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SI’m 19F, I’ve been in relationship for 2 years with my ex but for some reason we broke. Now every time he sees me or does random calls and threatens me of sharing that chats with my dad and says He’ll leave a suicide note with my name on it and my career would be fkedup. He once attempted sucide. After breakup he came with 2-3 boys nd forced me to come with him, took my phone, that mf physically abused me, Basically he’s a psychopath, and I did contacted his parents, his mom, that bitch just cursed me for that suicide attempt she’s didn’t even bothered to look what her son did to me nd started verbally abusing me instead
I’ve not told anything about this to my Dad, cause I’ll be seriously fcked up. Now if he comes again then I’ll tell my dad bout this
But what else should I do like if he does suicide, leaves a note mentions my name then?
Or should I call up some friends nd ask em to beat him up
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SLawyer here
Please talk to your dad first. Show him the chats and everything and tell him what is happening. Ask him to talk to the guy’s mother. If nothing happens please go and file a police complaint with your dad.
How the hell you think beating up a guy is the solution for this? You have your entire life ahead. Don’t do such stupid moves.
Please consult your dad and take appropriate steps
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PHere are some good resources.
https://www.stalkingawareness.org
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AYou didn’t realize in two years that such a situation might occur. Well it’s just like you can just give a positive response to that phycopath and deal politely just make him sure by doing such things he is just proving you wrong that you never need a partner who do such things let him give a chance to correct his all mistake and be gentle with him as a freind that might can help that guy to be on path again 🙏🏽❤️🩹😊
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SNAL. Unconventional advice.
Tell him you have already had coitus with someone else.
He will come to his senses. Have a proper story in place. -
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SNot legal advice just advice from a guy who saw the post he’s not gonna stop even if you get a new boyfriend but ignoring him will be the best thing you can do I can tell you now that if you give him atleast just a smidge of attention he will still think you’re in love with him and do stupid stuff so act like he doesn’t exist do go out alone block anything and everything about him and please take care some boys are dumb and idiotic and do stupid stuff
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LNAL, Keep a record of everything. Screenshots, call records any other thing. You need to get authorities involved and chill a lot of men blackmail like that, but you don’t need to be scared for your life for that, if he’s physically abusing you like that, involve your parents, ik we don’t tell them because we’re scared we’ll be scolded and stuff but things are beyond that now. However, don’t be scared a lot of people commit ‘suicide’ for attention, they’re not trying to actually kill themselves but the get work done, even if do kill himself i don’t think you can be jailed for not being romantically involved with someone against your will.
DONOT try to beat him up and give anything to him and he can use against you
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SFile a attempted rape or rape charge against him, usually I’m against such tactics. But this boy is not going to commit suicide he just wants you, tomorrow he may come with his friends again and God knows what he will do. Take your parents into confidence and act against him, before situation gets out of hand.
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SHe actually tried… overdose of some pills and ended up in icu and her mother was cursing me. Their whole family is crap.
Yup I’ll do talk with my father bout this-
SYou need to file a police complaint where you will mention that he is trying to coerce you into sex by threatening suicide. This helps you in avoiding any liability if he takes any extreme steps, suicide or not he does not have a right to physically attack you. If his family members are abusive then implicate them as well.
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