If a guy gropes someone in a public place or molests or even teases, can the victim stab or shoot them?

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      Megabear8126
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        April 15, 2025 at 7:19 am
        Considering the rising crime against women I had a query on extent of self defence possible. Let’s say a man keeps staring at a woman in metro- can she retaliate now or let’s say can she retaliate if he touches her inappropriately. Please assume that it can be proven on camera that the person was making her in comfortable.
        Will there be legal action against her? What kind?

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          April 15, 2025 at 7:26 am
          start with pepper spray

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              April 15, 2025 at 7:35 am
              Wrong and incorrect.

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                  April 15, 2025 at 9:07 am
                  How? As far as internet sources tell, pepper spray is legal in India at least for women if purchased from reputed source and used in reasonable amounts, unless the one using pepper spray used it unprovoked or used it excessively,Β  as it is a non lethal self defense weapon

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                      Happy cake day boss

                      So the legality of usage of pepper spray is not really as clear cut as your are saying.

                      In this case where the OP is getting stared at and he/she uses a pepper spray – op will be charged with using excessive force.

                      Pepper spray is legal but usage is still measured on a case to case basis.

                      You can Google and find out that people have been charged with using excessive force for using a pepper spray in a bus and in a metro. In both cases the woman claims harassment/inappropriate touch – this essentially gives her the permission to use the pepper spray – BUT since this is a constricted public area she ended up causing hurt to tens of people around her who had done her no harm.

                      The court argues that she should’ve raised an alarm or called The cisf folks at the next step or just shouted and grabbed attention to the perpetrators but instead of doing any of those “alternates” she ended up using pepper spray in a constricted area causing harm to people – this inviting excessive force allegations

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                          April 15, 2025 at 10:57 am
                          Thanks!Β 

                          I agree, that was what I was saying as well, as along as it is used in reasonable amounts it’s legal

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                    April 15, 2025 at 7:27 am
                    No need to stab, just make people aware of wrong doings if it is a public place.

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                      April 15, 2025 at 7:29 am
                      I think the law allows you to use equal force not more. You can’t kill someone because he or she stared.

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                          April 15, 2025 at 8:00 am
                          Not staring, OP asked for groping. There is a difference. One offcourse can’t kill for this but equal force would mean what?? Can we use pepper spray? Those self defence pens for stabing thighs?? Or are those tiny electric shock devices legal in India?? I currently carry pepper sprayand those pointed pen kind of things for minor danger situations and a pocket knife in my key chain for grave danger situations. Would love to know if those tiny electric shock devices like stun guns are legal in India because those would come really handy in grave danger kjnd of situation as it would give enough time to escape.

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                          April 15, 2025 at 7:32 am
                          OP is asking a straight question and not for opinions.

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                              April 15, 2025 at 8:42 am
                              By law you can’t kill anyone

                              Though, some parts of law allows us to excert physical force to protect ourselves in an event of assault.

                              The amount of force should be proportional to the attacker and the motive of retaliation should be to avoid more harm.

                              It should never be an act of revenge.

                              Morally, society can treat a molestation on kids, women and men differently. So killing someone in case of kids or women sound morally just, but by law it’s not.

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                                  April 16, 2025 at 2:55 am
                                  So you gotta do it when he’s attempting the assault. Take notes, ladies. Be always ready… 😈

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                                  April 15, 2025 at 11:30 am
                                  Looks like OP is the descendant of Phoolan Devi.

                                  Seedi baat, no bakwaas.

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                                  April 15, 2025 at 7:35 am
                                  Nope. You can’t shoot or stable them.
                                  Please understand that laws in india don’t have the “stand my ground” rules as in the USA or specially Texas.
                                  Here the basic principal of the law is that you can only and only use violence (in any form) upto a *reasonable* extent to save yourself or someone around you from imminent death or physical harm to the extent that you are kept safe.

                                  For constant staring or even him passing sleazy comment – using a pepper spray may not be accepted as “reasonable”. The law expects you to change your position in the metro to save yourself.

