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HSo i married a woman in 2022 December and she turned out to be a very toxic woman, and because of her i faced a huge financial loss and lost my jobs and destroyed my career. In few months only we got seperated from eachother but we never left because she showed me her love so i wanted to continue the marriage but as time passed and i was struggling in my career and monetary wise, we were not living under 1 roof we were seperated but we used to meet every now and then and used to plan to get back and i got a new job, i was giving my 100 percent and working hard was already in a backlogs and debts which i wanted to clear off. All of a sudden she disappeared and started ignoring and avoiding me, i got scared i visited her home but she was never there, after a month i got to knoa that she’s cheating on me and sleeping with other man. I was again depressed and disugusted. I solaced myself in alcohol. I left job and everything. Then again we met she came back saying sorry i accepted her again we fought now my mind was full of doubts that she might cheat again. I shifted to gurgaon with her with my new job and business but she didn’t stop she made my life hell and again she cheated there too, there’s no problem in me it’s her traits of cheating. So finally it’s been 7 months since i have left her fully and moved on now it was very hard and tough for me but i managed to do it. Still am financially broke and still trying to stable and settle myself with good job and business. I was mentally harrased by this woman, i tried commiting suicide, i have financial pressure, many things are going on, now i don’t know where she is? I need legal advice on this. Please help.
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UConsult a lawyer man. Have some self respect and stand up for yourself. Other guys doing your wife while other guys also get your promotions. Wake up!
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YSimple case of emotional manipulation, but I would blame the market for not getting better jobs or promotion. Also falling to addictions like alcohol or weed is not going to give you a better life in any scenario, they are mere temporary comforts, better is to join a gym and think what goals are needed to improve life.
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UYou can join a gym and still smoke weed. Been doing that for years. Everything is temporary in life. May it be the high of weed or the muscles you build in the gym. Nothing stays forever. But as humans, we have trouble adapting to change. Thats natural. Even when a breakup happens, you are really worried about the change. It takes time to accept the change. And the process can be hard for many. But it’s what it is. Everything you do to take the attention of it are just distractions. They won’t make things disappear. Once you are at your own, it hits back. But like everything else, this phase is also temporary. It will change on its own. Takes time but it always does.
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PIf she has vanished, did you check with her parents/her house. If she is not there and her phone is not reachable, then I suggest you file a missing person’s complaint in local police station in Gurgaon as a first step. Let Police do its job and look for her and try contacting her through technical surveillance of her phone etc. if she is found and she is happy elsewhere/ some body else, ask her to go for mutual consent divorce.
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HShe’s not missing, she vanished as in not in my life might be with someone else, her parents(father) never answer my calls. They are a mentally sick family.
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SI will not advise anyone to try prostitute, but you should try some hoes, keep your balls dry, and talk to your family twice or once a day to remind them of how much they have done for you. You will succeed in life.
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MIf you say something then stfu, always lurking around in subs and choose this post with a man asking for divorce and you must have tried to find faults in him but you couldn’t, right?
Its pretty clear from your profile what type of women you are- active in 4bmovement, twox india , askindianwomen – all misandrist subs
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U1) Lodge a complaint – get a Missing Person Report.
2) File for divorce – can quote your financial distress – mental distress
3) if shes missing for 7 yeara it becomes a ground for divorce-
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L7 years doesn’t become ground for divorce ..it’s 2 years for desertion.
7 yrs is when under Indian evidence act the person is presumed to be dead if no one has heard from them . So shed be dead in eyes of law. No need for divorce
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UThe relationship is gone. Your Ego wants a Revenge. Don’t walk that path.
Seek Therapy. Try meditation. Preferably Vipassana.
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FLawyer here.
If you have proof of her cheating, then you have grounds for divorce. You can also go the mental cruelty route but that is harder to prove.
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UTechnically he can but i don’t think i have ever heard of a case where the courts grant it when the husband files it.
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ANAL. Lawyer up and gather the evidences. File for divorce. There is no other choice to deal with such humans. In my situation I made myself mentally strong. Good luck 🤞
क्लैब्यं मा स्म गमः पार्थ नैतत्त्वय्युपपद्यते। क्षुद्रं हृदयदौर्बल्यं त्यक्त्वोत्तिष्ठ परन्तप।।
“O Arjuna! Do not yield to impotence (weakness, cowardice); it does not befit you.
O scorcher of enemies (Parantapa), cast off this petty faint-heartedness and arise!” -
UBrother, I hope you have learned a lot about yourself during these difficult times. It is essential to treat yourself with dignity and the utmost care. Think with your mind and make thoughtful decisions.
Please consult a lawyer and take action as soon as possible. Peace of mind is essential.
Wishing you all the best. Trust me, you deserve better things in life.
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VHi lawyer from delhi here!
You can file for divorce on the grounds of mental harassment and adultery.
It will be a lengthy process but if you have evidence to prove your contentions, you have a strong case.
Feel free to reach out to discuss it at length.
I appear regularly in gurgaon courts so I could help you with the filing process.
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HSo i am from mumbai originally and shifted to gurgaon since 1 year now, my marriage happened in Mumbai, it was not regiatered in court it was as per hindu rituals in a mandir, it was a love marriage.
