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JPlease get her an abortion asap. Deal with the law later. She being pregnant is worse than you being concerned about the law, this goes for both of you.
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PWithout aadhar no gynac will see her. Aadhar is most frequently asked at every sonography center and registration number of gynac prescribing usg.
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UNot a comment to help but sad to know in our country teenagers are following western ways now, in a few years at this rate 16 years old kids will be parents. Not that they can’t study and have a career after having kids that young but India has changed a lot in the past decade and it’s hard to accept in my head. What happened to parents who said your body is a temple and should only be given to your husband after marriage or was that just mine when I was in high school more than 10 years ago?
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UYes, this is not a comment to help. Stop pretending young Indians were never having sex, you’re living in delusion land.
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UWell when I was in high school in Kerala, India a decade ago none of the girls or boys I knew were sexually active. People were in the kind of love where you max hold hands and I say this because that’s what I did. Having sex was a thing to do after marriage. However, I have heard college going kids were having sex but never teenagers. Maybe I was in a delusional land…
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SGo consult an experienced gynecologist. Don’t do anything stupid like gharelu nuskhe n all. You’ll put her life in danger. Stick with her. Don’t leave her alone in this situation. You enjoyed the good part now be with her in her bad times.
Please talk to an adult. Don’t deal alone in such situation. You guys are too young to understand and deal.
Lastly clam your nerves. Think and act. Don’t act and think
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UYou’re going to jail if the parents of the girl file a case, consent doesn’t mean a thing, you do intercourse with a minor, you go behind bars. My father is a lawyer and handled a similar situation where the girl under pressure of her parents and society claimed that her bf raped her
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Ureading this post made me realize I’m old lol.
Get a trusted sibling or older cousin in their late 20s or 30s because you’re very young to handle doctors and questions and will likely make the situation worse
Get the MTP asap please.
also, focus on your education and career please, all these can wait
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UDon’t get scared, just go to any minimal private doc (gynaecologist) and tell the doc about the case. Because doctors doesn’t judge this things the more the time passes the more you’ll both get into risk. And as everything is on consent and she is with you it won’t be turning up as a problem. These days if you provide enough money to the doctor and if get right suggestion of doctor then you’re very safe to visit..
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UOh! Jesus. I have been in this situation twice. Please consult a good doc ( take several opinions and go for non- judgmental one). Also, you might possibly be given 2 options based on the circumstances ( i am not saying w certainty just my experience)
Either you’ll be given MTP kit or they’ll have to surgically remove it.
MTP kit is cheap but it doesn’t come with 100% guarantee, as it failed in my case and eventually have to go for the surgery.PLEASE PLEASE BE THERE FOR HER, GO TO EVERY CONSULTATION WITH HER. EVERY ULTRASOUND. JUST BE THERE FOR HER. I CAN’T STRESS THIS ENOUGH.
P.S : take care of yourself and her. It’ll pass.
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UI am scared for OP. Don’t do anything stupid and harm the girl. Know that this is a life changing situation both ways for her. I know every gynac asked this question when you do go to them normally about abortion or whether it’s your first kid. This might be when the girl is married and about 28-29 years old and with her husband. I wouldn’t want my enemy also in this situation and reading about posco and stuff is just depressing. Poor couple when ahead of themselves and had intercourse and are now fckd
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SDekh bhyii seedhi baat h, she is not 18.EOD, be a man and go talk to your parents first…maarenge peetenge, bs jaan se thodi na maar denge…
You have no idea how bad things could turn out if even a doctor agreed to perform an abortion.
FYI -no registered doctor will operate on a minor as its legal and can cause the termination of licence.
And if they did it then they will suck out hell lot of money from you and i m sure k kuch na kuch complication honge hi aapki gf ko..
Best course of action h k talk to your father and be a man .. -
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