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so im friends with this guy from my gym who says that he is 19 but is actually 26. we have a very normal friendship and we talk abt how things are going with girls. now this guy is kinda like a manchild, he is extremely insecure and wants a virgin girl but he hires pr*stitutes everyday. his parents dont know about this so he takes them to hotels EVERYDAY, i can see it on his stories.
he is addicted to sex and is on multiple snapchat hookup groups which is mainly filled with teenagers.
now he started talking to this one teenager who told him that she is 19 and he also told her that he is 19. but i know the girl as she is in my school and she is actually 15, and he is 26 as i said uppar.
they both lied about their age to eachother and today i saw him in the gym with a hickey so i asked him about it. he told me that this girl gave it to him and they apparently had sex so i tolf him that she is lying abt her age and she is actually 15.
he said that he has her nudes and if she tries to do a police complaint then he will send it to her father. also he plans to continue to meet her since he has this blackmail.
should i intervene or do anything?? im js 17years old and i really dont wanna get into this mess since my life is alr quite challenging for me. what do i do?
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Ecall child helpline and report the incident. she will not realise she is being groomed and he will not accept his mistake, you have to be the one to step in
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SStay away. You can’t make anyone repent for their deeds. Not your monkey, not your circus. Avoid being friends with him.
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CDon’t get involved. Not your job to save a 15-year-old girl.
It is illegal as she is under 18. But she is not exactly a child.
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SI couldn’t be friends with someone like that. He could send her nudes to her father, which is an embarrassment, but he broke laws and deserves to be punished.
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SI would turn him in myself. Men keeping men accountable for bad behavior is how we are going to fix problems like this.
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Ubro man woman joh bhi ho i js dont want to ruin my life w this bs. both the guy and the girl r consenting so who am i to say anything. maybe ill call an ngo anonymously but other than that i dont want to get involved.
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RSend an anonymous text to her dad informing that she’s hanging out with a 26 year old guy known to be a philanderer. He’ll take it from there.
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UNot as easy as it sounds. My friend wanted to intervene like this in a similar situation and he was threatened
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UAdvocate here.
Taking action depends on you.
First record his statement about he linking minors. Trap him by informing the police secretly. If police is non cooperative, then file a private complaint against him with the evidence collected. Bear in mind, you need to know your local police behaviour first before taking any action because if you stook step and police doesn’t not cooperate and he get the whiff of it then all of your effort gone in vain.
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UStop being friends with him . Stop texting him . Stop calling him. Change the gym if you want . The police are going to nice pay day off you if they find out about you . Run as far as possible .
According to my life experience, he also has personality disorders – callousness , immorality , defiance to authority , manipulation . He will make you his victim if he feels like it .
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UTip the police about his actions, underage sex, blackmailing. But I think he is lying, he might still be having escorts and telling you that he is with that girl. A 15 year old girl won’t be this stupid to start having intercourse. First get proof then do something. You can follow him to the hotel to confirm. And you can also convince the girl to go to the police.
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