Is my Marriage legal?

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      Urbanshashwat851
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        January 24, 2025 at 12:13 pm
        Update to https://www.reddit.com/r/LegalAdviceIndia/s/S11btHIa0u

        So my wife and her parent have done divorced papers and have asked me to sign it. Luckily they are not demanding anything.

        But the divorce paper they have prepared is just a normal paper notarized on a Stamp paper and AFAIK that’s not a valid divorce.

        The paper simply states we are parting ways and calling off the marriage.

        Upon inquiring more, she stated that she got divorced the same way last time and it was not infront of court.

        My little google skills have given me the idea that it’s not a valid divorce.

        So Is my marriage valid in first place?

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          January 24, 2025 at 12:18 pm
          Consult a lawyer for proper advice.

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            January 24, 2025 at 12:21 pm
            Have your own lawyer Man, everyone told you.

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                January 24, 2025 at 12:22 pm
                My in-laws said they don’t want to separate lawyers ! And I didn’t want to get on their bad side rn

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                    January 24, 2025 at 12:26 pm
                    u r getting a divorce anyway , why care what will they think ?

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                        January 24, 2025 at 1:24 pm
                        The simplest divorce is a mutual consent divorce, and its even simpler if its the same lawyer. But OP has to trust the lawyer, thats all.

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                        January 24, 2025 at 12:49 pm
                        Which in-laws who youโ€™re divorcing? Dude what is the age difference between you and wife?

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                          January 24, 2025 at 12:56 pm
                          I smell a rat somewhere. This is not ok. Where are you based?

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                              January 24, 2025 at 1:11 pm
                              Bangalore

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                              January 24, 2025 at 1:08 pm
                              Get a lawyer yourself and ask your lawyer to get in touch with their lawyer so they can work this out. Don’t depend on their lawyer. I REPEAT DON’T DEPEND ON THEIR LAWYER.

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                                January 24, 2025 at 1:14 pm
                                Oh I get the game..both lawyers will be appointed by them..so your adv will be in effect appointed by them. If it is a mutial consent divorce i dont see any harm butif it is going to be messy your lawyer may be in effect batting for them and may nor be in your best interest

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                                    January 24, 2025 at 1:15 pm
                                    Oh no no! Mutual lawyer.

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                                        January 24, 2025 at 1:16 pm
                                        Yes..hv you agreed for mutual consent eithout strings attached ?

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                                            January 24, 2025 at 1:19 pm
                                            Yes! But now how can I divorce her legally. I have to go for an annulment on the grounds of Bigamy!

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                                                January 24, 2025 at 1:27 pm
                                                And this is why you need a lawyer. In normal cases, a common lawyer would do. But here the legal status is complicated. So even if you do not get your own lawyer, you should meet a lawyer to understand the complications.

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                                                    January 24, 2025 at 1:27 pm
                                                    But bro would that not screw up her life ?

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                                                        January 24, 2025 at 1:30 pm
                                                        No, you meet your own lawyer to understand whats the legal situation and listen to his advice. You need to learn that for your own safety no?

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                                                  January 24, 2025 at 1:43 pm
                                                  Having the same lawyer means a conflict of interest. Whose interests is the lawyer representing?

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                                            January 24, 2025 at 12:42 pm
                                            Go consult a lawyer. If there is any question – state that you just want to ensure that things are done properly. A court decree is needed for a divorce – even if it’s by mutual consent .

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                                              January 24, 2025 at 12:51 pm
                                              NAL

                                              The court or any other govt entity has to authorise a divorce the same way registrar authorises the marriage. No?

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                                                January 24, 2025 at 12:52 pm
                                                Sign the papers. If the divorce is not legal then your marriage is also not legal. Your wife was not your wife but wife of her previous husband. So no issues. NAL.

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                                                  January 24, 2025 at 1:09 pm
                                                  did you register your marriage ..

                                                  if she was preciously married and did not have a legal separation

                                                  then your marriage is legally Void ..

                                                  you can consult a lawyer who can help you on this ..

                                                  probably they are not asking is because they know she can not get anything from court legally as the marriage would not be a valid marriage

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                                                    January 24, 2025 at 1:31 pm
                                                    NAL but If this is not a legal divorce then your marriage will stand void as she did not take the divorce legally and these facts were kept hidden from you. You should pile a petition to make your marriage void without going to the hassle of divorce.

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                                                      January 24, 2025 at 1:39 pm
                                                      Which jurisdiction

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                                                        January 24, 2025 at 1:44 pm
                                                        You are Hindu?

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                                                          January 24, 2025 at 1:54 pm
                                                          What is mentioned in the earlier post does not constitute a valid divorce in India. There is no divorce without following due process and a decree from the court. A stamp paper like that will not have any legal recognition equal to that of a divorce decree.
                                                          As such, if she has done the same in an earlier marriage, she is still legally married to her previous husband and is living with you in a bigamous relationship, which is not considered equal to marriage.

                                                          Not only can you annul your wedding, but she can also be charged with bigamy and fraud under the relevant sections.

                                                          P.S. Typing while travelling, so I could not provide proper details.

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                                                            January 24, 2025 at 2:06 pm
                                                            If she was married previously and got divorced in this manner, then it is not a legal divorce.

                                                            In which case she is still legally married, in which case your marriage is probably not valid.

                                                            In which case you don’t need a divorce. You need an annulment.

                                                            Better consult a lawyer.

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                                                              January 24, 2025 at 2:39 pm
                                                              NAL, but many family members are. That is absolutely not legal divorce in any way anywhere in India and any lawyer who agrees to do this is scamming you. To get the mutual consent divorce in India you have to file a joint petition in the court and mention the alimony, child custody and support and property division in the joint petition and specifically mention that there are no children, and wife is foregoing the maintenance and alimony if its not required.

                                                              Most importantly, you have to submit proof of failed reconciliation attempts to save marriage. Then you both will appear in the court on the day of your hearing where court will give you both a cooling of time which is typically around six month and then you will appear in court again and if the court is satisfied that both parties have followed all legal requirements and that the mutual consent is genuine and none of you is blackmailing/threatening the other for divorce, it will grant a divorce decree. There is NO OTHER way of mutual consent divorce in India.

                                                              What your in laws are doing will live you open to many times more maintenance amount and alimony claim than you would typically pay in future and even prison sentence if they change their mind.

                                                              Hire your own lawyer, or get screwed in future.

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                                                                January 24, 2025 at 2:53 pm
                                                                NAL, you marriage is not valid and is bigamy by her. Consult a lawyer immediately. Also get a second opinion if things get fishy. You are not married and probably have no obligations towards her. again, NAL.

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