                                  You cannot be excessive in your violence.

                                  If someone breaks into my home and I shoot him – i will certainly go to jail for murder. This is not a reasonable reaction.
                                  The courts expects me to maybe hit him or incapacitate the intruder or much better let the intruder steal my shit and for me to run away.

                                  Source – I have had run-ins with the law myself for both self-defence (someone threatened me), beating someone (he slapped my senior citizen father), and a few incidents of road rage.

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                                      April 15, 2025 at 8:04 am
                                      The home one is ridiculous. I’m not gonna ask someone at 2 am in the morning why he broke into my house, I gotta act. The laws really save the bad ones

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                                          April 15, 2025 at 9:24 am
                                          You can incapacatate him just cant kill him

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                                              April 15, 2025 at 10:12 am
                                              And there’s no normal way to do that

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                                                  April 15, 2025 at 10:15 am
                                                  Knock him out hit him on the head with a chair just dont kill him

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                                                  April 15, 2025 at 8:10 pm
                                                  I mean, I’m not Bruce Lee or this ain’t a game. A hit with 69⁰ curve and X amount of Kinetic energy would kill him, so let’s go with x-1… lol. This ain’t happening

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                                                    April 15, 2025 at 8:43 pm
                                                    Haan bro mein toh hu Batman, kar lunga kisi tarah

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                                                  April 15, 2025 at 8:40 am
                                                  If someone breaks into your house and you kill them, you are going to jail only if you have the shittiest advocate and some personal enmity with the police officer writing the FIR
                                                  OR
                                                  You are a lower caste person in UP or Bihar

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                                                      April 15, 2025 at 8:41 am
                                                      Brother/sister you are delusional.

                                                      Please check case law. Just Google self defence cases in Delhi.

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                                                          April 15, 2025 at 12:07 pm
                                                          Please feel free to quote them

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                                                              April 15, 2025 at 2:38 pm
                                                              https://indiankanoon.org/doc/1760226/

                                                              This was the first that popped up on my Google search

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                                                                  April 15, 2025 at 2:54 pm
                                                                  My guy read what you have quoted. An intruder has killed the homeowner……

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                                                                      April 15, 2025 at 3:47 pm
                                                                      Oh damn. That was a silly mistake lol.

                                                                      Will share some cases.

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                                                                        April 15, 2025 at 4:26 pm
                                                                        Brother read it again. The home owner is the aggressor against a home intruder wherein the home owner kills one intruder with a bow and arrow.

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                                                                              April 15, 2025 at 4:30 pm
                                                                              >they were repeatedly asked by Gujali as to who the intruders were. The intruders, however, gave no answer to this query.

                                                                              >The deceased Nana, on being told about this by Gujali then challenged them saying

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                                                                    April 15, 2025 at 10:09 am
                                                                    So if I cut him with a safety pin i can get in trouble?

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                                                                        April 15, 2025 at 10:53 am
                                                                        He shouldn’t die just go numb or unconscious for a few moment

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                                                                            Good thanks !

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                                                                                April 15, 2025 at 5:32 pm
                                                                                He can fight back case, remember that too.

                                                                                Some are part of Rackets, and they can hire a lawyer too, so you might get in trouble for harming.

                                                                                That’s why use the force up to a certain extent, only in extreme dangerous situation use this technique.

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                                                                                    April 15, 2025 at 7:32 pm
                                                                                    Okay I’ll just bhook him with a safety pin then 😞

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                                                                                        April 15, 2025 at 8:19 pm
                                                                                        Why safety pin? LOL!

                                                                                        NGL, that will make anyone laugh, because like imagine, a man coming to you, you use a safety pin, bro will rather die from cuteness.

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                                                                                            It hurts 😭??????

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                                                                                                April 15, 2025 at 9:02 pm
                                                                                                I mean yeah, but I don’t think that will save you, try spray, in one slap on hand from women that pin will fall, men who are trying to do something will go more far and strong, use something stronger but not lethal.

