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      User_68b3224d
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        February 13, 2025 at 3:34 pm
        I’m panicking as I write this. I never imagined I’d ever be in this situation, but here I am.

        I am being threatened by a guy I met online and shared intimate pictures with, I know it was a stupid decision, but I did what I did, and even shared personal details with the said person.

        I trusted that person but soon realised his true identity, he hadn’t started threatening then, but due to other reasons I stopped trusting him and blocked him everywhere because he was clearly using me.

        Now, he reached out to me on my social media and messaged me saying he has my pics and videos saved. He hasn’t messaged anything threatening outright, but he keeps asking to ‘discuss’ on call about this. I have nonetheless taken screenshots of his messages.

        What should I do? Pls help me.

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        User_9001a7db
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          February 13, 2025 at 3:42 pm
          Call cyber crime ppl?

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          Jaininja994
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            February 13, 2025 at 3:48 pm
            Am not a lawyer but I hope these are of atleast some help to you. If I suggested smtg wrong please correct me.

            1. Take the lesson and don’t repeat such foolish mistakes again, Ik we all want that kind of thrilling fun or smtg but trust me it doesn’t take long to go side ways(it did for u).

            2. Did u take any of his information while sharing yours? so that u can file a complaint against him on cyber crime or some Women NGO and such to hopefully erase anything he has saved.

            3. If your face isn’t visible in those pictures u are saved but if it is then best bet would be to claim then as AI incase he does smtg with them.

            4. High chance he might just be wanting to extort money from you so maybe blocking him everywhere could help, But I have a feeling that blocking him might trigger ego or smtg of his and he might take some action. This is just a feeling I have and not smtg that I’ve read anywhere actually happening so your call.

            5. Take some in-depth advice from other here since I think someone who actually knows the law can guide u better.

            • #54689 Reply
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                February 13, 2025 at 3:52 pm
                Yea I was foolish and won’t do something like that again.
                Yes, I have all his details, his parents details too. I know his workplace also.
                Unfortunately the photos are very sensitive so that’s the only thing I’m worried about atm.
                I have scored the subreddit for similar cases and will follow the advice.
                I’ll file a case in the local police station if he tries to contact me further. I have atm blocked him everywhere. I have also taken down all my social media handles. (Deactivated).

                • #54694 Reply
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                    February 13, 2025 at 3:54 pm
                    Good then keep all the details handy, any chats of him threatening or anything as such might also help to file further charges I think.
                    hope u get out of this quickly 👍

              • #54683 Reply
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                  February 13, 2025 at 3:56 pm
                  Dw the world is very big even if he release those videos, photos now one will ever know u in real life and after realising those videos, photo u can directly police complain with solid evidence. If u Play smarty this situation will pass very soon and he will be in jail very soon.

                  • #54688 Reply
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                      February 13, 2025 at 4:00 pm
                      I’m scared he will contact someone from my friends or workplace and send it to them.

                      • #54693 Reply
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                          February 13, 2025 at 4:12 pm
                          Destroy his phone in which all no. r saved

                          • #54698 Reply
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                              February 13, 2025 at 4:13 pm
                              I don’t have access to it irl

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                                  February 13, 2025 at 4:20 pm
                                  I think u should personally talk with some senior police officer or women rights officer and explain all ur situation properly. Or if hav any personal connection in politics then u can do your work easily if not then visit some high lvl officer and see the past records of that officer whether he can handle this type of sensitive things.

                        • #54682 Reply
                          Jayabro685
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                            February 13, 2025 at 4:50 pm
                            Threats ka evidence lo or Police ke paas jao

                            • #54687 Reply
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                                February 13, 2025 at 4:51 pm
                                Or Ladies police ke paas Jana better rahega

                                • #54692 Reply
                                  User_68b3224d
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                                    February 13, 2025 at 4:52 pm
                                    Woh bohot chalak he is not outright threatening on chat. He is asking to talk on call.

                                    • #54697 Reply
                                      Jayabro685
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                                        February 13, 2025 at 4:57 pm
                                        Dekho best hai ki Cyber cell me jaao ya Police ke paas jao, Inspector ya Us se upar ki post Wale se baat karo, isme apko evidence dikhane ki koi jarurat nhi hai wo uska mobile se khud evidence collect kar lenge or delete krwa denge

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                                          User_68b3224d
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                                            February 13, 2025 at 4:59 pm
                                            Okay will do that. Do you have idea how to contact cyber cell?

                                            • #54702 Reply
                                              Jayabro685
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                                                February 13, 2025 at 5:07 pm
                                                Every major city have Cyber Cells U can search for your city, You can do both online & offline but it’s better if you do Offline. Try to tell them everything, there are strict laws regarding safety of woman and children

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                                                    February 13, 2025 at 5:08 pm
                                                    Okay thankyou so much.

                                      • #54681 Reply
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                                          February 13, 2025 at 4:59 pm
                                          Step 1: you need to talk to your parents, they arent your enemies and will support you trust me!

                                          Step 2: File a Police Complaint

                                          Step 3: File a petition in the court to urgently seize and destroy the electronic data of the guy. ( the details of with your lawyer would know) has to be done fast.

                                          if you need more help feel free to reach out

                                          • #54686 Reply
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                                              February 13, 2025 at 5:01 pm
                                              I can share w my sis but not my parents coz I already have problems w them it will cause more problems.
                                              How do I file a petition in court? Do I need to hire a lawyer for this?

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                                                  February 13, 2025 at 5:04 pm
                                                  Yes you will need a lawyer for this.

                                                  • #54696 Reply
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                                                      February 13, 2025 at 5:06 pm
                                                      Is there any way I can do anything without hiring a lawyer. Just asking to know. If nothing else, I will go down the petition path.

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                                                          February 13, 2025 at 5:09 pm
                                                          Hiring a lawyer is the best path right now, I do know a female lawyer who might be able to help u. But she is based in Delhi NCR.

                                                    • #54690 Reply
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                                                        February 13, 2025 at 7:10 pm
                                                        Keep your sister in loop. Record all the conversations. Only when things go down hill, file a Complain 

                                                        • #54695 Reply
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                                                            February 13, 2025 at 7:38 pm
                                                            Will do thx

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                                                        February 13, 2025 at 7:53 pm
                                                        Don’t send nudes. Number one rule. Not even to your bf, husband anyone. This is revenge porn, be bold and call his bluff and threaten to report him to the police.

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