Lost money to a adult service scam.

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        March 9, 2025 at 3:13 pm
        So I recently got a contact of a “woman” giving paid “massage” service in Hyderabad (if you catch my drift) on telegram. I’ve seen many such “service providers” and this contact seemed okay for such a shady service. I agreed to pay the booking charges of 1K via Gpay.

        She asks for my location. I share a nearby building location to her. I get her location. I reached the area. It’s almost like a small village colony here. A tiny temple here and there and few small shops around. Hard to believe that just 1.5 km away is the city many road with many shops and the hustle and bustle of hundreds of people going about their daily lives.

        I ask where is she. She asks to share current location again. I share my current location as a google maps link. Now the woman asks to pay the remaining 3K before meeting. Fine. That’s the complete charge for the service. I pay that. Now she asks for security deposit of 3.5K and refused to budget. I pay that too but I get suspicious. Now she asks 4K more for some other BS deposit. I’m pretty sure I just lost my money to a dirty and brazen scam.

        I refused and moved 50m to a different location and started watching. 2 men show up in a splendor bike looking confused. They repeatedly look into their mobile and look around. Now I’m pretty sure they were here to force me to empty my wallet.

        I leave discreetly and after reaching a safe location, I text the “woman” asking my money back. She resuses and insist on getting the 4K deposit. I make an excuse and tell I’m cancelling the booking because she never showed up and I needed to leave urgently. I have no money left in my bank.

        After repeatedly nagging me, she even agreed to meet without any more payments but I’m not falling for it, I demand my 7.5K back but “she” has stopped replying.

        I’m not married or currently in relation, so it’s not like I’m hiding a secret affair from anyone.

        Please advise me on my next course of action.I have the UPI payment details and chat history.

        Should I go to the police? Is there any way to recover my money? Please anyone?

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          March 9, 2025 at 3:20 pm
          Cannot do anything now.

          Don’t think with D next time if at all you go for it

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              March 9, 2025 at 3:49 pm
              Yeah no shit! Will definitely remember that. But I feel utterly frustrated and powerless in this situation

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                  March 9, 2025 at 4:23 pm
                  Don’t worry about it ur money is long gone and u arent getting it back , happend with me also, u can’t do anything in this situation. Just think about it with ur brain next time not with ur d. And if ur that much hrny go to delhi or any near by big city and search for spas and massage centre they will provide u all sorts of services just bargain as much as u can.

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                    March 10, 2025 at 4:41 am
                    Think of it as tuition fees for a valuable life lesson!

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                  March 9, 2025 at 3:21 pm
                  NAL. You’ve lost your money. Difficult to get it back. Thank God that you came out safe and next time be careful

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                      March 9, 2025 at 3:39 pm
                      Yes, TBH OP got off comparatively easily, and only thing he lost was some time and money.

                      In worse scenarios, people have lost their good night sleep and reptation in these scams.

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                      March 9, 2025 at 3:26 pm
                      Why would you just pay them again and again without any hint of getting something back ? Like didn’t you get suspicious that they asked these amounts in succession when they could’ve just asked it in one settlement ? Was this a sunk cost fallacy type situation ?

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                          March 9, 2025 at 3:52 pm
                          I got suspicious after the first “security deposit” and decided to back off immediately. But yeah, you’re probably right. I did pay more twice. Should’ve been alerted as soon as “she” asked for the complete service cost even before getting to the security cost bs.

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                            March 10, 2025 at 6:42 am
                            Well, the force was strong on him.

                            Hope, he jacked off thereafter.

                            Too much massage videos.

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                            March 9, 2025 at 3:30 pm
                            isme kya legal advice lega? bs next time dimag se kaam Krna

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                              March 9, 2025 at 3:31 pm
                              Please don’t fall for these scams, you’re lucky that they didn’t rob you. Don’t think with your D, use your brain. I don’t believe you can recover your money now, file a complaint but authorities won’t help you much.

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                                March 9, 2025 at 3:44 pm
                                Agli bar ek massage parlour hi chle jana!

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                                    March 9, 2025 at 3:48 pm
                                    This is funny and I want to laugh but I feel terrible being cheated like this and unable to do anything. What good is the police if you can’t even expect anything from them.

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                                        March 9, 2025 at 3:50 pm
                                        Bhai, police phle tere ko uthayega, for paying someone for sex, human trafficking, etc. You aren’t exactly in white here. But, chal is bat pe hasle ki na tu phla hai, na tu akhri rahega, ye janmo janmo k scam hai, chlta tha aur chlta rhega!