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                                                                                    April 16, 2025 at 1:31 am
                                                                                    Not true.

                                                                                    Section 100: Specifies the circumstances under which causing death in self-defence is justified, including situations where there is a reasonable apprehension of death, grievous hurt, rape, kidnapping, or unnatural offences.

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                                                                                    April 15, 2025 at 7:44 am
                                                                                    Unfortunately not, because of the (understandable) equal force rule (or something on those lines), but I totally get your angry. If someone try that on my sister/mother/wife/daughter, I’d be angry too. I’d ask things like this too.

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                                                                                      April 15, 2025 at 7:50 am
                                                                                      No, you can’t.

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                                                                                        April 15, 2025 at 7:51 am
                                                                                        Yeah self defense can extend to death as well in certain circumstances.

                                                                                        Section 100 reads, when the right to private defence extends to causing death- in such circumstances-

                                                                                        1)Such an assault as may reasonably cause the apprehension that death will otherwise be the consequence of such assault;
                                                                                        2)Such an assault as may reasonably cause the apprehension that grievous hurt will otherwise be the consequence of such assault;
                                                                                        3)An assault with the intention of committing rape;
                                                                                        4)An assault with the intention of gratifying unnatural lust;
                                                                                        5)An assault with the intention of kidnapping or abducting;
                                                                                        6)An assault with the intention of wrongfully confining a person, under circumstances which may reasonably cause him to apprehend that he will be unable to have recourse to the public authorities for his release.

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                                                                                          April 15, 2025 at 7:58 am
                                                                                          Just shout , rest wwork will be done by public ig

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                                                                                            NAL-

                                                                                            This is a **serious and complex** question, especially with the way crimes against women have been rising and the **frustration** many women feel with a system that often fails to protect them.

                                                                                            ### **Self-Defense in India: What’s Legally Allowed?**
                                                                                            In India, self-defense is **legal** when a person uses **reasonable force** to protect themselves from harm. The law allows for **retaliation** in the event of an attack, but it **must be proportionate** to the threat. In other words, you can defend yourself, but **you cannot escalate** the situation unnecessarily.

                                                                                            ### 1. If a man gropes or touches a woman inappropriately or **violates her personal space**, that is **criminal behavior** under **Indian Penal Code (IPC) Section 354** (Assault or criminal force to woman with intent to outrage her modesty).

                                                                                            If this happens, **self-defense** is absolutely justified. But there are **limits** to what’s allowed:

                                                                                            **Immediate threat to personal safety**: If someone is physically touching you inappropriately (groping, molesting, etc.), **you have the right to defend yourself**. You can push, slap, or even kick to protect yourself.

                                                                                            **Escalating violence**: However, if the situation is **already under control** (e.g., the attacker has stopped or is retreating), and you **respond by using excessive force** (such as stabbing or shooting), this might **not be seen as self-defense** anymore. That would **likely be considered an assault** and could result in **legal consequences** for the woman.

                                                                                            ### 2. The use of **deadly force** (like stabbing or shooting) is **highly restricted** in self-defense laws. It is **not justifiable** unless-
                                                                                            a) There’s an immediate **life-threatening danger**.
                                                                                            b) The attacker is armed or is posing a **grave threat** to your life (e.g., with a knife, weapon, or threatening to cause serious harm).

                                                                                            In the case of groping, inappropriate touching, or verbal harassment in a public place like the metro, **it’s highly unlikely** that self-defense would legally allow for stabbing or shooting, unless there’s a clear **imminent danger to life**.

                                                                                            ### 3. Let’s assume that it can be **proven** on camera that the man was harassing or molesting the woman. This would **greatly support her case**. However, even in such situations, **retaliation must be proportionate**.

                                                                                            a) **Non-violent retaliation**- If the woman retaliates **non-violently** (slaps, shoves, pushes, or calls for help), she would likely be in the clear, especially if the harassment is on tape.

