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SI 29(F) have lived with my parents all my life. My real father passed away when i was very young and my mother remarried. She has always been a stubborn, short tempered abusive person to everyone that’s close to her. I have lived away from them on several occasions with my extended family, however their age and health issues has got me to live with them all over again. I try my best to do my best but now I’m tired of her nature, she is disrespectful and abusive to everyone and even to the maids
who come to our house for which i have constant fights with her. She is a people pleaser but expects a lot in return and her disappointment leads to her abusive behaviour very often. I know moving out and living separately is an option but only if my parents had their own house. I have a rented apartment and we all live together, if i moved out i will have to provide for them separately i.e a separate house, ration, bills everything along with providing the same for myself which I can’t afford. She physically and verbally abuses me for calling out her crap and it’s starting to affect my mental health. I need a way out of this legally so that it doesn’t affect my work and my personal life, I am okay providing some money to her for herself but I can’t take 100% responsibility of her financial needs. She knows it all and uses it to her advantage to challenge me in every fight and says she won’t leave and will ruin my life because i ruined hers (she hates me when i call her bullshit, she has to be home because my step dad has cancer and needs care and she plays the victim every time in life even after giving her all the comfort and support, we have 2 maids who come to work for food and cleaning and still on days they bail or she wants things done her way she thinks she’s burdened with all the work) there is a lot more then this paragraph that i have dealt with my whole life and now I just want a way to separate legally without her disrupting my life, i will do my best to help from a distance but there is not much I can do. I need a way out before i loose myself completely. -
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