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                                      March 9, 2025 at 4:29 pm
                                      call 1930 and report cyber fraud

                                      Tell them scammer pretended to be from bank

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                                          March 9, 2025 at 5:02 pm
                                          And then? I can’t head out with thinking this through. If cyber fraud really gives a damn, they’ll try to get as much details as possible, can’t really hide the truth from the departments, it’ll get out eventually. The case will probably lose credibility if I lie and will be dismissed ASAP.

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                                              March 9, 2025 at 5:27 pm
                                              It’s okay..they know these things..u just call it and make complaint..atleast..they will block her/his account..so they can’t scam others

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                                            March 9, 2025 at 4:32 pm
                                            Next step: find a solid wall and head-butt it to the hardest possible.

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                                                March 9, 2025 at 5:58 pm
                                                Or dig a hole in that same wall and please yourself too

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                                                March 9, 2025 at 4:52 pm
                                                Hiring a stranger off telegram for a “massage” should have been the first red flag. In a way, I am glad you only lost that much money, and this didn’t escalate further into you getting kidnapped or worse.

                                                You are not getting that money back. You can try going the legal route, it is going to cost you more money and also you run the risk of people in your circle knowing about the details of this case. You are not living in a country where it’s safe and easy to hire someone over the internet for such services. It is almost always a scam. Now you know, so just move on and never take such a risk again.

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                                                  March 9, 2025 at 4:58 pm
                                                  Already done. What’s next?

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                                                    March 9, 2025 at 4:58 pm
                                                    Cash is king in such ‘illegal’ services.

                                                    Always agree on a price and say you dont have any online payment apps.

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                                                      March 9, 2025 at 5:23 pm
                                                      Wow how desperate were you actually, L man L course of action

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                                                        March 9, 2025 at 5:31 pm
                                                        Hard Lesson

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                                                          March 9, 2025 at 5:38 pm
                                                          Fuck around and find out

                                                          But you didn’t even fuck man

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                                                              March 9, 2025 at 5:49 pm
                                                              ๐Ÿคฃ

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                                                                March 9, 2025 at 8:44 pm
                                                                Get to**

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                                                                  March 10, 2025 at 2:08 am
                                                                  Chilli+Salt ๐Ÿ”ฅ

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                                                                      March 10, 2025 at 3:02 am
                                                                      U forgot the ๐Ÿ‹ ๐Ÿ˜

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                                                                    March 9, 2025 at 5:49 pm
                                                                    Rule No.1 Never trust anything money-related on Telegram.

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                                                                      March 9, 2025 at 6:31 pm
                                                                      Like you said. You lost your money. Could’ve lost more. Walk away having learnt a lesson.

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                                                                        March 9, 2025 at 6:32 pm
                                                                        Your dick would take you to the places where you’d not go even with a gun

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                                                                          March 9, 2025 at 7:52 pm
                                                                          Go to bank and tell them u sent money to someone by mistake.
                                                                          If done within 60 days, it can be retained.
                                                                          And don’t do this ever again.

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                                                                            March 9, 2025 at 8:45 pm
                                                                            Hawas ka chakr baabu bhaiya

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                                                                              March 9, 2025 at 8:58 pm
                                                                              One thing can be done. You can report your UPI Transaction, Heard they Return within 72 hours of Claim.

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                                                                                March 9, 2025 at 9:01 pm
                                                                                Well why do we tell not to pay anything before meet …and never ever go to such locations alone… Have a partner in crime with connections to police and a lawyer so he can alert them if you are abducted or your kidney is….

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                                                                                  March 9, 2025 at 10:04 pm
                                                                                  The moment I read “Telegram” I knew you were going to be scammed.
                                                                                  It’s too much to say going app for all types of scams.

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                                                                                    March 10, 2025 at 1:12 am
                                                                                    Man plays stupid games, man wins stupid prizes.

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                                                                                      March 10, 2025 at 2:42 am
                                                                                      Jaha bhi paisa involved ho wo pyar nai vyapar hai
                                                                                      Aur vyapar me jo dono kano ke beech hai uska instemaal karo, jo dono tango ke beech hai uska nahi

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                                                                                        March 10, 2025 at 3:26 am
                                                                                        I think this happened in Delhi

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                                                                                          March 10, 2025 at 7:42 am
                                                                                          I dont think we can get any genuine service everrrrr !!!

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                                                                                            March 10, 2025 at 11:18 am
                                                                                            Jitna time ye kahani k punctuation mei lagaya , uska 10% bhi baith k sochne mei lagata toh tere paise bach jaate.

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                                                                                              March 10, 2025 at 3:02 pm
                                                                                              Ch*d gye guru!

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                                                                                                March 10, 2025 at 5:02 pm
                                                                                                Believe me or don’t, you could have visited a sex worker and would have got their service for 25% of that amount (obviously use protection)

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