                                                                                            b) **Excessive retaliation**- If she escalates the violence to **deadly force** (stabbing, shooting), even with proof of harassment, the **legal consequences for her could be severe**. She might still face charges for **excessive force**. She may have a defense under **Section 100** of IPC (which permits deadly force in self-defense), but it will heavily depend on **how the court interprets** the situation.

                                                                                            ### 4. a) **Self-defense**: If the woman’s actions are **proportional** to the threat and situation, she will likely not face legal repercussions. In fact, **her actions might be seen as justifiable**, especially with clear evidence of harassment.

                                                                                            b) **Excessive Force**: If it’s judged that she used **excessive force** (such as stabbing or shooting when not required), she could be charged with **assault** or **attempted murder**, and could face imprisonment or legal action. This is **very serious** and would be heavily debated in court based on circumstances and evidence.

                                                                                            ### 5. a) **Immediately report the incident** to the police, especially if it’s a case of harassment, molestation, or unwanted physical contact.
                                                                                            b) **File a complaint** under IPC Sections 354, 354A, or 509 (depending on the nature of the crime), and ensure that the **evidence (camera footage)** is presented.

                                                                                            ### 6. **The Alternative Legal Options Are Available Too-**
                                                                                            a) If the woman is being harassed or molested, she can file for a **protection order** under the **Domestic Violence Act** (even if the person is not a family member), or file an **FIR** for harassment or molestation.

                                                                                            b) **Sexual harassment at workplace** laws apply to public spaces too, and she can demand **legal action**, which can include **imprisonment of the accused**.

                                                                                            1. **Avoid violence**: In general, try to **avoid escalating the situation** into a physical confrontation unless absolutely necessary. Call for help or alert others around you if possible.

                                                                                            2. **Document everything**: Take pictures, record incidents, and collect all available evidence. This will help her case if she chooses to report the incident.

                                                                                            3. **File a police report**: Immediately report the incident to the police with clear evidence (witnesses, camera footage, etc.).

                                                                                            4. **Use the legal framework**: Seek a **protection order**, especially in cases of repeated harassment.

                                                                                            5. **Consider self-defense training**: **Learning self-defense** can give confidence, reduce the fear of escalation, and help her better handle such situations without resorting to violence.

                                                                                            While self-defense is a **right**, **deadly force** like stabbing or shooting is **not generally justified** in cases of harassment or molestation unless there is a **grave, life-threatening danger**. The **proportionality of response** is key to ensuring no legal action is taken against the woman in retaliation.

                                                                                            The **best course of action** is to **report the crime immediately**, **seek legal recourse**, and handle the situation with as much **restraint** as possible, using violence only if absolutely necessary for protection.

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                                                                                                April 16, 2025 at 4:27 am
                                                                                                so indirectly the man has ample protection from law to molest and stare as women cant even defend and its the woman who should be within legal limits wow🀣 indian law loves victim blaming

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                                                                                                Do it

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                                                                                                  April 15, 2025 at 8:16 am
                                                                                                  My friend had stabbed a guy who followed her and tried to grab her. Non-lethal, stabbed his hand with a hair pin. Police let her go since she was a girl.

                                                                                                  You can carry pepper spray I guess.

                                                                                                  NAL

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                                                                                                    It depends on the guy doing it too, if he has high contacts in police and court, he can ensure your reputation is ruined and you go to jail

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                                                                                                        April 15, 2025 at 8:41 am
                                                                                                        That will happen even if the victim says β€˜no’.

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                                                                                                        Pepper spray laced with arsenic or cyanide ?

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                                                                                                            πŸ˜… I am not looking for ideas. I just wanna know what has the Indian laws done to help me stop such behaviour

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                                                                                                                Indian laws are not same for every Indian. Rapists gets bail but silent protesters are put under NBW πŸŽ…πŸΎπŸ€¬

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                                                                                                                    Ibmeen the laws are like so bad, officials garlanded r*pists and performed rituals welcoming them.

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                                                                                                                Uk nhi hain jo stab kroge
                                                                                                                Usa nhi hain jo shoot kroge

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                                                                                                                  Answer me this – What if someone stabs you of revenge and saves themself by saying you groped?

