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U5 days ago my classmate borrowed **4000** rupees saying he urgently needed it as he got caught by police for some issue. He said that he could not withdraw from him trading account so he needed it urgently and promised to return **ASAP**.Only because told ASAP I sent him money. He keeps telling today and tomorrow but now he’s not **even picking my calls**. I got a message from my bank that i will be charged for not maintaining minimum balance. Today morning I had called him usually for the money and he’s dad picked and I used the chance and I told his dad that he owe’s me money and explained everything that happened and the reason he borrowed money from me.It’s almost the month end and every penny is important to me as a college student and seems like i cannot survive this month without that money as I stay alone and I can manage for food 1-2 days maximum. He later started abusing me today by afternoon that why did I complain to his dad about the money. Then again i warned him to give the cash and again he’s not picking any of my calls and replying my messages too. **Tomorrow is my last exam if I cannot catch hold of him IRL, literally the whole month I’ll have to suffer**. I’ve learnt one fine lesson that i shouldn’t help anyone no matter the reason. Kindly tell guide me to get my money back from him people.
**Thanks in advance!**
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UI called them,they told if you know the person personally you have to file a complaint in the police station and they will call the guy.
Man being honest if I go to police station and file a complaint it will be a big scene and also these police won’t do it for free there only my 1-2k will spent for police to make few calls-
UJust write a letter to banks customer care or grievance redressal and ask them to raise a chargeback
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ULocate where he hangs out publicly, and when he’s out, have someone else ask to use his phone for an emergency call, then discreetly take it. This could give you some leverage—just a thought to work with.
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Uif he would want to return, he would have especially after his father getting to know
4k wont be worth the hassle for any complaint in any police department
maybe consider this as a lesson and move one so that you are atleast stress free-
UHopefully he’ll return but I don’t wanna move on man. That is very big money for me, literally i could survive a month or more with that money for my food. I don’t wanna tell my parents about this usually they send me money during 1st week of the month only
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Ustaying in hope is good, but excessive hope is bad
rn ask your parents for money if you low on cash, if your friend returns the amount- send the money back to your parents -
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SI don’t think he has the dad’s number, the dad just happened to answer the friends phone call that one time.
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BAm sure common friends will know where he stay. Just walk to his home and have a chat with his dad.
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IYou have Swiggy zomato at your place? If yes then I’ll donate you 2k coupon so that you can manage your food expenses. Forget this money. If it comes back then good. Never mix finance with friendship. Hard lessons of life we all learn. If you have to do it then always involve their parents or your parents as witness. That will make it easy.
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UUpdate : i caught him and took away his phone and he did not have any money currently with him so I took iWatch and will have it myself untill he returns it. He has promised to pay back by March 10th
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CDang he had I watch …the best thing you did…now listed this I watch on OLX …get 2-4 ppls in touch until 10th March,if he didn’t pay you…sell it
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UYou gave 4k to your friend and I gave 30k to my friend in need. Experience has its own charges to be paid
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