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HThe last time when i caught her being on bumble, i checked her phone and logged in on bumble, saw 100s of chats with the guys, took all the photos of it, she shamelessly asked me how do i know if she’s on bumble i told her even my office colleagues are and someone sent me your profiles screenshot, then that day i left, i got a call from police because i took her phone away with so came to police station she put false charges on me but nothing happeend as i was clear on my part with proofs and moreover i have given her that phone with my hard earned money, so police suggested me that we will scold you in front of her so she thinks she has won you leave her as soon as possible. So i said okay, and gave her the phone and got scolded by the SHO and gave a written statement, then i left and never saw her again.
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UBhai best time h divorce lene ka🤩.
Tu financially broke h .
Toh saste mein fixed alimony nipat jayegi -
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UBro I don’t know you but what happened with you is the story of lacs of men in india.
Think of the time before you were married. You had your own identity , your set of friends , your job security , your family , your career , your bank balance. You were never worried about anyone else except your family.
This woman enters your life and your life turns 360% where today you lost your job , have debt , tried suicide , left family & friends. You left living for yourself just for this lady all cos you loved her.
Am sorry to say but you are wasting your time on this woman. She is a habitual cheater and her mysterious disappearance gives her ego trip. The first time she cheated that was the borderline and you should had left her.
This is where MEN go wrong. We accept cheating as we are too attached to the woman we love. On the other hand women find this behaviour as WEAK & SIMP.
Stop wrecking your life for her. Get your life sorted. Join a gym , get disciplined, watch motivational videos , surround yourself with like-minded people, call your family & close friends. Go and meet them. Focus on your job & career.
Remember life is a journey of ups & downs. Women are just companions on this journey. When the journey is rough the women will leave you.
Be a better man than you were before.
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ULet me guess, u married a hot chick by lying to her with no money in pocket.
If i am wrong i will delete my comment.
Don’t think anything stupid like suicide or anything. Take proper legal help. Karma hain nikal jayenge. Patience and persistence will help.
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HI had money, it’s not about she was hot or not, i had financial stability with good job. I lost because of her is what i said
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UYeah I looked through this person’s profile and I noticed that it is all over the place. I’m not saying that this is a rage bait karma farming post but the chances are high. Also, what do you mean by “because of her I faced a huge financial loss and lost my jobs”? How did she cause that???
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HHave you ever handled a toxic person? Do you know the pain when your partner is accusing you for the things you have not and not intended to do in future? Have you experienced brutal abusement from your partner unnecessarily that would have fucked your mind that you can’t focus or work? Have you experienced your partner is happy at the moment and within 1 minute your partner’s personality is changing where he/she starts yelling on you and you can’t understand what happened then you try to handle and make them calm but you also get irritated and try to leave but then their personality changes again and now they start crying nland begging you not to go then you stop then after sometime they again hound on you by realising you made them beg for you not to leave? There are many more reasons of mental harassment and which caused my multiple job loss and losing savings due to no job, then darastically facing infidelity from her side which made me solace in alcohol where i drank everyday and made my friends drink so i should not feel alone and spent lots and lots of money and went jobless lost career. Also spent lot of money behind her clothes, jewellery, then running behind her while she was cheating. Many things.
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UIsko jawab dene ki koi zarurat nahi hai, ye bhen ki lodi yahan male female khelne aayi hai, aisi ladkiyon ko jawab na de bhai, yahan jo legal advice de rahe hain, unki baat sun, ye haramzaadi teri biwi jaisi hi hai, manipulate karne mein inki ego ko mithai milti hai.
Stay focussed bro, plan for a divorce properly, so that you do not go deeper in this hole.
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UOp Please go through my profile. I’m going through something similar as well, but I actually decided to ditch her completely. I am finally back home in Australia, and of course, I’m not talking to her at the moment because I’m also suffering. il never come back to India.
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UDon’t be a simp, grow a spine instead of whining away, get a lawyer to prepare for battle. Gather all the evidence of her cheating that you can.
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UI’m sorry to say this op but you deserve what happened to your stupid ass. Taking her back after she cheated on you and hoping she won’t do it again is just absurd.
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P1. You can file for divorce on the grounds of cruelty and adultery. Mention all the financial distress that you are going through. If you have her address it is easier to serve notice and saves time. The procedure is as follows [https://divorcebylaw.com/best-contested-divorce-lawyers-in-bangalore/](https://divorcebylaw.com/best-contested-divorce-lawyers-in-bangalore/)
2. Even if she asks for alimony or maintenance, it is compulsory to show the assets and liabilities of both the parties. If you are broke, you don’t have to worry about paying her anything.
3. Gather some evidence for her cheating incidents – prior and now.
4. There is more to life than this. Don’t get wrong things in your head. Life is beautiful and you get to live only once, so make best use of it. End this chapter and move on in life. Get yourself some counselling.
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**Disclaimer:** In the absence of all the facts of the case, the comments given may not be the best solution for your case. One on one consultation with a legal counsel/ advocate is advised to get better guidance.
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UAvoid all the drug’s smoking 🚬 drinking alcohol etc —- Pull your self together before you plan anything as mentioned by all the well wisher — getting divorced is not easy for MEN under all circumstances ~~~ My little bro is going through the same and I only have to watch silently as I have a family too 🥺 That’s y keep your self strong it will NOT BE easy/— Aligation are easy to apply but hard to proof in court—— She will hit u back hardest _ Involvement of a social worker for Male issues try to get in contact with them
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