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                                                                                                                      April 15, 2025 at 10:10 am
                                                                                                                      Thats why she said about having the proof,

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                                                                                                                        Answer me this – Someone grabs your daughter’s private parts, stalks her and basically scares her so much that she hates being a woman. What if can’t do anything about it? (In fact that’s no β€˜what if’ here)

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                                                                                                                            Answer me this – What if someone’s daughter stabs your son because of a revenge and accuses him falsely of stalking and groping?

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                                                                                                                          April 15, 2025 at 8:59 am
                                                                                                                          It is not so simple; to cite self-defence, you must show:

                                                                                                                          1. Imminent danger.
                                                                                                                          2. Continuous and/or escalating danger where, unless force was applied to deter or stop it, the situation would likely result in death/grave injury/rape/kidnapping.

                                                                                                                          Also, the force used needs to be proportionate to the threat present and must not be applied in pursuit of revenge.

                                                                                                                          Following these principles:
                                                                                                                          1. Pepper spraying someone merely for staring at you would be deemed excessive force, and the girl could face charges.
                                                                                                                          2. Using pepper spray in response to being groped would be considered reasonable and proportionate.
                                                                                                                          3. Although groping is a serious offence, it may not cross the threshold required to justify potentially lethal force, and the girl might face serious criminal charges.

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                                                                                                                              April 15, 2025 at 9:19 am
                                                                                                                              Exactly. If this kind of law wasn’t in place, it would be misused. Like many current laws are.

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                                                                                                                              If a woman slaps somebody in public or kicks them on the nuts, is the guy authorised to stab or shoot them?

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                                                                                                                                  April 15, 2025 at 9:20 am
                                                                                                                                  Nope even when woman sexually assaults a guy, they have to scream and slap and do self defense like karate, not stab her.

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                                                                                                                                      April 15, 2025 at 10:14 am
                                                                                                                                      Idk, if a person tries to sexually assault someone and she/he stabs them, even if its not in law, the police or court will let go of them considering the situation

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                                                                                                                                        April 15, 2025 at 5:58 pm
                                                                                                                                        If a woman slaps a man (considering we are talking about the potential molestors, eve teasers and the likes) there’s a 80% chance she will not live a day peacefully unless she runs away and hides.

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                                                                                                                                      April 15, 2025 at 9:13 am
                                                                                                                                      Lawyer here, as per the penal code (the new BNS), you can of course act in self defence but as others have pointed out, there are limits to the extent you can use self defence to hurt or critically injure the other person.

                                                                                                                                      If someone is staring at you, I’m afraid you can’t do anything to that person physically, other than call him out publicly, move away yourself or just inform any authority/cop that he’s staring and making you uncomfortable.

                                                                                                                                      If, however, someone gropes you, you are well within your rights to physically attack that person but with you bare hands. You can twist their hands, punch/kick them, push them, however, none of these can be lethal moves which you knowingly executed to kill that person. That would be beyond the scope of self defence. However, if let’s say you push them away, they fall back and their head hits a stone and they die, that would not be your fault and in most cases you would get away with it. But if you knowingly hit them in a spot, in a manner, where it’s likely that they’ll die (probably because you know martial arts or something and know critical spots) then you’ll be charged with culpable homicide not amounting to murder. Remember that all this was using your bare hands.

                                                                                                                                      With weapons however, it’s a different ball game. Firstly, carrying a lethal weapon like a knife or a gun itself is a bit problematic on your part, at least in India (unless you’re licensed to have a gun on your person). If, however, you do have it on you and someone gropes you, best you can do is pull out your weapon and threaten them and in most cases any sane person who was just there to grope you (and not planned an abduction or worse) would back away immediately which is what law would expect you to do. You can’t just directly stab someone or shoot them. The law wants you to allow yourself to be safe, not necessarily harm the attacker, that’s for the law to deal with and punish them.

