025 at 1:37 pmHaan Bhai. mera baap tho zinda hai. pr mein rh essa rha hu jese mera baap 2013 mein mrr gya ho. BTW tum bhi safe rhnaโค๏ธ-
UUser_6c8cd7fc
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March 17, 2025 at 4:51 pmWishing safety and health of both of you and your families. Take care! ๐ซ
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LLuckykush8169
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March 15, 2025 at 2:31 pmDont worry, kuch nahi hoga, they saw you going to police.You are already at a strong place. Dont act afraid.
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UUser_a0e45ca6
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March 15, 2025 at 3:03 pmBro I would suggest ki cctv camera lgwa le ghr pr
Jis se police case na ho aur ladkiyo se dur rhena
Law bht jyda favour krta h without any evidence tujhe arrest kr lenge police wale agr fake rape case wagera lga dete h to -
UUser_afb0e230
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March 15, 2025 at 3:49 pmYou should have killed him, finished the job-
NNadiastar346
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March 15, 2025 at 8:43 pm๐ธ๐คจ
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VVaishnavithinker361
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March 15, 2025 at 3:55 pmBhai, ghar jake sorry bolde unhe.
Bolna aap mujhse baade ho mujhse galti hogayi..
Real life movie nhi hoti, ego side rakh k sorry bol.
Mena bola h isliye mujhe pata h. Most probably resolve ho jayega. Aur tune jo kiya sahi kiya h, voh chutiya waapas harkat nhi karega. Aur dosti bana logo se – sabse , most helpful in any social situation.-
EExpertashwin5916
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March 15, 2025 at 3:59 pmsorry nhi bolunga bhai kbhi bhi. police vale bol rhe. bde hai per sukr sorry boldo. mene unke samne sorry nhi bola. or long term solution bhai yeh area muje chodkr jana he tha ek nh ek din. bss ab dua krunga ki mera baap jldi mrr jaye taki yeh ghar bechkr permanent khi new khridkr rhle.-
VVaishnavithinker361
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March 15, 2025 at 6:23 pmAge kya h teri?-
EExpertashwin5916
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March 15, 2025 at 6:24 pm25 next month-
VVaishnavithinker361
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March 15, 2025 at 6:26 pmSame age h aapni.. ego baad m phele safety. Thoda satisfy kardega ego unka toh problem tal sakti h..-
EExpertashwin5916
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March 15, 2025 at 6:29 pmbro 20 ko ghr khali krke jaa rhe hum. for a better future. hume yhan se niklna tha kyuki hum dono bhai ki padhai ki disturb hota tha yhan hr dusre din ladai hoti h gali m-
VVaishnavithinker361
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March 15, 2025 at 8:19 pmRent k ghar ho toh nikalna best h bhai, badiya.
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UUser_5dee2242
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March 15, 2025 at 5:34 pmPit jayega vo vaha jake. Uthak baithak karvayeinge. Ego to chod ,self respect nahi bachega.
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MMegafalcon9379
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March 15, 2025 at 6:50 pmDial 100.get the record. Fir kar de. Take the copies. 100 Mein record rehta hai. -
UUser_7fac8df2
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March 16, 2025 at 3:02 amGet a cc camera installed in front of your house. Just for safety -
ZZoyahero857
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March 16, 2025 at 3:03 amYou also go with your mother and brother for sometime. -
AAnikaninja476
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March 16, 2025 at 11:03 amPay some money to the cops and take your revenge. In our country the only language of power is money. -
UUser_db134b67
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March 16, 2025 at 7:55 pmUnke ghr kuch logo ya relative ko lekr ja and sulah kr le apni bat rakh pyar se and keh de let’s forget about this and make a new start phir bhi mane to maa chod de salo ki -
SSunainaknight606
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March 17, 2025 at 2:36 pmHaha bro I face this everyday in my locality. Just walk like a lion. This is psychological warfare. Ek fir register Karwa ke rakkho in your local thana. Or even better just email your state police. Remember even if you do get beat, you did the right thing. -
UUser_f9526cb1
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March 17, 2025 at 2:42 pmI don’t think FIR would be the potent action for now. But I read a lawyer suggesting the General Diary option in another post. You can explore that option.Aur haa bhai, CCTV install karwa lo. Ek wild idea bhi hai, poster chhapwa do mentioning all the details. Isse neighbours ko bhi sab pata rahega aur wo log baad me interfere bhi nhi karenge
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March 18, 2025 at 6:17 pmMera advice hai ke aap lawyer ko hire karwado -
UUser_5f61ab4d
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March 19, 2025 at 8:02 amInform your area vidhayak and seek proper help
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