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SI earn almost twice as much as husband
Married for 10 months
Seperated for 2.3 years nowI have filed DV case jan 2023
Divorce case – Apr 2024
Fir – tresspassing, hitting, misbehaving with me in front of parents all on CCTV threatening police and hitting Neighbors n ill treating his own mom captured
Threatening dowry demand
Financial fraud with bank official involvement, email, whatsapp bank statement proofPolice constables in civil dress came to maika saying it’s husbands flat, I m mom were not present, they tried to forcefully open the Neighbors gate n sat on floor for 2.5 hours I m sure waiting for us to do something bad because he often threatened in name of police
All in Faridabad court
I filed protection last year in Faridabad but they referred to high court
We sold maika flat within 6 months because he wanted to overtake that
Dad passed away as he knew almost nothing until seperation and saw extreme shit even during seperation and was a serious patient on death bed for over 3 years until he passed awayI n mom moved to Delhi
Our residence is 60 km to Faridabad court
But Faridabad is no longer safe
Nor the cases are movingIs there a genuin way to get the cases to Delhi because I know for a fact however many bank statements n proofs I show he won’t pay a penny
I tried asking for mutual divorce twice
No response
He is fine with 452 section along with othersAny suggestions on how to get of this?
Can supreme court or delhi court help expedite or move cases to Delhi?
I m facing issues at work due to constant holidays at work
He doesn’t show up to consumer case against bank n more than 25 dates have happened in that case alone in less than 9 months -
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STresspassing drunk 452
498A
Physical abuse
Mental abuse
Recovery – bank transfers n streedhan which he n his eloped withFraud – his 15 year old dead father is nominee on paper n bank account. He switched it after I signed documents. He kept my DPD blank signed checks which bank did not disclose until RBI ombudsman intervened. He manipulated police officials telling them my maika is his n his mom’s permanent address. There is so much more – this not yet charged on him but after evidence I can try, but lawyer refuses, there is no fraud. I have proof of everything here.
Divorce
Protection case filed n dismissed for high court in July 2024 but I have no strength to go to chandigarh. I m severely physically n emotionally unwell.There is much more tbh. This is 0.1% of the problem I m stating.
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SAlso no maintenance or alimony demand. Just if he could pay back my money n stree dhan. Not even shadi ka kharcha. I will appreciate it if someone can get this out of him because I doubt it now. Also, I have paid rigorously to lawyers. No good. I m not sure how to proceed. Trusting someone is becoming difficult.
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BYou should have filed full set of matrimonial charges and not just DV and include in laws name in FIR as well when he refused mutual divorce because it would have made case stronger.
Never take moral high ground and ignore women haters on social media.
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SI did that mistake to not drag his family in any of the cases. Just added his mom n his cousin in FIR coz they were involved heavily even during seperation inspite of knowing my dad’s condition. I m sure they had cake n halwa when my dad passed away in NoV 2023 itself. It’s a cruel family with 20 years of litigation experience n divorce experience in family. I and my family knew zero. He had everything planned before marriage but all his cards opened up in March 2024 when RBI ombudsman helped me get to bank account documents and more from bank. There is so much harm he has done. N is laughing in the dowry car fully paid by my money. i did the mistake. I get it. I was not taught all this cleverness n it is still not my nature. I appreciate all these advice though. Thanks
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Bit’s okay. We all make mistakes. I am no lawyer.
You should get better divorce lawyer if you need to change. Check otherwarya’s IG handle. She has mentioned good crowd sourced list of divorce lawyers in all major cities along with phone numbers. Obviously they charge money. It’s 8-9th story in her profile.
Best of luck
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UThis is exactly the problem today. Why are you asking people to file fake cases? Because of people like you, actual woman who need help are not being able to be helped. The police and courts are so overwhelmed with bogus cases that it’s making a mockery of laws. Maybe someone should file a fake case on people like you and ruin your life so you’d understand the value of not filing a fake or bogus case.
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DHigh Court has the power to transfer the case from one subordinate court to another, on certain specific grounds such as financial difficulties, inconvenience etc. of the parties. But that’s a discretionary power and may/may not be granted.
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SI earn twice him on paper. I cannot prove his other income sources. My issue is work is getting affected n he doesn’t even appear, gives 500, then 1000 fine atleast for each thing. DV evidence just happened a week ago where I filed it in Jan 2023. He is still asking for my salary slip when I did not ask for maintenance or alimony and submitted my true affidavit of income in jan 2024. It’s too unsafe in Faridabad with police on his side.
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CYou have to file transfer petition in Supreme Court. There are high chances that the court will rule in your favour. The best he will get is appearing in those cases thru vc.
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KYou should have given it a bit more time, 10 months is way too little to judge a life long relationship maybe he could have improved himself.
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SHe threw me out 25 times at night.
He took 15+ lakhs in account n was asking for more 15 in one go otherwise he would kill me n my parents
He would not take me anywhere
He was taking my salary n using it as his own n I was deprived of food I only cooked 🤷
This is too little that I share n I did not even mention what his mom didMy parents got to know on my first birthday after 8+ months that he use to throw me out on nights in drunk state because they called me at 12 am n I was crying top voice standing on road when he threw me
He told my parents straight on face he married me for me
Muj jesi moti mei aur kuch nhi haiI had zero life there?
Everyone in this world needs to understand not all men are same. I recieved the worst as a husband. Men in family dint trust me either initially but he repeated everything in seperation.
He threw his own mom out of my maika on the trespassing night n it got captured on CCTV because we called her at 11:30 pm to take him so we didn’t have to call police as my joint property which they had captured from me illegally was a building away
I was told by Neighbors to not go out alone because he threatened Neighbors for their lives during sepration who showed up on tresspassing night . They were rwa I knew no one. I have no contact with them.
He cannot improve in short.
There is soooo much I have gone thru
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KI am really sorry sister for all the pain and suffering you had to go through.It was a bitter phase of your life and I hope things get settled mutually/or by law asap.
I hope God gives your parents and you the strength to forget all those bad nights you had to go through and start afresh.
I wish I could help you with any legal advice but I don’t have the knowledge for the same.
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SI forgot to mention his cousin mentioned before my parents
The girl is a wrong hire – “isne humara ladka nhi sudhara” n very rudely not in a joking way at all
And added I was a zero – inspite of paying equally in joint account – I did not do anything for the home. I put 3 servants to work and paid them personally not thru joint account. Bought groceries separately thru my credit card which was not joint. N did uncountable things. I just landed a scam company I feel after being called a wrong hire
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SYou are wasting your life in exchange for monetary gains. Even if he is convicted in courts after 7-9 years of battle, you do end up getting money. What then ? Life is to live and enjoy. Please evaluate your priorities and move on. Good luck !
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