                                                                                                                                      Let’s say they back off once you pull out your weapon but they still come charging at you afterwards, then that is the point you may be allowed to use the weapon but again, you cannot target it at a vital spot where the other person will die soon. You can shoot at legs to stop them or at arm to maim them but not at chest or head. For a knife, you could slash it across hitting whatever comes in the way, but if you actually hold it straight and use motion to actively stab the person in a vital spot then that won’t be right.

                                                                                                                                      Hope that helps, let me know if you have any follow ups. Also, keep in mind that this is theoretical supplemented by some practical experience. Each and every case is different on their own and the outcome can depend on dozens of factors.

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                                                                                                                                          April 15, 2025 at 2:42 pm
                                                                                                                                          Thankyou for such a sane response.

                                                                                                                                          Half of the comments is chatgpting shit.

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                                                                                                                                            What weapons are legal to carry? Like a pepper spray and a bat? Guns are obviously illegal and what about knives? I’ve read somewhere that a knife with a blade less than 5 inches is legal.

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                                                                                                                                                April 15, 2025 at 7:21 pm
                                                                                                                                                Pepper spray is legal, yes. Bat is not a weapon per se so legal to carry, but I doubt anyone would be just randomly carrying it around for this purpose, it’s heavy lol. I’m not sure about the small blade knife, it may be legal, if yes, then it can be used in line with how I described in my previous comment.

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                                                                                                                                                    April 16, 2025 at 2:26 am
                                                                                                                                                    The bat was mostly for my car. Although I don’t participate in road rage, I’d like to keep myself safe

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                                                                                                                                                  Thanks for a very reasonable answer. But just one question, let’s say the victim is martial arts trained and don’t intend to kill but pushed the accused and the accused died- how will this be seen?
                                                                                                                                                  Also, similarly, what if the knife was not intended to kill but accidentally did kill- would it still be seen as self defence?

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                                                                                                                                                      April 15, 2025 at 7:27 pm
                                                                                                                                                      In such situations, the very specifics of how and what was done, the extent of injury caused and how exactly is the death caused, matters. Because, it will come down to showing the intent of the action done by the victim. And to prove intent in court, obviously no one can read minds, it is shown through circumstantial evidence which is why what exactly happened, will determine it.

                                                                                                                                                      For example, if you use the knife, you may not intend to kill but it stabs right in the heart, it’ll be extremely difficult to prove that you didn’t intend to kill, but let’s say you just slash it, it cuts the wrist of the attacker and then he bleeds to death in sometime, easier to prove that you didn’t intend to kill. However, it is to be kept in mind that if at all death is caused, it’ll be a difficult case nonetheless and can very well depend on the prosecution and defence lawyers and the judge, how it is interpreted and if any punishment is awarded.

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                                                                                                                                                      I heard pepper spray is legal in case of self defence

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                                                                                                                                                      April 15, 2025 at 9:17 am
                                                                                                                                                      No. And it doesn’t even make sense. Unless you can prove that your life was in danger, then intentional use of any form of lethal force is attempted murder. Carry a pepper spray instead. Non-lethal and effective.

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                                                                                                                                                        Yes

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                                                                                                                                                          April 15, 2025 at 9:36 am
                                                                                                                                                          Kill them now and ask for forgiveness later, I’d rather visit court dates my entire life than be harassed.

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                                                                                                                                                            Can you shoot or stab them? Yes.

                                                                                                                                                            Will there be legal repercussions for you because of this? Yes.

                                                                                                                                                            Only way to deal with this is with the legal route, you can cook up a storm if your voice isn’t being heard, call twitter, call women helpline, call NGOs.

                                                                                                                                                            Stabbing and shooting them isn’t a proportional response to what they’re doing.

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                                                                                                                                                              April 15, 2025 at 10:06 am
                                                                                                                                                              Someone is staring at a women and can she do anything? No. It’s Public place and people are allowed to. Morally wrong and can get into argument but legally nothing much u can do

                                                                                                                                                              Gropes a woman in public. Then definitely “Appropriate” force can be used to stop him. Beating him so much so u can get away to a safe distance from him or pepper spray him so u have enough time to get away from him. Also it is followed with legal repercussions on him.

