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CMy boyfriend’s ex has been obsessively harassing both of us. They were in an online relationship about 4 years ago, but they never met in person because her family was extremely strict and didn’t allow her to go out. Despite several attempts, my boyfriend was unable to break up with her earlier because she would emotionally manipulate him, often threatening to harm herself if he left. Even after he officially broke up with her a year ago, she continues to call and verbally abuse us. She’s fully aware that we’re together now, yet she repeatedly calls both of us, insults us, and refuses to respect our boundaries. Ironically, she is a lawyer but doesn’t seem to understand the concept of personal space or the right to move on. Recently, her sister also got involved and verbally abused us, further affecting our mental health. The situation has become increasingly toxic and disturbing. My boyfriend never visited her in the past out of fear for his safety, as there were serious concerns about potential harm (her family has some history) if he went to meet her. We both are mentally exhausted, kindly suggest us what should we do?
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CAs I said her sister is abusing both of us. The worst part is that she tells us not to contact her sister but her sister is the one who’s calling us everyday.
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PKeep evidences of harming herself. This is mental torture, Harassment keep screenshots. If possible go to nearby police station and register a complain.
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CWe’ve recorded everything, but she keeps behaving like a psychopath. Just yesterday, she said that her family would have never accepted their relationship and that everyone in her family would be against her. Yet, she’s still trying to get back with him, even though she says she won’t go against her family. When I tried to talk to her, she called me a prostitute and all sorts of other things.
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PThere is a legal solution..it is called an injunction order. You can ask an advocate to send a cease and desist legal notice to her. If she continues to harrass, then file a civil suit for perpetual injunction against her. This should shut her up.
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WHow was it a relationship if they never met in person? Did they exchange nudes? Her being a lawyer & a woman in India, is there a chance of her legally using such things against him?
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CWell, my boyfriend told her in the very first month of their relationship that he wouldn’t continue a long-distance relationship. He couldn’t go to her either because her family is quite powerful, and there have been several honour killing cases in that area. So, he never went, and she never came despite being financially independent while my boyfriend was still in college. Yes, they did exchange nudes, but my boyfriend deleted them right after their break-up. The context here is that she calls us almost every day mostly me just to say filthy things, like accusing me of doing black magic on him because I’m Bengali, or questioning my upbringing by claiming I’m trying to steal him. Honestly I am scared that my boyfriend might face false charges against him because she’s very manipulative and cunning.
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WI too fear the fake charges only in such cases. It’s better if your bf doesn’t acknowledge having exchanged nudes in the past in case she deliberately brings up the topic. She being a well connected lawyer, this can be used to establish past intimacy, & a case of sexual exploitation on the pretext of marriage can be made. I am not a lawyer though.
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