is there anything i can do against my aunt for making my dad kill himself?

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      Bravepawan815
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        March 10, 2025 at 2:48 am
        here are some things to know about my aunt, before i get to the main thing:

        1. she keeps four untrained, unvaccinated dogs at home, they have attacked our househelp and other people a lot of times before. my mom had to pay for their treatment. she keeps them locked in a room all day, and rarely lets them out.

        2. she abuses and mentally harasses EVERYONE. me, my mom, my schizophrenic grandmother, our househelp and our neighbours.

        3. she has striked my grandmother for money before, and i think she is doing it right now.

        4. she runs a “kirana store” from the same room she keeps her four dogs in. in the morning, she switches their rooms.

        5. she called the police on me, bc “i did not go to school, and was a bad child to my parents” when i was in 9th standard

        now, to the part where she made my dad kill himself. my dad mortgaged our home that was supposed to be inherited by her and her other sister. she kept harassing my dad for money. her words were “go kill yourself, but i need my money. and he did it. i do not know how to make her pay for it.

        other than that, she has been forcing me and my mother to leave this house. we have no place to go, and no other means to support ourselves. she finds any and every reason to harras me and my mom, and we are supposed to put up with it, bc we have no other place to go.

        my mom will not take a legal action against her. i do not know why. or maybe she doesnt know how it?

      • #38595 Reply
        Happybear2986
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          March 10, 2025 at 2:58 am
          MOVE OUT. If the house isn’t yours.

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              March 10, 2025 at 4:50 am
              Most people in India don’t have the money to pack bags and move out lol

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              March 10, 2025 at 3:01 am
              Abetment to suicide is a crime, you can look into that

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                March 10, 2025 at 3:02 am
                If you have evidence that she either instigated your father to commit suicide or she continuously harassed him which led him to commit suicide, you should file a complaint with the police for abatement of suicide.

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                    March 10, 2025 at 3:04 am
                    we do not have any proof. i regret that

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                        March 10, 2025 at 3:23 am
                        Then it’s just your word against her.

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                      March 10, 2025 at 3:05 am
                      You can file a case for abetment to suicide against her.

                      You can also file a complaint against her for running a commercial enterprise from her residence.

                      • #38597 Reply
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                          March 10, 2025 at 3:13 am
                          where can i file the second complaint?

                          • #38602 Reply
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                              March 10, 2025 at 3:21 am
                              Now that’ll depend on where the property is.

                              Where is this property located?

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                                March 10, 2025 at 5:21 am
                                The standard operating procedure is –

                                1. Write to the municipal corporation or any other designated authority (depends on city to city)

                                2. Serve them a legal notice

                                3. File a police complaint

                                The third one will make you party to the proceedings. While the first one shall keep you largely out of the loop

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                              March 10, 2025 at 3:27 am
                              Who is the owner of the house? If it is your Mother or yourself,you can throw them out.If it’s not,it’s better to get out of there and avoid all the drama and Court costs.

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                                March 10, 2025 at 4:00 am
                                Get rid of the dogs. Call SPCA or some such organisations. Lodge a police complaint against her for cruelty to animals.

                                There are a few issues.

                                Who does the house belong to?

                                Who is it mortgaged to? Who is paying the money?

                                What do you mean, supposed to be inherited?

                                Is there a will or any legal document?

                                There are multiple laws for animals. Under section 11, Prevention of cruelty to animals act. 1960. Fine for killing a stray dog is Rs 10 to Rs 50.

                                Are the dogs licenced or registered on Municipal records.

                                Lots of things to think about….

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                                  March 10, 2025 at 4:17 am
                                  NAL

                                  What is supposed to inherit? Was there a registered will?

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                                      March 10, 2025 at 6:51 am
                                      the house is supposed to be inherited. there is no registered will

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                                          March 10, 2025 at 9:03 am
                                          Then you and your siblings have the same claim in the absence of your father as the other 2 sisters do

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                                        March 10, 2025 at 4:46 am
                                        Don’t move out of the house belongs to you too. Secondly, if you have proof of her harassment, involve police.

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                                          March 10, 2025 at 5:27 am
                                          Dekh bhai dimag ko thanda rakh and ho sake to job dhundo and jald se jald is toxic se chutkara pao warana jo chal raha hai issme aur bhi nukasan hone ke chances hai…jab kuch ho jaoge tab sochna ki aage kya karana hai, filhal to better option dhundo wahi accha hai tumhari aage ki life ke liye.

                                        • #38586 Reply
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                                            March 10, 2025 at 6:15 am
                                            NAL.

                                            Sometimes the life is so messed up, from where we look at it, that it’s better to cut losses and try again.

                                            Your mom should be your utmost priority at this point. Legal machinery take years, before you prove anything to the court, you’d need money for legal fees and that’s just not it – the physical, emotional and mental load that is going to become a burden. You’ll be in endless waiting line outside court, and outside lawyers chambers.

                                            Unless you have recorded evidence, that can be given to Forensic labs and proven as genuine, a practicalnadvise would be to not step into legal mess.

                                            I dont know what’s your gender and age, but your aunt won’t stay silent either. She can put up fake cases, and I don’t even know upto what extent she can do it. Consult a lawyer before you make up your mind.

                                            The best you can do is, take care of your mom and move out of that place. OR if that house belongs to your mom legally, then kick your aunt out.

                                          • #38585 Reply
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                                              March 10, 2025 at 6:21 am
                                              Of course you know exactly how to make her pay for it. But dont do it now. Be patient, move out, educate, and then take your revenge.

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                                                March 10, 2025 at 7:04 am
                                                How old are you ?

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                                                  March 10, 2025 at 7:08 am
                                                  This requires urgent intervention from authorities. While your mother’s reluctance is understandable, the law permits you (as affected family) to initiate proceedings independently. A combined approach using civil protections and criminal complaints would be most effective.

                                                  But before advising you how to go forward with you. Please tell your age and what did you mean by house was supposed to be inherited by her and her sister. Who was the previous owner of the house, and who all were the children of the original owner, who you named in reply to my previous question.

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                                                    March 10, 2025 at 7:33 am
                                                    Abetment suicide to multiple people including your dad, now using same tactics against you and mom. You have threat to your life and blah blah, such complaint can be filed

                                                    File these complaint through competent lawyer, he will draft better complaint and you willl face less resistance at police station. You can subsequently file right s in living property.

                                                    Find right lawyer and do it. Do not do it on your own

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                                                      March 10, 2025 at 9:45 am
                                                      Dude accident happen all the time at homes and sometimes these can be fatal af. Sometimes people slip or they eat something which they shouldn’t really have eaten. Also something heavy can fall over their head.

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                                                        March 10, 2025 at 2:13 pm
                                                        You can contact me, I’ll give you my professional advice as best possible without any charge.

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                                                          March 10, 2025 at 4:04 pm
                                                          Not a legal advice, but I totally understand what you feel and I wouldn’t let it slide. I’d giver her a taste of her own medicine. She like dogs? She wouldn’t have them anymore. Those fools would eat anything mixed with chicken. and that would send a strong message to her. Don’t make it too obvious for the police. But make sure she knows its you. [I am 100% serious]

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