                                                                                                                                                              Now, coming to raping a women, courts have ruled in the past that even stabbing a man which may in future result in his death is allowed under self defence when under this circumstance. Note that it’s one or two stab to get away and not 10 to 20 with an intent to kill him.

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                                                                                                                                                                April 15, 2025 at 10:07 am
                                                                                                                                                                Idk you can hurt them for staring but if they touch can attack them, even if the law doesn’t allow it, you can get of easily, even if “law” don’t allow it they will consider the situation and don’t be harsh, thats what i think but if the person is privileged, yeah you most likely isn’t gonna get justice

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                                                                                                                                                                  April 15, 2025 at 10:23 am
                                                                                                                                                                  Right to retaliation( with proportional force), do anything to save your life/dignity. ANYTHING. In instance of groping, you obviously can push and the usual or even pepper spray. Stabbing is a sticky situation because its difficult to handle a knife.

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                                                                                                                                                                    Yes, self-defense, violent emotion, etc.

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                                                                                                                                                                      What ever you do make sure there are evidence to back your claim . Like take a video of this guy following you . If there no chance to take video .make eye witness .seek help of others tell them you are followed by this guy . Stab only as last resort .there are things you can do before that .like slap the face or kick his baby maker

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                                                                                                                                                                        NAL. No such laws exist because if it existed, a woman can simply kill a man and claim he was harassing her. He will not be there to present his case. So, it will give women a free pass to kill any man.

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                                                                                                                                                                          Damn

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                                                                                                                                                                            Wow, so many answers just to sympathise with OP.

                                                                                                                                                                            However, everyone fails to understand that homicide with an intention to kill IS MURDER.

                                                                                                                                                                            actus non facit reum nisi mens sit rea

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                                                                                                                                                                                Agreed, no one is telling her that she can get in trouble too if the man is powerful enough and in emotions they are hyping her up.

                                                                                                                                                                                Enough force to be safe is enough, otherwise it will go south, since many people in India in future are going against the trust of women words which was made to protect due to false ones.

                                                                                                                                                                                Right now it’s okay, so she will be saved, but in future this might go in the wrong way.

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                                                                                                                                                                                https://www.reddit.com/r/IndiaSpeaks/s/01TqDCh2Rl
                                                                                                                                                                                Happened to a police woman on camera πŸ˜•
                                                                                                                                                                                Do we have any chance as a common citizen?

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                                                                                                                                                                                  I’m a girl and a lawyer. I carry a pocket knife with me all the time. Our laws are backward af when it comes to self defence. Plus you don’t wanna be fighting in court for a murder charge.

                                                                                                                                                                                  So, just scream from the bottom of your belly and let the mob do their job.

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                                                                                                                                                                                    U can empty the entire can of pepper spray in his eyes at close range
                                                                                                                                                                                    but thats the most law can legally allow u

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                                                                                                                                                                                      Ok an academic follow up question( not trying to demean the OP) If my google history shows tht I searched for self defence laws related stabbing and killing and then I do stab some1 on pretext of self defence will my searches be used as evidence against me tht i was premeditating the murder and looked up laws to find escape routes?

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                                                                                                                                                                                          Yep.

                                                                                                                                                                                          Self defense means you acted at the moment.

                                                                                                                                                                                          Let’s say a thief comes into your house and you hit him with a rod. That’s self defense.

                                                                                                                                                                                          Another scenario, you know someone is coming to harm you. You keep a rod in every room of your house. That’s premeditated.

                                                                                                                                                                                          NAL.

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                                                                                                                                                                                          Taser them.

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                                                                                                                                                                                            No, the amount of self defence exercised has to be on par with the level of threat percieved. Groping is nowhere near as bad as murder. You can slap, you can pepper spray or tase them maybe, but unless you wanna be in prison for offing someone, I would suggest don’t kill

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