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SMarried men, share your wisdom!
What’s your biggest regret about marriage? What advice would you give to single guys before they take the leap?
Drop your truths–whether funny, serious, or downright unexpected. Let’s hear it all!What would you do differently if given the chance? Let’s hear those life lessons!
Thank you
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UReality is – first few months your hormones and hers will be in peak so everything will be shinnier.. after a year or so you will understand what the reality is and who the person is actually.. it can go both ways either way too good or too bad.. so dont think too much.. just ensure you speak everything upfront but dont expecr anything out of it… whatever plan we put or thought we put, it is purely luck and fate… so let us hope best
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IDon’t get into marriage hating the other sex and thinking women are gold diggers or men are rapists. If shit has to happen it will. All u can do is look out for red flags, slightly do background checks, marry in your community as you can find connection through distant relatives and friends. Be a good human from your end and hope for the best.
I realise “marry from your community” will trigger a few but u know how much I care.
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BAlways listen to your gut feelings.
Post engagement, if you sense something is off, then don’t go ahead with marriage in the pretext of Baad me sab thik ho jayega… And call it off a marriage peacefully.
Listen 80% to your parents…
Don’t waste money on large marriage, make it a private ceremony with only 50-100 people which matter most…
Instead of discussing sex fantasies and all on first few meetings, discuss about finance and related responsibilities…
Like others have mentioned, post marriage, don’t involve parents from either side to solve your marital problems, it’s now husband-wife problems, so only you TWO have to deal with those…
Never share your intimate or 4-wall-closed things with ANYONE, initially we keep on discussing such things with our so called closed friends, please don’t do that…
Learn to accept that know you have tied the knots, so stop flirting around or spending time with opposite gender. That means you have to cut down your earlier so called sense of humour…
Finally, most importantly, believe in each other, dedicate to each other and commit to each other fully. That means you are a different person post marriage hence you have bring lot of changes in your daily habits or else the marriage will not sail long if you keep bringing your ego/attitude…
All of the above points are gender neutral…
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